so depressed about my weight gain today...

rfkenney · October 2010

I went from being 138 to my current weight-- a whopping 188 as of this morning. I passed my GD test, and I've been trying to watch the carb intake, but I haven't been as stringent as I should, I guess. And I'm paying the price for overindulging during those first few months. I keep telling myself that I'll lose the weight after Baby comes-- but somehow today that's just not helping. Losing 50 lbs just seems so difficult. I feel fat and ugly. Thank God for a DH who still tells me I'm beautiful-- although sometimes it makes me want to smack him cause I feel like he must be lying... Smile

lderea · October 2010

I haven't gained quite as much yet, but I have definitely gained more than I thought I should/would. My doctor isn't upset but I am! It's just such a difficult time!

I would definitely encourage you to keep watching what you eat and exercise, but don't be too hard on yourself! The stress isn't good for the baby, and dieting too hard isn't either. There are so many of us in your boat! Keep your head up, lady!

deziyou · October 2010

With my first pregnancy, I gained 50 lbs. I went from 125lbs. to 175 lbs. You'll be surprised t how much of that you lose after the baby is born. You're carrying 50 % more blood than what you're used to, much more water, a baby, placenta, etc. That all factors in as well. I would just be careful as to what you eat from this point on. Decemeber will be here before we know it! Don't stress over it too much! In the end, the baby will be worth it!

lulu8109 · October 2010

Aww, I'm sorry you're bummed. At least you have a supportive hubby

I was feeling down last night about my weight gain too. I know it's for a good cause. I'm ALWAYS hungry. I just literally can't stop myself from eating! And I always crave sweets and carbs.

Just do what I do... I keep reminding myself that it's all for a good cause. And just try to snack healthily when possible. I try to balance all the sweets with healthier stuff like hummus and carrots and cheese and crackers.

Mommysaurus123 · October 2010

If your doctor isn't concerned about your weight gain, I wouldn't worry too much. I think as long as you keep yourself and your LO healthy, you'll be fine. Good luck though... and you ARE beautiful! DHs are great at reminding us. I think they're just so happy that we are growing people for them.

cc605 · October 2010

I've gained 33lbs so far and trust me I didn't start out anywhere NEAR your starting weight. I've been food journaling to help me be more aware of what I'm eating plus since it's cooled off I've been walking every night.

I gained 45lbs with DS and lost all of it by 9 months and then lost another 20lbs by 12 months. It does come off!! I would stress yourself out about it too much, especially if your DR isn't concerned.

ChristineRich06 · October 2010

I hear you. As of yesterday I had gained 26lbs. I didn't see MY Dr. but the one I saw said I was at the high end of what they like to see & just to be careful. My issue is that I had just lost 50lbs when I found out I was pregnant. I have always been over weight & I was so proud of myself. Now it's all coming back. I try not to worry about the numbers but it's hard. I didn't start to lose anything with DD until I stopped breastfeeding at 19 months. I know what you mean about the DH thing too, I feel the same way. I guess we just have to remember that they love us no matter what.

It's only a couple of more months, we'll make it.

PunkyBooster · October 2010

I really think you can expect to lose half of that in the hospital then the rest will come off the first year. No big deal! Your body is doing an amazing thing!

kqwilson · October 2010

I TOTALLY understand how you feel. At 28 weeks, I was up 35 pounds. And to be honest I am sure i'll hit 50+ by the time this is over... BUT, my good friend gained 60+ lbs when she was pregnant, and 8 months later is back to her normal size. It gives me hope and encourages me, but I agree, it is really hard to see the numbers keep climbing, and to feel so big. At least for me it is!

erind0213 · October 2010

I am plus size to begin with, and have gained between 30-40 lbs as of 29 weeks.

My Dr. does not seemed concerned as my Blood Pressure has been normal to low, and I passed my GD test.

The weight gain has been tough for me to "stomach" because in the 3 year prior I was nearly 75lbs lighter then I am now, but as soon as I went off the pill I gained a quick 25lbs, and then due to thyroid issues I put on a couple more.

But as everyone else said, its for a good cause, and you can expect to lose a good portion around the time of delivery.

heyitsme · October 2010

I'm right there with you. I gained 50 pounds with my DD and am heading that way again with this baby (if not more). (((HUGS))) I do know how frustrating it feels, especially when the numbers seem so different... I was 162 at my first appointment with DD and 212 the day I delivered her. It took me until she was 6 months old to get to my pre-pregnancy weight, but it can be done!

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