I keep waffling back and forth about how much we should actually be buying for LO for Christmas. I realize that they will be almost (or alteast) a month old at this point and wont have any idea, but I feel kind of bad knowing that we will be spending as much as we will on DS and barely anything on the baby.
With DS, he was due on Christmas day (ended up being a day late) so we only got him a few small things in case he was here on time.
What are your buying plans when it comes to LO?
Re: Buying for LO for winter holidays?
I bought one first Christmas outfit and plan to buy a few books for the baby's nursery/library. I plan to buy a few books for my neice to be born in Nov as well. Nothing else really.
I'm a pretty big proponent of the whole, "they don't know what they're getting for birthdays/Christmases for the first couple of years" and the whole "other people will buy plenty of toys for the baby" way of thinking, so hopefully I'll be able to resist all the cutesy stuff and leave that for the aunties and grandmas to buy and stick to more practical stuff.
I plan on making some keepsakes for our baby's first Christmas.
I've embroidered a Christmas onesie and I want to make a Christmas ornament with the date on it and a stocking. Not sure what I'll put in it though.
DD #1 passed away in January 2011 at 14 days old due to congenital heart disease
DD#2 lost in January 2012 at 23 weeks due to anhydramnios caused by a placental abruption
LO is due on the 6th, so he'll be here by Xmas. But I don't think we'll buy anything for him.
DH and I don't even buy presents for each other. We just set a small limit (usually less than $50 each) and stuff each others stockings. So I'll probably get a cute little stocking for LO and fill it with his orniment for the tree or something like that. Probably a "baby's first xmas one".
My mom used to get each kid an orniment every year and I thought the tradition was neat. So DH and I have done that for ourselves as well. Each year we get a new orniment for the tree and try to write the year on it somewhere. We either get one around Xmas time that we like or pick one up during the year if we go on vacation or something like that.
I'm due on Christmas, so we'll do a stocking and maybe one small gift just in case baby arrives on time, but only because our first DD will be 2 and will probably ask where the gifts for baby are.