I'm going to try to make a very long story short. A few weeks ago (maybe a month?) I asked for some good vibes and thoughts....well, it was because we were putting an offer in on a new house. We found out yesterday that the bank (it's a short sale) approved our offer. That's the great news. The bed news is that DH has now changed his mind due to marital issues-I just wish he'd trust me when I tell him that it's really a good thing for us.
To put it bluntly, DH and I are not in a good place at all. I fear he's on the brink of divorce but can't pinpoint why. He's scared that I'm going to resent him in a few years because of his now non-desire to have kids and he's also really upset about a few other things that, to me, shouldn't be an issue but to him they are. Fine, I'm trying really hard, with the help of my therapist, to work through these issues and build a better me.
So, with all of this being said, I could really use some prayers that DH will reconsider going through with the house and that we'll be able to work things out and get back on the right track. I want nothing more than to have my DH and I never want to loose him so it just makes all of this so hard.
Thanks, Mel~
Re: Could really use some prayers and hugs (a CW)
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You KNOW you have my love and support...I will continue to wish for only the best for you - goodness knows you deserve it. Call me if you want/need to chat, and let's get together again real soon.
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Aw, Mel. This sucks! You guys have gone through so much together already. Now this too?
I wish you both lots of luck. I hope you both find the way back to each other and what brought you together.
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I am really sorry your having to do deal with all this, I hope and pray it works out for you and your DH and that things fall into place. hugs!
I hope that everything works out as it should for you
Oh Mel. Huge hugs from me! Lots of healing vibes...and if you ever want to chat, I'd be happy to. I think we may have more in common that you might thing.
Hugs.