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For the record......Long....
As my baby was sleeping and my husband was on a motorcycle ride yesterday, I was sitting there on the computer, trying to figure out what this hate thing Yankeebaby has against me, and I found out some things.
First I was thinking ok, I posted 2 posts that did not come out the way I wanted them to, if you read further into those posts you will figure out what I was really trying to get to. It was horribly embarrassing.
2nd, I posted something about ear piercing that Yankeebaby did not like, ok, I am learning that this is a cultural thing, I am starting to respect that now.
So I dug deeper.....I found something that puzzled me...there were 2 things I didn't even post on this post....Re: So Everyone can see I don't hid behind secret posts! Good grief, that was boring and long. Take that else where. Write personal messages to those people...and...Snore....zzzzzz..why am I reading this? Yankeebaby's response I don't know SINCE WE ARE NOT IN YOUR HEAD. You tell us.
Well I think I figured it out...My SIL's husband up and left about 5 months ago...we have found out he has done some pretty horrible things, which we are all shocked about, anyway, that was the week I texted him telling him to stay away from me and the baby...it upset his daughter who now turned 18 and she was mad at me. She can be TROUBLE sometimes. I was home that day on my flex day, and all I can think of is that this website was minimized and she and her sister and my SIL live next door, and they come over all the time to see the baby. She wanted paybacks against me for what I did and she must have thought this was funny. I think I am going to let it go, because my husband wants me to stay out of it now. That is all I can think of.
Ok, so let me go further...Yankeebaby posts a post about what my problem was, obviously I was not on, or I would have first been confused, and then answered. Then I find out she is putting me on some sort of call out hate board which is very hurtful.
All I wanted to do was have fun on here, learn things, and state stories and opinions, and instead I am like the center of hate which wasn't even my fault.
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Re: For the record......Long....
And this post is only going to make it worse.
I am a regular and had no idea you were the "center of hate" so I think you might be being a tad bit sensitive.
Huh?
1. I had no idea there was beef between you and yankeebaby
2. Are you trying to say that inflmmatory/offensive things you have written were written by someone else?
::breaks out in song "why can't we be friends why can't we be friends"::
[color=#FF0000]Mom to 5 girls 23,22,18,9,7 and one sweet Wonderboy almost 4[/color]
The Chaos of Six!
I know this post was written in English but I only understood about 5 words of it.
I'll say this: Yankeebaby and I have some very different philosophical beliefs on some topics, but I've never felt hate/anger from her at all. I know we disagree and we've just respectfully left it at that. I always look forward to reading her posts and hope it will help my mind to grow and consider things in a different way.
There are people on these boards who get hateful and mean when people disagree. Those folks often resort to name-calling but I've never noticed YB to be one of them. I am an overly sensitive gal and take stuff pretty personal but I think maybe you are just a teensy bit over worried?
First off: huh?
Second: SA is totally correct. There are people that don't like me, and there are people that I don't care for. I don't sit up at night worrying about what a bunch of internet strangers think of me.
Just take a deep breath, and let it go. No biggie.
And we have all heard the "someone got on my computer and posted as me" excuse before. It really doesn't make a difference to me.
Please stop perpetrating the circle of hate!
Dude...this was perfect.
Because this was my face about 2 seconds ago.
lmao!! My sound is on mute and this is still funny.
Can I perpetrate the circle of coherent expression?
Yes, I am absolutely telling the truth about not writing that.
Yeah, you are right, who cares......she has got to be the rudest person on this website who thinks her way is the only right way...
*runs off to make Team Star and Team Yankee badges*
Really? After the whole angst in the original post about why you think she doesn't like you? REALLY?
well I'm glad to see I lost my crown as the rudest person on this website.
But in all seriousness, you need to relax. I happen to like yankee and boarderline stalk her, and I was clueless that you were a center of hate for her.
What Simply Atomic said. I am on here every day and have no idea what this is all about.
But..
How can anyone hate someone they haven't even met? Seriously, the way some people act on TB makes me wonder if they would treat someone the same IRL.
Don't sweat the small stuff, some one not liking you on here is not that big a deal.
Maybe you won them over with your charm.
I highly doubt you were the rudest person on this website. Weren't you just a run of the mill know it all?
I consider you to be one of the most sanest voices of reason on here, by the way.
haha thats right. I'm just a know it all. I embrace that title though. No one better try to take it from me.
And thank you
Yes, I definitely consider us on the opposites ends of the spectrum on politics but I do enjoy your posts which is why I always respond to them.
A. I need an interpreter.
B. Get some big girl panties.
I am confused on so many levels. I can't understand most of the OP. Second, what little I do understand, I haven't heard an ounce of drama regarding it.
I'm on the bump way too much and I have seen NOTHING involving you and Yankee.
And I can't for the life of me understand your post.
This is true. The only time it isn't true is when you're the voice of reason on one of my insane posts and then of course you're in the wrong and I am not
I consider the red star to be misleading. This is not a drama riddled post like I expected.
Absolutely
If that's what she is referring to, then I would say no, yankee was just the quickest person to reply. 99% of the people who read that post thought exactly what yankee posted.
I was feeling like an outsider over on 3-6 so I moved over here a couple days early... This post makes me feel at home again!
After reading this twice, I *think* you're saying that there were two responses in IV's "I don't hide behind secret posts" post that you claim your niece or whoever wrote under your SN? And then you're apparently quoting them and YB's responses without putting in quotes or anything. At least, I think that's what is going on.
I don't know why you're bringing up a post that is WAY old. If anybody cared what you said in that thread, I'm pretty sure they've forgotten about it -- whether you wrote those responses or not. This is one of those situations where even if you discover that someone is posting under your SN, people are highly unlikely to believe you even if by some chance it happens to be true.
You should've just let it go and gone on with your regularly scheduled posting. Bringing it up just stirs the pot. Unless that's what you were aiming for.
DD1, 1/5/2008 ~~~ DD2, 3/17/2010
You, Yankee and Carney are my faves!
Thank you!
No I was not trying to stir the pot...I try to forget it, but it seems like a lot of the times I try to say anything on here, she has some smart a.. remark, and I wasn't exactly sure why, but now I know what happened. Whatever, I don't care anymore...Bye....
THIS
I am all confused! here lol
LMAO!