me and DH are contemplating what to do...we live in downtown chicago in a 1 bedroom apartment. We defintely are staying in the city, but are debating whether to try and get into a 2 bedroom in a different neighborhood. I really like where we live now because we have a doorman, in unit laundry, a covered parking garage, elevators, etc. i'm trying to decide if the extra space outweighs all of the luxuries...our lease is up in March so we have a little while to think about it.
Re: what do you live in? house, apartment?
Eventually the two rooms will be a life saver! We live in a house that we bought shortly after dd was born.
When we lived in our two bedroom apartment, she never used her room. She slept with us most of the time, or in a pnp in our room. Now that she's older, she sleeps in her crib in her own room, I couldn't share a room with her any more at her age! I think she'd see me in the middle of the night and just want me because I'm there!
We live in a 3bd/2.5bath townhouse, but we're moving out of state before the baby gets here. We'll be with B/SIL for a little bit until we find a house or apt. we like.
This is just me, but I don't think I'd mind being a 1bdrm for the first 6-9 months because the baby will likely be in your room for part of that anyway. But when the baby is closing in on 1 year then I think you might want more space.
and we had DS in our room until he was 6 mos old
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We live in a 3br house in the country with lots of land. I have goats for neighbours, literally. They are very sweet and friendly. No food ever goes to waste in my house. If bread is getting stale or the watermelon, too ripe, to the goats it goes!!
Right now we live in a 2 bedroom condo near UIC. However, the neighborhoods around us are a little questionable, so we plan to move into a 1 bedroom + den in the south loop. We definitely want the security of a doorman, the accessibility of living in the loop, etc. Personally, I don't think a nursery needs to be very large and I'd rather have luxuries over space. However, if you think you're going to buy all those baby items on the market, then you may want more space.
I'm in a less than ideal situation, as our lease is not up until June 1st. Additionally, my EDD is a few days after my last final. I was hoping we can get out of our lease early, but either way moving will not be fun. (I will be moving in the late stages of the pregnancy or moving with a newborn). I'm hoping for the impossible-that our landlord will have mercy and let us break our lease in the next few months.
Mom MD- cool! we live in south loop
i really think we will stay here for a little while...i really just feel safer with the doorman, and the in unit laundry will be really hard to find in roscoe villiage or bucktown...
we should meet for coffee one day!
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We live in a 4 BR, 2.5 BA house. We just moved into this house after living in a very small 2 BR condo for 6 years. I don't know if I just got so sick of that condo or if I just love this house, but I love having more space. We have 3 pets and they even seem so much happier with more space. I agree that you would probably be fine for the first 6 months or so, but after that you would really wish you had moved. Also, how much storage do you have? Babies come with so much stuff...would you have room for it in a 1 BR?
Good luck. Your place sounds really nice so I'm sure it won't be an easy decision.
We live in a 3/2 house but are upgrading to a 4/2.5 within the year hopefully. Our girls (8 and 4.5) share a room now, and our son (6) has his own room. The baby will be in our room for quite some time, but it would be nice to have larger rooms, a nursery/guest room, plus the house we are interested in now has a formal living room, formal dining room, AND a basement that is "almost" finished. But nobody watches our door...and we don't have a garage either. Your place sounds pretty sweet!
You'll be thankful for the additional room when LO starts STTN. I say go for the additional room.
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Right now, we live in a 1 bedroom apartment. We found out we were pregnant on a Monday 8/30, looked at a house on Wednesday and bought it that Friday. We've been looking for years (literally), and it's perfect for us. The ILs went to look at it with us and told us to write a check while we were there. We own the apartment building, and it was great to pay down debt (and have tenants pay the mortgage), it's way past time for a house. It's a 3/2.5 with a finished basement.
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