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I have reached a bitter low (rant)

Sunflower730Sunflower730 member
in TTC After a Loss

On my anniversary board, we have a girl who " struggled with PCOS" and I say that jokingly. She and her hubby got KU accidenly and she came on the board crying that she's not ready blah blah blah, knowing a few of us have struggled.

Well today she pulls that I had PCOS and changed my diet to this " Listing all the changes to be able to get KU" and look at me now 16 weeks pregnant.

I lost it. I am horrible.. Devil

#1 you complained you were pregnant in the beginning. You have no job,no insurance, apprently you struggled with PCOS for hat 5 months now using protections because you were told you were IF.. Ick!

#2 posting your " This is what I did to get KU" food plan.. not going over to well for me. On our board alone, one girl was told IVF was her only way to get pregnant. It took me over 5 years to get pregnant with IF drugs, and another girl lost her baby after 5 weeks.

So magically this stay away from foods plan is going to work for us.. Next please tell me to "relax" or God has a plan for me...Or everything happens for a reason..

:::::: Head desk ::::::

 *@($@_)*@#Y(#())$&@(!!!!

 PS- Cramps FVCKING hurt today I think my UTE is going to fall out when I walk. So i'm aloud to be a Biach today.

 

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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    ((((hugs)))) I'm so sorry!!! I love how people think that they know all *magically* once it happens to them.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
     BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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  • AmyRMAmyRM
    Argh. First, I HATE people who complain about being pregnant. Second, no freaking diet is going to get you there. Good for you for losing it - she deserved it. Growl.
    BFP #1 Valentine's Day BFP! February 14th 2010 Missed M/C 11w5d ~ forever in our hearts.
    BFP #2 EDD September 30, 2012 ~ natural m/c 5w4d
    broken hearted, changed forever
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  • damabo80damabo80 member

    Ah, the "looks at me I know the magic bullet" routine.

    Has a 99% effectiveness rate at getting everyone else's heads to meet their desks.

    Hugs to you.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Ugghh I'm so sorry!
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  • danie330danie330

    Did someone hand her a diploma and call her Doctor?  Sheesh!

    I'm so sorry.  (It might help to mentally kick her in the knee a few times...just a suggestion.)  Wink

    BFP #1 7/21/10; Dx EP 8/2/10 - lost right tube ~ Myomectomy to remove fibroids - 11/12/10 ~ BFP #2 - 2/8/11 (EDD - 10/21/11) ~ C-Section on 10/7/11 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • kmountkmount member
    Ew.  I hate when people are all high and mighty about what they did to get KU.  As if anyone knows what's going on "down there".  I can punch her for ya, if you want.
    m/c 12/20/09 @ 5 1/2 weeks ~ CP 1/25/09 @ 4 weeks ~ missed m/c 4/6/10 (stopped growing @ 6 weeks, stayed with me until 10) ~Foster parent to B, 9/10-1/12~ Proud Mother of Gage Stephen, born 12/26/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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