Hey guys-
This is a totally random question, but how many of you guys are okay with your husbands watching porn? I am totally against it, and I just found out that one of my best friends not only thinks its okay for her husband to watch it..but she watches it with him!! Call me jealous..but I could never imagine watching my husband "get off" on some other womens body.. Especially considering how gross I feel about my body right now! What are your thoughts?
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This for me, too. And when he does watch it, I am most certainly not jealous. He's only human.
No, it really doesn't bother me. The women he normally watches look like me. Porn, for us, is an enhancement like a vibrator or massage oils.
Plus, I would much rather my husband get it on with Rosie Palms and her 5 sisters while watching Anal Babes 27 than actually having sex with another woman.
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Same here
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This. It doesn't upset me at all. Sometimes, I just am not in the mood, so porn is good for those times.
I find it amusing when they have these numbers after them. I know it's the 27th video of the title, but when you go to buy something randomly like this, do you ever think the clerk believes you have 1 through 26? haha! It just makes me laugh a little inside.
He watches porn occasionally and also gets a bajillion porn clip emails from his friends. It doesn't bother me at all and I sometimes like to watch it with him for my own stimulation.
However, if he locked himself in the office and was watching porn alone every night and spanking it in front of the computer I may have second thoughts...
H enjoys porn and it's pretty much "saved" our marriage when my libido went to nil after getting knocked up. He has an outlet, I don't have to worry about doing it just to please him, and I'm not jealous or intimidated at all.
We have watched porn together. I have watched porn alone. I enjoy it. We have also gone to strip clubs together (in our crazier "dating" days, but still) so we might be a little more open to things than some.
I did have a bf in college who would watch/use porn allll the time and then have nothing left for me and THAT was a huge issue. He was definately addicted and it created a HUGE chasm of intamacy for us and ultimately led to our breakup after 5 1/2 years of dating.
With H, he's rather be having sex with me, but if I don't feel up to it or we don't see each other for a while, he "resorts" to his porn. To me that's totally different than porn taking my "place," if you know what I mean.
We sometimes watch it together. He gets stuff he knows I'll like since there is some porn I'm not a fan of. He watches it by himself on occasion (a lot this pregnancy since sex has pretty much been MIA) and I don't mind. I would mind if he was watching it all of the time or not having sex with me. I don't see the big deal as long as it isn't an addiction or substitution of me. I am secure with myself and know my DH loves me and finds me attractive. This also means he wants to have sex with me, all the time. So, no, I'm not jealous or worried.
this. and that is more entertaining for my husband than him watching it himself lol.
i dont know if I like it MORE, but I am totally down with watching...then proving I can do it better than THAT chick.
Your favorite porno is Deep Throat, isn't it?
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This. Not that DH doesn't think some of the women are attractive, but it is watching them have sex that is the turn on, not necessarily them. The men in porn are usually hideous, but it is still a turn on because watching sex is arousing. Make sense OP?
This. I ff through the blow job stuff and *** shots though. I will never understand why that is supposed to be arousing. *** turns my stomach for some reason, irl and in videos. I'm a weird one I suppose. Watching my dh j/o totally turns me on but seeing or feeling *** makes me ill.
yeah this happened in our house too and THAT did bother me. Its one thing if I am not home...because i do that myself...but when you "catch" them its almost sneaky. And when you are in the damn house...hello...I'd like to get on that too ha-ha
I have seen porn ruin a lot of marriages, and I've seen porn have absolutely no affect on marriages. Some things bother people, where other couples could care less.
For me, I do not want my husband watching porn. I am very secure, so it's not insecurity. I feel the same about strip clubs, etc.
But I think every couple is different on how they feel on the topic. Most of my friends are not Ok with it, but I see a lot of you women are perfectly fine with it, which is fine too.
DH and I feel this way as well. I'm a big time prude. Big time. Porn and prude don't go together.
Same here.
This.
My kinda lady lol!
So I think I am SUPER lucky to have a man that thinks that way but if he was the type to watch occasional porn (given he's not addicted) I truly wouldn't mind.
My ex was a huge porn guy but he watched it constantly and then proceeded to go out and cheat on me even though we had a steady sex life. That was too much, he's a sex addict and needs to lay off the porn.
There's a fine line between too much and an okay amount.
This exactly.
My husband and I sometimes watch porn together. It helps to get us in the mood a little quicker. He sometimes watches it by himself which doesn't bother me either. He has a higher sex drive then I do.
The only time I could see porn being and issue was if he was an addict and spent more time watching porn then being with me.
Me too!!!!!
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Claire Zoe, 10.26.10
I sometimes write erotic fiction for DH for his birthday/Christmas gifts. It's a lot of fun. We read it together, he gives me suggestions for future stories, and I get to share some of my own fantasies. I think it has really opened up our communication about sex to have a fun, safe way of trying out ideas.
But it definitely makes me realize how hard it is to do non-cheesy porn. There are only so many synonyms for certain words!
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