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I am sad to see all the drama....

HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Let me first say that I love all the ladies here.... this board as well as the TTCAL before 6+ board was creatsed, have been a huge support to me.  As I have said before I am sorry if my update hurt anyone... that is the last thing that I wanted to do.  What I feel worse about is that my mistake has snowballed into unkind words and drama.  I care deeply about this board and what it stands for... in no way would I want to effect the safe haven that it is...   I have to be honest and say that I am I did not want to just disappear into the PGAL world... but if my posting here is at all sparks drama then I will only lurk.

 I wish nothing but lots of love for all the ladies here.  

~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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Re: I am sad to see all the drama....

  • jen629jen629 member
    Sweetie we are very happy for you please stick around here and post {{{HUGS}}}
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  • suntotosuntoto member
    I don't think the drama was about you, Heather.  It saddens me that you think this.  IMHO, Gracie had issues with me and chose a very inappropriate venue to voice them, so it spiraled. It was a very callous thing of her to do.  Don't let what she did stop you from posting here, please.  We DO want you to continue posting and we DO care about and love you.  I am sorry if what I said hurt your feelings, I only said it b/c I was defending the board and how it was established. We want to keep it a sacred place, if you know what I mean.   I truly did not mean to hurt your feelings.  
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  • bbhalphenbbhalphen member
    Please continue to post here! 
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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I don't think it's about you either.  Everyone here loves you Heather, everyone is following your  updates, always.  The drama was started after by things said by someone else, it's not about it.  I'm sorry that it has happened at all.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • HeatherPB1020HeatherPB1020 member

    imagesuntoto:
    I don't think the drama was about you, Heather.  It saddens me that you think this.  IMHO, Gracie had issues with me and chose a very inappropriate venue to voice them, so it spiraled. It was a very callous thing of her to do.  Don't let what she did stop you from posting here, please.  We DO want you to continue posting and we DO care about and love you.  I am sorry if what I said hurt your feelings, I only said it b/c I was defending the board and how it was established. We want to keep it a sacred place, if you know what I mean.   I truly did not mean to hurt your feelings.  

    My feeling are fine... no worries.... Big Smile

    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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    imagejen629:
    Sweetie we are very happy for you please stick around here and post {{{HUGS}}}

    THIS!!

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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  • michroccmichrocc member
    Heather, you are awesome and we adore you.  Please stick around.  I mean it. 
    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • surfergirlkonasurfergirlkona
    Hugs, Heather. As all said this spiral isn't about you and we want you to stick around to chat with us. It was the bitter card by Gracie that started this and essentially isn't about you. We are of course delighted for you!
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    My love, someone with serious issues used you to further their own load of bullsh!t, and for that I am so sorry.

    Please understand you are not to blame for what has gone on today.

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  • lindsay.loulindsay.lou member

    We all adore you Heather! Please stay. 

    To answer your (implied) question. There is a difference between posting and posting pg updates. 

    We like it when people stick around and post, but for obvious reasons we don't want to hear constant pg updates. 

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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member

    What they all said.

    You're delightful.  I can think of nothing more awesome than seeing those cute siggie pics over on PgAL.  This drama is about something else, not you.  I'm sorry it came out this way, kwim?

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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member
    imagelindsay.lou:

    We all adore you Heather! Please stay. 

    To answer your (implied) question. There is a difference between posting and posting pg updates. 

    We like it when people stick around and post, but for obvious reasons we don't want to hear constant pg updates. 

    This, This, and This.

    I've always followed your journey, Heather, seeing some similarities between your situation and mine. I think you're a lovely person and kind presence here and would hate to see you driven away by a minor misunderstanding.

    And I am thrilled that your long-desired pregnancy is coming along so well!

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) please continue to stick around and post here.

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