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Shoulda, coulda, woulda punched this chick in the face

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but I didn't out of respect for my friends. I was at a wedding last night and as we stood for the Bride and Groom to exit the lady behind me said:

Oh! Not much longer huh dear?

Me: About 8 weeks if she decides to stay in there that long

Her: 8 weeks! That's 2 more months! Hunny, that baby is gonna be HUGE!

Well f*ck you very much you stupid twat. 

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  • lisa5804lisa5804 member
    Ugh! I felt the exact same way the other day when someone made that comment to me.  People are so stupid sometimes!! What do they expect someone at 32 weeks to freakin' look like?!
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  • uluvfrankeuluvfranke member
    I always get that sh!t. It makes me so mad sometimes. I dont even mind when people say "wow look at that belly" or anything like that... but the baby being huge or when they say " you arent gonna make it more than a few days" piisses me off.
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  • photojunky050209photojunky050209

    imageuluvfranke:
    I always get that sh!t. It makes me so mad sometimes. I dont even mind when people say "wow look at that belly" or anything like that... but the baby being huge or when they say " you arent gonna make it more than a few days" piisses me off.

     

    I got this today at the store to. They were an old couple so I don't think they meant any harm but the man asked me when I was gonna "drop my child" and I said around the first of December. The lady then laughed and said don't think your gonna last that long dear! Awesome.

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  • pirateragdollpirateragdoll
    At 6 months I kept hearing that I looked like I was ready to pop. I mean c'mon people, has no one EVER seen a woman who was truly about to pop?!
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  • emriley84emriley84 member
    Ugh, I get these comments all the time too. Luckily now, it really is any day now, so I don't feel as bad. People at work always said things like you're never gonna make it til october, you're huge, etc. Guess what, my due date has come, and nearly gone and my little one is still snug as a bug in there.
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  • MrsHersheyMrsHershey member
    I know how you feel.  I just posted a note I wrote on FB on this very same thing.  Only 8 more weeks of ignorant comments to you.  Then you will get unsolicited advice & people talking to the baby as though you aren't there.
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  • Emjay221Emjay221 member
    imagephotojunky050209:

    but I didn't out of respect for my friends. I was at a wedding last night and as we stood for the Bride and Groom to exit the lady behind me said:

    Oh! Not much longer huh dear?

    Me: About 8 weeks if she decides to stay in there that long

    Her: 8 weeks! That's 2 more months! Hunny, that baby is gonna be HUGE!

    Well f*ck you very much you stupid twat. 

    Wow, hostile much? 

    Just ignore people's comments.  Last week no one could tell I was pregnant, then I bought maternity clothes and now ZOMG you're huge... they just talk crap to every pregnant woman. 

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  • kspieskspies member
    If you can't say anything besides, "you are beautiful!", don't say anything at all.
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  • TAMLVSCARLTAMLVSCARL member
    imageEmjay221:
    imagephotojunky050209:

    but I didn't out of respect for my friends. I was at a wedding last night and as we stood for the Bride and Groom to exit the lady behind me said:

    Oh! Not much longer huh dear?

    Me: About 8 weeks if she decides to stay in there that long

    Her: 8 weeks! That's 2 more months! Hunny, that baby is gonna be HUGE!

    Well f*ck you very much you stupid twat. 

    Wow, hostile much? 

    Just ignore people's comments.  Last week no one could tell I was pregnant, then I bought maternity clothes and now ZOMG you're huge... they just talk crap to every pregnant woman. 

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  • TAMLVSCARLTAMLVSCARL member
    I'd rather look pregnant than being mistaken for just being fat--that's how I look at it.
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  • mrskjcmrskjc
    At 32 weeks I kept hearing this: "and the best part is...you're only gonna get bigger" I should say, "yes, I know, I look abnormally huge now. We should all be so lucky as to see if my engorged abdomen can actually stretch for two whole entire more months." Maybe the uninformed men running society could be so kind as to spare us the brainwashed masses that still believe pregnancy is only supposed to be 9 months. 
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  • jessiesnwbrdjessiesnwbrd member

    imagepirateragdoll:
    At 6 months I kept hearing that I looked like I was ready to pop. I mean c'mon people, has no one EVER seen a woman who was truly about to pop?!

    This...I swear people don't know what a full term pregnant lady looks like!! If i get one more..."oh you're carrying low" I'm going to freak out! I'm a bigger girl, and no...that's not the baby, that's me, and thanks for making me feel like crap! People are idiots and try to think of something creative to say...when all they have to say is congratulations.

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