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DH called me his moms name???!

gwenadellagwenadella
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Is this akward or what?! No at all board related but I need to vent....

Totally casual at the breakfast table this morning. He told me something about the portable phone and then added at the end of the sentence his moms name.

With a mouth full of cheerios I asked "Did you just call me your mother's name?"

THEN without a moment of hesitation he said "Yeah....well you act like her." AS if that would cover his tracks....as if that would justify his mistake. Then he tried to joke around by calling me Jr.

Now....I have no problem with my MIL. In fact, she is the best and I love her to pieces. I should also add that we where staying at his parents house overnight to care for his sick grandmother and in their kitchen when he did this....

The entire time we stayed he was treating me weird. So much more demanding..,,cold.....and telling me to get him this, and I can't do that...similar to how he treats his mother. And I mean... sometimes in a joking manner but he isn't like that EVER normally. I decided shortly after to leave for work early and told him I was doing so purposely because of how he is/was being towards me.

Okay...complete strangers. Advice? Am I just over-reacting and should let it go or should I say something and talk about it?

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  • armandos_girlarmandos_girl member
    Overreacting.  And not nearly as awkward as being called his ex's name on occasion by him, his mom and his friend.
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  • mrs_b_2007mrs_b_2007 member
    as long as he didn't have his O-Face on while he shouted out her name, I think you're good.
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  • gwenadellagwenadella

    imagearmandos_girl:
    Overreacting.  And not nearly as awkward as being called his ex's name on occasion by him, his mom and his friend.

     

    Yikes. Point taken.

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  • Mama_SASMama_SAS member

    Does he call his mom by her first name? I've never heard DH call his mom by her first name so I can't imagine it slipping out accidentally.

    However DH has called me by our son's name or our cat's name. Wrong names do slip out accidentally and it's no big deal.

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  • WaitingOnTwoPinkLinesWaitingOnTwoPinkLines member

    imagemrs_b_2007:
    as long as he didn't have his O-Face on while he shouted out her name, I think you're good.

    Mrs_b FTW! 

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  • gwenadellagwenadella
    imageMama_SAS:

    Does he call his mom by her first name? I've never heard DH call his mom by her first name so I can't imagine it slipping out accidentally.

    However DH has called me by our son's name or our cat's name. Wrong names do slip out accidentally and it's no big deal.

    He calls his mom by a nickname. I know it isn't a big deal but it is the first time he has ever done that in 4+ years so it caught me by surprise. Oh well.

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  • angiegail78angiegail78 member
    imageMama_SAS:

    Does he call his mom by her first name? I've never heard DH call his mom by her first name so I can't imagine it slipping out accidentally.

    Yeah, I was wondering that too.

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  • armandos_girlarmandos_girl member
    imagegwenadella:

    imagearmandos_girl:
    Overreacting.  And not nearly as awkward as being called his ex's name on occasion by him, his mom and his friend.

     

    Yikes. Point taken.

    Meh.  I can think of worse things to be called.  I've actually met her a couple times and she's quite nice.

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  • gwenadellagwenadella

    imagemrs_b_2007:
    as long as he didn't have his O-Face on while he shouted out her name, I think you're good.

     

    I would file for divorce. No amount of therapy could fix that.

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  • JenniferJaneCJenniferJaneC member
    imageMama_SAS:

    However DH has called me by our son's name or our cat's name. Wrong names do slip out accidentally and it's no big deal.

    I call our son our parrot's name all the time, and vice-versa.  I'm so glad it isn't just me.

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  • weelass24weelass24 member
    imagegwenadella:

    The entire time we stayed he was treating me weird. So much more demanding..,,cold.....and telling me to get him this, and I can't do that...similar to how he treats his mother. And I mean... sometimes in a joking manner but he isn't like that EVER normally. I decided shortly after to leave for work early and told him I was doing so purposely because of how he is/was being towards me.

    This would be a huge problem for me.  I would check his ass at the door and tell him he needs to cutthatshitout, like yesterday.

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  • MrsSMMrsSM
    imageweelass24:
    imagegwenadella:

    The entire time we stayed he was treating me weird. So much more demanding..,,cold.....and telling me to get him this, and I can't do that...similar to how he treats his mother. And I mean... sometimes in a joking manner but he isn't like that EVER normally. I decided shortly after to leave for work early and told him I was doing so purposely because of how he is/was being towards me.

    This would be a huge problem for me.  I would check his ass at the door and tell him he needs to cutthatshitout, like yesterday.

    Yeah this, I didn't have a big problem with the situation until this. I'd tell him to smarten the fvck up and if he wanted someone to treat him like his mommy he was welcome to move home with her. 

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