Just wanted to post and say after a few rough days, I'm starting to feel like I understand how to be a mom. I was so full of anxiety about Ben and my ability to take care of him - I was a mess for a few days. But DH gave me a pep talk and told me I prepared for him and I will get into a groove - and today I feel like my head is above water.
Just wanted to post in case anyone else is in the same boat...
Re: AW: Having a good day
Good for you, that's great!!!! And early!!!
With both of my kids it took me about 6 weeks to really feel like I was in a groove. I remember a friend came over when DD #1 was around 6 weeks old and told me I looked so much better/more in control/calmer than I had in weeks. He has to point it out to me, but I was like "yeah, I guess I sort of know what I'm doing..." With DD #2 same thing - around the six week mark I was getting past the barely-keeping-my-head-above-water stage and started to really enjoy, soak in all the good stuff about having a baby.
Congratulations on being a mama, Amy! I'm sure you'll be a great one! I didn't know which end was up until about 3 weeks, so it sounds like you've got a head start. Take good care of yourself, though, as much as possible, since that will help, and don't be afraid to ask for help if you think it's baby blues / PPD. Hang in there and keep us posted!
Thanks:)
Having a baby really does change everything!
I'm still lurking and will update as I can:)
Having just hit 6 weeks, I agree with everyone else!