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Baby passed last night :(

Megg327Megg327
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After hours of cramps and a phone call to my OBGYN the baby passed. A whole new wave of emotions came with seeing the sac. I can't even go into work this morning because last night was so difficult. I have never felt pain like that in my life and I hope I never have to experience it again. :(
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  • jinx75jinx75
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I too had a m/c, last week, but it was incomplete and I had to have a D&E.  It was horrible and emotionally I am still wrecked.  You'll get lots of support from the awesome ladies on this board though.  Give yourself time to rest and take care of yourself.  Again I am so sorry!
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  • asykes10asykes10

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss! It is the most devestating thing. I had a natural m/c on 9/1-9/2 and have been dealing with the roller coaster ride ever since.  THINGS will get better, I promise you.  I didn't go to work for 4 days...so I feel your pain! Take time to heal, both emotionally and physically. You are NOT alone in this battle.

     

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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    I am so sorry you had to grow through this. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • kjpamkjpam

    I am so very sorry for your loss ... big hugs !!!

     

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  • inlovewithBinlovewithB
    I am so very sorry!!!
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  • camdenfaithfulcamdenfaithful

    I'm so sorry for your loss!  I was "fortunate" enough to not really see any distinguishing tissue when it passed.  I cannot imagine how hard it must be to have to see everything.  I'm so sorry you have to go through this. 

    If possible, try and take the rest of the week off work and take some time for yourself.

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  • jap611jap611 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I took all of last week off of work because I was so upset and knew I would be unproductive if I was there.  Sending you lots of hugs.
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  • jesslwjesslw member
    I am so sorry. I had my surprise m/c at the ER because of the spotting and sudden severe cramping and I didn't see the baby, which I was told was passed still in the sac. I had three shots of dilaudid because of the pain. It was horrible. Severe physical pain along with heart breaking emotional pain is too much to bear, I am so sorry you had to go through that.
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  • stillbakingstillbaking member

    Hugs to you. I'm so sorry for your loss. 

    I understand what you mean when you say a whole new wave of emotions came along with seeing the sac. I felt that way too.  

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  • mundayemmundayem member
    Mine passed last night as well. I felt like I was doing so much better until then. My thoughts are with you.
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  • Jo&Matt6609Jo&Matt6609
    I am so sorry for your loss. I mc'd on 9/3, and it was one of the hardest things ever. But it has been getting better, and will get better. It just takes time to heal. You'll have moments now and then, because it's something you will never forget, and something that will be with you forever. The women on this board are amazing - I hope you find some comfort here..My thoughts are with you ((hugs)).
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  • gone_awrygone_awry member
    I am so sorry for your loss. That happened to me this morning. It really is the worst feeling imaginable. Hugs to you.
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