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It has been decided (awesomeness inside)

BF and I had a talk tonight, and decided that we're going to get married.

We're torn between doing it in Vegas in October, or giving the family a years notice, so his family can come out from Aus. 

Either way, it'll be super small, and very low key. I'm excited - no longer shall I be an unmarried heathen!

Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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Re: It has been decided (awesomeness inside)

  • Holy crap congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • Congrats!  Low key weddings are the best!!
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  • Congrats!  And lol on "unmarried heathen"; we were always "living in sin" or my personal fav "I've taken a lover."
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    Congrats!  And lol on "unmarried heathen"; we were always "living in sin" or my personal fav "I've taken a lover."

    Ooooh. taking a lover. I like that. 

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • I think do it in Vegas with Johanna as your witness....now to look for rings:) woo hoo this is gonna be fun
    Hold On ....Michael Buble
    MTHFR 2 copies of C677t mutation homozygous 2/2010
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    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
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  • Congrats!!! I vote for Vegas since I got married in Vegas.

    Jenn

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  • Congrats, Carrie!! I'm so happy for you guys :) 
  • Congrats!!!

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  • WOO!!!!! Congrats!!! I vote for October - just because it is closer and I think it is a great month to get married...Ok so I am biased because I got married in Oct....Either way congrats hun!
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  • How exciting....Congrats!!!!
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  • Carrie!!! so excited for you guys! I expect to hear all the details!!
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  • Woo hoo! So exciting. Whatever you decide to do- it all ends the same, married that is so do what you guys enjoy!
  • ((hugs)) yay for you guys! That's awesome!
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  • Awesomeness, indeed.  Congratulations!
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  • yay!  congratulations!!!
  • Between your news and Mrs's post, I am bawling!  Carrie, this makes me so supper happy!  I wish the best for you guys! 
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  • wowza!

    I am so thrilled for you, and I hope your FI has the same reaction my DH did after we got married (we were slow to the punch too - were together 8 years before getting hitched) when we said, "This is great. Why didn't we do this a long time ago?"

    welcome to the club! 

    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • Oh, I love a fall wedding!  Congrats hon!
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  • Yay! Congratulations!

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  • How wonderful:) Congrats!!!
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  • that's wonderful! congrats!!!!! 
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  • I am absolutely mother effing ecstatic for you. 

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  • Congrats!!!
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  • Woo Hoo!  Congrats!
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    I am absolutely mother effing ecstatic for you. 

    First thing I said after we decided this? "Sweet! We can get an ice cream maker!"  This earned me one of those "WTF is wrong with you" looks.

    I blame you.

     

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
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    imageBBHME:

    I am absolutely mother effing ecstatic for you. 

    First thing I said after we decided this? "Sweet! We can get an ice cream maker!"  This earned me one of those "WTF is wrong with you" looks.

    I blame you.

    Big Smile

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  • My prayers have been answered!!! Carrie and her lover have seen the light and repented of their heathen ways!!!

    Seriously - I'm so happy for you guys and keep us posted on all the hairy details.

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    My prayers have been answered!!! Carrie and her lover have seen the light and repented of their heathen ways!!!

    Seriously - I'm so happy for you guys and keep us posted on all the hairy details.

    I could turn this into TTCAL throws a wedding pt 2, except I'm not an AW douchebag.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • That is wonderful!!!!    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!   I hope your wedding is everything that you want it to be!
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    I could turn this into TTCAL throws a wedding pt 2, except I'm not an AW douchebag.

    Funny, this post seems to have suddenly been one-starred.

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  • Hooray for weddings! Have fun picking out your dress.

    Big Smile 

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    imageCarrieLeigh84:

    I could turn this into TTCAL throws a wedding pt 2, except I'm not an AW douchebag.

    Funny, this post seems to have suddenly been one-starred.

    Hehe, you're right. That is funny. It's almost like one of the OSB's just revealed themselves.

    Stillbirth at 23w6d on Sept, 22, 2008 M/C at 5 weeks June 14, 2010 My miracle, James Frederick born May 2, 2011 via C-section
  • Congrats!!! That's brilliant news!!
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  • Congrats!  I'm so happy for you
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  • How exciting! Congratulations!
  • Congratulations!  I'm so happy for you!
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
  • Aw! Yay!!!!
  • Congrats!  I love weddings.  Small or large!  Best wishes! 

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  • Aww, congratulations!!!  I say save the stress & go to Vegas (this from someone in the wedding industry)...

    Have fun with whatever you decide!!!

    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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