Probably a flameful vent.

bumpuser1691848 · September 2010

yankeebaby2:
AshSchultz:
kimandhuck:
yankeebaby2:
DelGrecoBride:

while it may not be right, i wouldn't get so worked up over it.

are they your best friends or something

I agree. Why are you getting so worked up? Of ten we don't know the whole story. Maybe that is the night the dad has them anyway.

OP, ithink you should MYOB

Unless they're with their dads every weekend and a few nights of every week, then that's not the case.

There's a photographer or two who goes downtown and takes pictures of people at a lot of the bars and then puts them online. They put the date on each album. The girls pictures are in almost every album under certain bars.

PS, I wouldn't call it "getting worked up". I call it venting about some irresposible mothers.

My gosh. No kidding.. I wouldn't call it getting worked up.

And my oh my, ppl are rude is all I have to say.............

Right, because calling your close friends lushes and negligent parents is not rude?

If the shoe fits...

yankeebaby2 · September 2010

AshSchultz:
yankeebaby2:
AshSchultz:
kimandhuck:
yankeebaby2:
DelGrecoBride:

while it may not be right, i wouldn't get so worked up over it.

are they your best friends or something

I agree. Why are you getting so worked up? Of ten we don't know the whole story. Maybe that is the night the dad has them anyway.

OP, ithink you should MYOB

Unless they're with their dads every weekend and a few nights of every week, then that's not the case.

There's a photographer or two who goes downtown and takes pictures of people at a lot of the bars and then puts them online. They put the date on each album. The girls pictures are in almost every album under certain bars.

PS, I wouldn't call it "getting worked up". I call it venting about some irresposible mothers.

My gosh. No kidding.. I wouldn't call it getting worked up.

And my oh my, ppl are rude is all I have to say.............

Right, because calling your close friends lushes and negligent parents is not rude?

Ughhhhh, No... not rude in my book. Do you go out and party almost every night and leave you LO? Do you get smashed hammered drunk and come home to your LO several times a week? Are you in pictures at different bars several times a week?? You sure are acting "offended" by her concerns for the children and the parenting they are receiving.... I'm not trying to start a confrontation by no means.. but call it what you what.. going out 4-5 times a week when you are a mother is BAD PARENTING. and calling them out on it IS NOT RUDE. I hope she has or will tell them, they need to hear it. I know if it was my close friend, I absolutely would.. It's OK to disagree, but posting back hateful statements is obsurd.

What she is doing is posting hateful statements about her friends online and doesn't have the cojones to call them out in person. That is rude in my book.

No, I don't go out every night. I go out every single week with DH for date night and *gasp* we don't take the kids. I have even been known to partake in the drinking of the cocktails and I'm still a parent.

And while I think your LO is adorable, you need to resize your siggy.

yankeebaby2 · September 2010

Italiannvegas:
yankeebaby2:
DelGrecoBride:
kimandhuck:
yankeebaby2:
DelGrecoBride:

while it may not be right, i wouldn't get so worked up over it.

are they your best friends or something

I agree. Why are you getting so worked up? Of ten we don't know the whole story. Maybe that is the night the dad has them anyway.

OP, ithink you should MYOB

Unless they're with their dads every weekend and a few nights of every week, then that's not the case.

There's a photographer or two who goes downtown and takes pictures of people at a lot of the bars and then puts them online. They put the date on each album. The girls pictures are in almost every album under certain bars.

PS, I wouldn't call it "getting worked up". I call it venting about some irresposible mothers.

are you stalking them or something? i dont know...i find this whole thing weird...almost like you might be jealous of them or something

That is what it sounds like, DGB. Me thinks she had avisit from the green eyed monster.

You guys must've been saying this as I was typing!

LOL, it's too obvious!

yankeebaby2 · September 2010

kimandhuck:
Italiannvegas:

I don't agree that they do it every night but do you really know for sure they are going out every night? You even said you don't know what they do with their children? So I am kinda thinking there is a lot to the story that you don't know. Are you sure they are getting wasted? maybe every other night they drink. Maybe they just go there to dance or play pool.

I don't know about you but My DD has gone down to bed as early 7pm but most of the time it's 7:30 or 8. That is plenty early to meet some friends and have a drink if they had a babysitter, and a DD without missing any time with their children. JMO.

I didn't say every night. I said almost. And yes, I know what nights they go out because theres pictures. And no I don't know who has the children, so I guess since I don't know that one thing, I don't know a lot the story. Seriously, does it matter who has them? It's not the mother.

BAHAHAHAHAHA! Oh, wait, you're serious? So if the dad has thme that night then your friends should be at home looking at their baby book?

yankeebaby2 · September 2010

kimandhuck:
yankeebaby2:
AshSchultz:
kimandhuck:
yankeebaby2:
DelGrecoBride:

while it may not be right, i wouldn't get so worked up over it.

are they your best friends or something

I agree. Why are you getting so worked up? Of ten we don't know the whole story. Maybe that is the night the dad has them anyway.

OP, ithink you should MYOB

Unless they're with their dads every weekend and a few nights of every week, then that's not the case.

There's a photographer or two who goes downtown and takes pictures of people at a lot of the bars and then puts them online. They put the date on each album. The girls pictures are in almost every album under certain bars.

PS, I wouldn't call it "getting worked up". I call it venting about some irresposible mothers.

My gosh. No kidding.. I wouldn't call it getting worked up.

And my oh my, ppl are rude is all I have to say.............

Right, because calling your close friends lushes and negligent parents is not rude?

If the shoe fits...

I don't know if the shoe fits or not since I don't know them and but I'm guessing since you haven't told them yet how you look at their pictures and timestamps of said pictures, and then judge them as parents because God knows as women and parents that we are not judged enough already, that you have not asked them yet if the shoe fits them?

bumpuser1691848 · September 2010

yankeebaby2:
kimandhuck:
Italiannvegas:

I don't agree that they do it every night but do you really know for sure they are going out every night? You even said you don't know what they do with their children? So I am kinda thinking there is a lot to the story that you don't know. Are you sure they are getting wasted? maybe every other night they drink. Maybe they just go there to dance or play pool.

I don't know about you but My DD has gone down to bed as early 7pm but most of the time it's 7:30 or 8. That is plenty early to meet some friends and have a drink if they had a babysitter, and a DD without missing any time with their children. JMO.

I didn't say every night. I said almost. And yes, I know what nights they go out because theres pictures. And no I don't know who has the children, so I guess since I don't know that one thing, I don't know a lot the story. Seriously, does it matter who has them? It's not the mother.

BAHAHAHAHAHA! Oh, wait, you're serious? So if the dad has thme that night then your friends should be at home looking at their baby book?

If the dad has them that many nights, then ok, fine. Whatever. (Even though that's still the mom not spending much time with their children.)

L didn't know who the father of her baby was until she was 3.5 months. So she wasn't her with daddy then.

IrishBrideND · September 2010

kimandhuck:

If the dad has them that many nights, then ok, fine. Whatever. (Even though that's still the mom not spending much time with their children.)

I was indifferent on all of this until this statement. How judgy you sound. If thats the custody agreement, the moms should be judged for not spending that time with their baby?

I hope you judge single dads just as harshly.

bakedlaurabean · September 2010

From the little you've told us, I don't see the problem here. They could be going out after their children are sleeping and their children could be with a relative or dad for that matter. Just because they are going out does not mean they are coming home drunk and being neglectful moms. OP I think you are being judgemental without knowing the full story. I guess I think it's odd they go out so much, but it sure doesn't mean they're irresponsible and neglectful based on what you've said.

yankeebaby2 · September 2010

IrishBrideND:

kimandhuck:

If the dad has them that many nights, then ok, fine. Whatever. (Even though that's still the mom not spending much time with their children.)

I was indifferent on all of this until this statement. How judgy you sound. If thats the custody agreement, the moms should be judged for not spending that time with their baby?

I hope you judge single dads just as harshly.

This exactly! Why should women as parents be held to a higher standard than men as parents?

DelGrecoBride · September 2010

i still stand by my thought that the OP is jealous...and really...she needs to not be so bored at work and quit stalking people online

BelleIsa · September 2010

DelGrecoBride:
eh - i still don't think its something you need to get worked up about. are they irresponsible parents in general?

who knows....maybe im just in a lax mood right now, but god...if i could get a sitter a few times a week and go out i would love that. maybe not get wasted but i could handle a few drinks

I agree!

I have a babysitter who comes every Saturday from 4 to 11 and I LOVE it. DH and I have our date night, or we just go have a beer at the pub down the road and take a long walk and catch up on our week. (Or we have a dinner party with friends and I can relax and know that DD is having fun with the sitter in the next room.) This Saturday he's out of town on business so I booked a massage and facial at the spa and then going to have a fancy cocktail with a girlfriend.

I love DD, but I also love 'adult' time.

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