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Leaving DD for the 1st time tomorrow

isacdimi10isacdimi10 member
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Now what am I doing that I find it hard to leave DD for? A freaking amusement part. My dad recently stepped down from a position that gets him a lot of perks and he got my DH and I tickets to go to Dorney Park for the day and through their fright night.

I find I don't even want to go but I'm going to go and try to have fun. I feel guilty that the first time I'm not going to be with her is to have fun, I'm truly pathetic.

I actually contemplated telling DH my OB said I couldn't do stuff like that this soon after my c-section. When I actually asked her (just to see if I didn't have to lie) she told me that if I'm physically up to it my incision is healed up and I can do what I want now. After all I'll only be one week shy of 8weeks pp.

My mom is watching DD so I mean she will be held and snuggled all day.  

BFP #1 10/28/09 EDD 06/24/10- Miscarriage 11/2/09
BFP #2 11/30/09 EDD 08/12/10- Sophia Grace born 8/1/10
BFP #3 11/16/10 EDD 08/04/11- Samuel Richard born 7/28/11
BFP #4 01/04/12 EDD 09/19/12- Simon Nathaniel born 9/6/12
BFP #5 03/27/13 EDD 11/25/13- Savannah Lee born 11/18/13
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Re: Leaving DD for the 1st time tomorrow

  • nicobean1nicobean1 member

    I know what you mean, but why should you feel guilty about having some fun time? It'll be a great time for you and your DH to spend some QT together and your DD and her grandma can bond.

    Can your mom take pix with her phone? My mom and my IL's always take a couple pix here and there and text them to me to show me that DS is happy and that makes me feel so much better.

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