TTC After a Loss

Would like to hear positive stories. Getting down and needing to stay positive.

Hi ladies I just want through my 3 miscarriage in 10 months back in July. I have undergone so many test I am not even sure what they are testing for anymore. Anyway very thing that has been tested and looked at has come back normal and great. I still have one test that I am waiting for and that is the Chromosome test. I hoping and praying that one comes back fine as well. I wasn't nevus about it until I started looking into what it was about and what kinds of out comes. My husband and I just want to be able to start our family so bad and are starting to feel a bit hopeless. So I guess what I am asking is if anyone is willing to share their story in long or brief from on what kinds of out comes you have had. Thanks so much Trying to keep my head up.

Re: Would like to hear positive stories. Getting down and needing to stay positive.

  • I am so sorry for your losses. We've all had those feelings of hopelessness. I am hoping some of the multiple loss ladies from PGAL see this and chime in!

    ETA: I myself am a multiple losser but in between some of those losses I have had success. So I tell myself that if it happened once, it can happen again. It's so hard to be positive though, I know ((hugs))

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  • Hello fellow Canuck. (I'm from Eastern Quebec though, the other side of the country). I'm so sorry for your losses.

    You have absolutely found the right board if you are looking for support during your TTCAL journey. I, however, am not sure what kind of positive stories you are looking for. Those of us that are a part of this community are still trying to conceive, though granted some for their 2 or 3 baby. Perhaps you want input from them? If not, PGAL or PAL is an inspiring place since many of us here have made our way over there after repeated losses. They are always happy to share their stories on the road to taking home a little one. I wish you the best, and do sincerely hope you stick around.

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  • I am so sorry for your losses.  We would love to welcome you to the board, but jillcanada is right that you may not find too many stories of inspiration here, as everyone here is still trying to conceive.  You can definitely find support here though. 

    Personally, I gave birth to a healthy son after 3 1/2 years of TTC and one early loss.  Then I had another loss in July.  Some women's journeys are longer and bumpier than others, but I have had one success so far and am not giving up on another.

    We all understand that feeling of hopelessness and wondering if it will ever happen for us. It's also hard when no one seems to have an answer. I hope the rest of your testing goes well.   (Hugs) 

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  • I had 2 losses in the span of 8 months, and I know how painful it can be. I'm pregnant again now, scared to death, but things are looking good this time around. You can PM me if you want to talk, or if you have questions. ((hugs))
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  • I'm sorry for your losses.
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