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I have a bad FFFC.

I've been holding this in all day.

I didn't go in for my Rhogam shot. Embarrassed I didn't have the time on Tuesday, I didn't have time on Wednesday, I had time today but I decided to pick up Simon from DC and nap instead. I mean, who has two effing hours during the day to jack around at the hospital. It's so inconvenient! And as long as I have a successful pregnancy, we won't be having any more. I should have gone in, but I just couldn't.

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  • Isn't the Rhogam shot to keep your body from attacking the baby?

    Am I wrong? Isn't it necessary? ::looks around panicked and looks up plane tickets to Utah::

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  • Shame on you SB!!

    ....so glad I didn't have get that nasty shot.

  • Meh, its not big deal. 

    with my next pregnancy I will be opting out of the GD test 

     

    ETA: why are you getting it so early?? I got mine at 28 weeks 

  • My FFFC is that I wasn't sure why they wanted you to get the Rhogam shot, if they tested you last time and everything was clear then you shouldn't need one.

    Now, if you had to get one last pregnancy then I would tell you to go get it because then you need it.

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  • imageHotSauceonaStick:

    Isn't the Rhogam shot to keep your body from attacking the baby?

    Am I wrong? Isn't it necessary? ::looks around panicked and looks up plane tickets to Utah::

    I believe it prevents your body attacking future babies. Which SB I would get the shot, even if this is your last one you never know if an "oops" would happen (unless you or dh is getting snipped snipped)

  • I forget what the Rhogam shot does. Educate me please.
  • Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

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  • Also..why are you having it done so early? is it because you bleed?

    My Mom had to get one, but it was after she gave birth.

  • imageHotSauceonaStick:

    Isn't the Rhogam shot to keep your body from attacking the baby?

    Am I wrong? Isn't it necessary? ::looks around panicked and looks up plane tickets to Utah::

    No it protects your body from attacking the baby NEXT pregnancy. Something about building an immunity or god, I don't know. It's for the next one though.
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  • imageItaliannvegas:
    I forget what the Rhogam shot does. Educate me please.

    It has to do with you and your SO blood type. So if you are a + and SO a - your body will basically attack the baby because it is a different blood type (to put it simply)

    If you and SO are both - or + then you don't need the shot.

  • Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.
  • imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    yeah. I am thinking, I have a 90% chance of carrying this baby to term, plus there is a 50% chance this baby has negative blood type anyway. Bad logic I know, but hey.
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  • imageBrandi Bee:
    I wonder if I'd have to have one.  I'm O+ and hubby is A+.  They told me my body did attack Isla.  It just caused jaundice though.

    how did it cause jaundice, not being snarky, just  I had never heard that.

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  • imageBrandi Bee:
    I wonder if I'd have to have one.  I'm O+ and hubby is A+.  They told me my body did attack Isla.  It just caused jaundice though.

    Wha??? never heard of that before. DH and I are both + blood types, so I didn't have to get the shot because DS would only be a + too.

  • imageItaliannvegas:
    Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.

    No, it has to do with blood type. If mom is negative and dad is positive then the baby could be positive. Since the baby would have something in his/her blood that mom doesn't have, mom's body can see baby as a breech and send antibodies out to attack it.

    Basically. That's my non-medically educated answer.

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  • I thought you only needed it for a neg blood type. And BB, you're O+?? Doesn't that make you like, one in a million?
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  • imagesleepingbeauty825:
    I thought you only needed it for a neg blood type. And BB, you're O+?? Doesn't that make you like, one in a million?

    Uh oh...there goes her ego...  Confused

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  • imageHotSauceonaStick:

    imagesleepingbeauty825:
    I thought you only needed it for a neg blood type. And BB, you're O+?? Doesn't that make you like, one in a million?

    Uh oh...there goes her ego...  Confused

    Ohhhhh noes!! *mashes keyboard* I'm sorry!!
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  • imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    me too.  I'm picking you all up in the minivan.  I just happen to have 3 car seats too. Big Smile

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    imageItaliannvegas:
    Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.

    No, it has to do with blood type. If mom is negative and dad is positive then the baby could be positive. Since the baby would have something in his/her blood that mom doesn't have, mom's body can see baby as a breech and send antibodies out to attack it.

    Basically. That's my non-medically educated answer.

    I am A negative and DH is positive but I didn't have to get anything. I wonder why?

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  • imagesleepingbeauty825:
    imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    yeah. I am thinking, I have a 90% chance of carrying this baby to term, plus there is a 50% chance this baby has negative blood type anyway. Bad logic I know, but hey.

    What is the time table of when you need to have it?

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    imageHotSauceonaStick:

    imageItaliannvegas:
    Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.

    No, it has to do with blood type. If mom is negative and dad is positive then the baby could be positive. Since the baby would have something in his/her blood that mom doesn't have, mom's body can see baby as a breech and send antibodies out to attack it.

    Basically. That's my non-medically educated answer.

    I am A negative and DH is positive but I didn't have to get anything. I wonder why?

    . You didn't get a shot on your butt/hip?
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  • imagegrapeape73:
    imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    me too.  I'm picking you all up in the minivan.  I just happen to have 3 car seats too. Big Smile

    I want a minivan so friggin' bad.

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  • imageBrandi Bee:

    It's something called Coomb's positive.  Basically, my RBCs recognized Isla's as foreign?  And started destroying hers.  So that caused anemia, which in turn caused jaundice.  Or maybe it was the other way around.  I dunno, either way it freaked me the fvck out.

    I thought O neg was the really rare one.  Every time I go down to the blood bank they are low.

    oh I googled it. You're right, O- is more rare. That's my blood type!
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  • imagesleepingbeauty825:
    imageMCC1010:
    imageHotSauceonaStick:

    imageItaliannvegas:
    Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.

    No, it has to do with blood type. If mom is negative and dad is positive then the baby could be positive. Since the baby would have something in his/her blood that mom doesn't have, mom's body can see baby as a breech and send antibodies out to attack it.

    Basically. That's my non-medically educated answer.

    I am A negative and DH is positive but I didn't have to get anything. I wonder why?

    . You didn't get a shot on your butt/hip?

    Nope. Until I read this post I had never even heard of this

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  • My mom is O negative, and my dad is A Positive. I am A positive, so my mom had to get the shot to protect both me and any future children.  

    I found this.

     

    When Rh negative blood is exposed to Rh positive blood the Rh negative person begins producing antibodies to fight the invading blood. Antigens trigger your body to produce antibodies. Antibodies are usually a good thing and serve to protect a person from foreign invaders.

    Now the problem lies when a pregnant woman is carrying a baby that is Rh positive. If the mother has antibodies to the Rh antigen, those antibodies can attack the baby's red blood cells. This can lead to complications to the baby including anemia, jaundice, and other blood related problems
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  • imageHotSauceonaStick:

    imageItaliannvegas:
    Is every woman supposed to get this? Because I never got it when I was pregnant.

    No, it has to do with blood type. If mom is negative and dad is positive then the baby could be positive. Since the baby would have something in his/her blood that mom doesn't have, mom's body can see baby as a breech and send antibodies out to attack it.

    Basically. That's my non-medically educated answer.

    Ohhhhhhhh It's the Rh factor thing right? gotcha 

    No one mentioned that I needed this so I guess/assumed that DH and I are the same.

  • imagelulupinkerton:
    imagegrapeape73:
    imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    me too.  I'm picking you all up in the minivan.  I just happen to have 3 car seats too. Big Smile

    I want a minivan so friggin' bad.

    Only super cool moms who are comfortable with themselves can drive them.  

    I love it.  I will never go back to a regular sedan or SUV. 

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  • imagegrapeape73:

    My mom is O negative, and my dad is A Positive. I am A positive, so my mom had to get the shot to protect both me and any future children.  

    I found this.

     

    When Rh negative blood is exposed to Rh positive blood the Rh negative person begins producing antibodies to fight the invading blood. Antigens trigger your body to produce antibodies. Antibodies are usually a good thing and serve to protect a person from foreign invaders.

    Now the problem lies when a pregnant woman is carrying a baby that is Rh positive. If the mother has antibodies to the Rh antigen, those antibodies can attack the baby's red blood cells. This can lead to complications to the baby including anemia, jaundice, and other blood related problems
    Ugh now you're making me think I should try to get it. I wonder how long after I can get it? I don't want to hurt current baby.
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  • imagegrapeape73:
    imagelulupinkerton:
    imagegrapeape73:
    imagelulupinkerton:

    Was it for the bleeding? 

    Saucy- find me a ticket!!!

    me too.  I'm picking you all up in the minivan.  I just happen to have 3 car seats too. Big Smile

    I want a minivan so friggin' bad.

    Only super cool moms who are comfortable with themselves can drive them.  

    I love it.  I will never go back to a regular sedan or SUV. 

    I am not one of those moms.

    I am drooling over the new Tahoes. However, we're still upside down in mine, so we will not be buying a newer one anytime soon!

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  • imagesleepingbeauty825:
    imagegrapeape73:

    My mom is O negative, and my dad is A Positive. I am A positive, so my mom had to get the shot to protect both me and any future children.  

    I found this.

     

    When Rh negative blood is exposed to Rh positive blood the Rh negative person begins producing antibodies to fight the invading blood. Antigens trigger your body to produce antibodies. Antibodies are usually a good thing and serve to protect a person from foreign invaders.

    Now the problem lies when a pregnant woman is carrying a baby that is Rh positive. If the mother has antibodies to the Rh antigen, those antibodies can attack the baby's red blood cells. This can lead to complications to the baby including anemia, jaundice, and other blood related problems

    Ugh now you're making me think I should try to get it. I wonder how long after I can get it? I don't want to hurt current baby.

    Does that mean that if one parent is + and the other - that is when you need the shot? because I have no idea what rh stands for. Reading that just confused me even more

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  • imagesleepingbeauty825:
    imagegrapeape73:

    My mom is O negative, and my dad is A Positive. I am A positive, so my mom had to get the shot to protect both me and any future children.  

    I found this.

     

    When Rh negative blood is exposed to Rh positive blood the Rh negative person begins producing antibodies to fight the invading blood. Antigens trigger your body to produce antibodies. Antibodies are usually a good thing and serve to protect a person from foreign invaders.

    Now the problem lies when a pregnant woman is carrying a baby that is Rh positive. If the mother has antibodies to the Rh antigen, those antibodies can attack the baby's red blood cells. This can lead to complications to the baby including anemia, jaundice, and other blood related problems

    Ugh now you're making me think I should try to get it. I wonder how long after I can get it? I don't want to hurt current baby.

    Call your OB and tell him you needed a nap if he gives you any crap.  They wanted you to get it because of the early bleeding. 

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  • Is your son negative? If he is you don't have anything to worry about. If he is positive you will need one with the next pregnancy just in case the next baby is positive as well.
  • imagegrapeape73:

    My mom is O negative, and my dad is A Positive. I am A positive, so my mom had to get the shot to protect both me and any future children.  

    I found this.

     

    When Rh negative blood is exposed to Rh positive blood the Rh negative person begins producing antibodies to fight the invading blood. Antigens trigger your body to produce antibodies. Antibodies are usually a good thing and serve to protect a person from foreign invaders.

    Now the problem lies when a pregnant woman is carrying a baby that is Rh positive. If the mother has antibodies to the Rh antigen, those antibodies can attack the baby's red blood cells. This can lead to complications to the baby including anemia, jaundice, and other blood related problems

    Yes, this is why only Rh negative women need the shot and technically if your DH is negative as well it's not necessary.  I had a nurse argue for 10 mins with me that her patient needed rhogam because the baby was Rh positive, but so was the mom, there was no incompatibility.  If you're negative and your H is positive they give one shot at 28 weeks and another after birth if it turns out the baby is positive.  If the baby is negative the 2nd shot isn't necessary.

    Side note: ABO incompatibility can also cause jaundice because mom's cells attack the baby's.  Like a pp I'm an O and DD was an A.  A blood cells have an antigen on them that O blood cells don't so my body recognized her blood as foreign and attacked - it's a very common cause of jaundice.  There are actually quite a few blood antigen incompatibilities that can cause jaundice in a newborn, but Rh is the only one tested for because it's the most severe.

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  • You should just go get the shot.  I don't know why you would mess around with this.  At least call your dr and discuss the risks. 
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    You should just go get the shot.  I don't know why you would mess around with this.  At least call your dr and discuss the risks. 
    we already went over why I haven't done it. Here's the thing, if it were just "hey, get this shot" that would be one thing, but it's not. I have to go in, get my blood drawn, wait (in the hospital- can't leave) for 2+ hours for them to test the blood, THEN "make an appointment" with the Women's Center to get a shot- they can usually do it right away but you need an appointment. I don't have that kind of free time just lying around willy nilly.
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  • I'm reading a whole lot of false info here, so here's the break down (sorry if this was clarified, I didn't want to read the whole thing.)

    The shot is when the mom is Rh- (doesn't matter O, A, B, or AB) and the father is Rh+ (again, the actual blood type doesn't matter). This means that the dad's blood has a protein that the mom's doesn't. If there's better from the baby, like if his/her side of the placenta gets a cut, there's a chance that the baby's blood might mix a little with the mom's blood. Rh+ tends to be the dominant gene, so chances are, the baby is Rh+. The mom's blood will build up antibodies to the Rh protein and will attack it. Like any other allergic response, you need to be exposed to the thing twice before it'll cause harm. Now while the placenta does not allow blood to cross, the antibodies do, and it can cause harm to the baby, this one (less likely) and future (a lot more likely).

    SB, I really would reconsider and get the shot. 1. how do you know that this is your last? You can have another opps or you can change your mind about going for one more 2. God forbid you lose this baby, you may want another 3. if you spot again, it can cause trouble in this pregnancy. 





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  • O- is needed at blood banks because it is the universal donor. I am O-. Anyone, regardless of blood type, can accept O blood. Since I am negative, it means that my blood can be given to someone that is +, because they won't have an issue. Someone with -can't have blood with the + proportion, so that is why O+ is not universal. Hopefully that makes sense. I just wanted to clarify BB's concern about how they are always low at the blood bank. It is because they are always in need of it since it can be given to anyone.
  • Did you doctor recommend the shot after the bleeding or is the shot a been planned all along sort of thing?

    Doctors encourage women  to get the RH shot when they're a negative blood type especially with with SCH. It's a precaution so that your body doesn't build antibodies that will basically attack the pregnancy. It's not all that bad but with the SCH, your uterine wall and placenta may already been a little weakened.

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