Snarky and T-TTC

OH FFS

Why is it that random people feel the need to tell me all about their fuucking stupid pregnancy????

Some girl I barely know on FB just asked me if I was running Nike in October, and I just said I was signed up since I obviously have no interest in sharing with the whole world and don't even know the timing for the IVF cycle yet. And of course she has to fill me in about how she's 10 weeks pregnant and might not be able to run.

::headdesk::

I feel like telling her about my IVF to shut her up, but then again, she's not that important to me.

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  • What an a$$.
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  • Oh and she's complaining about how "rough" it's been. I am about a heartbeat away from telling her off.
  • :( I hate that! I got a twin pregnancy announcement on FB yesterday, from a "friend" who has a 7 month old. Yesterday, of all days! :(
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  • Uh.... that sucks!
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  • People suck!
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    People suck!

    They do.

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  • How are people supposed to know that you don't want to hear about their exciting news if you don't say anything to them?
  • imageKingsley420:
    How are people supposed to know that you don't want to hear about their exciting news if you don't say anything to them?

    Hey Twatwaffle,

    First of all, I don't know who the hell you are, and certainly don't need to see your huge ass stupid ticker. Second, do you go around telling everyone including those you barely know about your pregnancy? Yeah, probably. Third, if any of you idiots took your head out of your asses long enough to consider other people and their possible situations, you wouldn't go around bitching about your pregnancy and "how hard it is"

    Now, go fuuck yourself.

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    imageKingsley420:
    How are people supposed to know that you don't want to hear about their exciting news if you don't say anything to them?

    Hey Twatwaffle,

    First of all, I don't know who the hell you are, and certainly don't need to see your huge ass stupid ticker. Second, do you go around telling everyone including those you barely know about your pregnancy? Yeah, probably. Third, if any of you idiots took your head out of your asses long enough to consider other people and their possible situations, you wouldn't go around bitching about your pregnancy and "how hard it is"

    Now, go fuuck yourself.

     

    Calm yourself it was an actual question. Sorry for any issues you have but it was a real question. You are an extremely rude person and at this point you not getting pregnant is probably karma coming to kick you in the @ss.

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    Calm yourself it was an actual question. Sorry for any issues you have but it was a real question. You are an extremely rude person and at this point you not getting pregnant is probably karma coming to kick you in the @ss.

    Oh tell me something I haven't already heard - next time try "your uterus is so full of bitter, no wonder you can't get pregnant"

    Perhaps you have reading comprehension issues - this is someone I BARELY know. Someone I have spent maybe 5 hours tops with and only at work, and she went out of her way to message me privately about her pregnancy when even her family didn't know yet. Who does that? Why would I care?

  • Kingsley.. karma remark = FAIL 

    You are obviously lost.. go the fuuck away

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  • sorry but I'm not going to remove my ticker just because I asked you a legit question. Sorry if I got your panties in a twist.

     

  • imageKingsley420:
    How are people supposed to know that you don't want to hear about their exciting news if you don't say anything to them?
    Here's the deal. This board is called Snarky and T-TTC.  Everyone on this board has been diagnosed with infertility. 

    Infertility is extremely painful, and is accompanied by the fear that you will never be a mother.  It is full of high hopes that are crushed repeatedly, sadness, doubt, sometimes guilt, and oftentimes leads to bitterness. 

    Infertility is silent because it hurts us so much to talk about it, often because it's very emotional to go through. So we stay silent and offer congratulations to everyone around us who gets pregnant while we are spending thousands of dollars to achieve a dream others get so easily. And time and time again we fail, while we watch acquaintances and friends welcome baby after baby into their lives. 

     So a person you barely know contacting you privately to tell you she's KU is strange, and hurtful.  And of course she wouldn't know about Dip's struggle since they AREN'T CLOSE. 

     Bottom line, we are all going through infertility here, and it hurts time and time again to get pregnancy announcements.  So this is the place for us to vent about it.  Where we are understood. 

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  • I wouldn't normally care about your ticker, except you came to a TROUBLE trying to conceive board (um yeah, that's what the extra T means) and then asked a pretty stupid question. I'm sure you run around telling random strangers all about your pregnancy and how awful your morning sickness is, so you couldn't possibly understand anyone not giving two craps about your great news. You have proven yourself to be without compassion or common sense, so why don't you just go back to 1st Tri where you can ask dumb questions all day long and nobody calls you out.

    Don't let the door hit you on the way out

  • Thanks Katt Had no Idea what T-TTC stood for. Thanks for the explanation and not being rude about it
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    imageKingsley420:
    How are people supposed to know that you don't want to hear about their exciting news if you don't say anything to them?

    Hey Twatwaffle,

    First of all, I don't know who the hell you are, and certainly don't need to see your huge ass stupid ticker. Second, do you go around telling everyone including those you barely know about your pregnancy? Yeah, probably. Third, if any of you idiots took your head out of your asses long enough to consider other people and their possible situations, you wouldn't go around bitching about your pregnancy and "how hard it is"

    Now, go fuuck yourself.

    I agree with Dip.

    My question in response is why do people assume that we give a crap about the status of their ute? I don't update people about the status of mine....  Tell me about it if I ask but if I don't you can assume it's more interesting to you than it is to anyone else.

    I show people the same respect regarding my pets - non-pet owners don't give a rat's ass about my animals and I respect that.

    Also, just be honest with yourself and admit that you would think it was an overshare if someone told you their IF status in response to a conversation about your pregnancy. 

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  • Oh Katt - you are so much nicer than I am. Bravo for trying to explain it to the Obtuse one!
  • Oh and Kingsley - make sure you go report back to 1st Tri about what horrible b!itches we were to you. We have a reputation to keep alive. kthx
  • This board is for those who have been struggling with trying to conceive for an extended period of time. Lurk for a bit, and post if you would like to use humor as a way to cope and support each other. The moderator of this board is Dr.Loretta. Click here to Private Message her.

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  • imageKingsley420:
    Thanks Katt Had no Idea what T-TTC stood for. Thanks for the explanation and not being rude about it
    Um maybe you could READ???

    Snarky and T-TTC

    This board is for those who have been struggling with trying to conceive for an extended period of time. Lurk for a bit, and post if you would like to use humor as a way to cope and support each other. The moderator of this board is Dr.Loretta. Click here to Private Message her.

    And Snarky is the THE NAME. You expect to be treated nicely here? 

     

  • haha!  Jinx! Wink
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    This board is for those who have been struggling with trying to conceive for an extended period of time. Lurk for a bit, and post if you would like to use humor as a way to cope and support each other. The moderator of this board is Dr.Loretta. Click here to Private Message her.

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    LOL you know what they say about great minds
  • I must say, I was looking for entertainment.....
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  • That was an excellent response Katt - do you have that C&P somewhere or did you manage to type that all out?
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  • imagekatt3233:
    I must say, I was looking for entertainment.....
    This is the best thing to happen to the board in months! Stick out tongue
  • imagegidge:
    That was an excellent response Katt - do you have that C&P somewhere or did you manage to type that all out?
    I actually typed it out!  Should I save it?  I probably should, I'm sure we'll need that again one day....
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  • imageSerendipitie:
    imagekatt3233:
    I must say, I was looking for entertainment.....
    This is the best thing to happen to the board in months! Stick out tongue

    Couldn't agree more!!

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  • wow you guys need to get out more if you are looking for entertainment on pregnancy boards. I'm outta here, you b1tches are crazy
  • imageKingsley420:
    wow you guys need to get out more if you are looking for entertainment on pregnancy boards. I'm outta here, you b1tches are crazy
    Ha!
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  • imagekatt3233:
    imagegidge:
    That was an excellent response Katt - do you have that C&P somewhere or did you manage to type that all out?
    I actually typed it out!  Should I save it?  I probably should, I'm sure we'll need that again one day....

    You should!  I think I go straight to defense mode - like why should I explain my IF to someone who will never be able to understand anyway.... your response was actually educational :)

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    imagekatt3233:
    imagegidge:
    That was an excellent response Katt - do you have that C&P somewhere or did you manage to type that all out?
    I actually typed it out!  Should I save it?  I probably should, I'm sure we'll need that again one day....

    You should!  I think I go straight to defense mode - like why should I explain my IF to someone who will never be able to understand anyway.... your response was actually educational :)

    Awwwww <3  Okay saving now!!
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  • imageKingsley420:
    wow you guys need to get out more if you are looking for entertainment on pregnancy boards. I'm outta here, you b1tches are crazy

    We have to live up to our reputation's once in awhile... otherwise people will think we've gone soft.

     

    But do you really not get how your question could have been taken?

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  • imageKingsley420:
    wow you guys need to get out more if you are looking for entertainment on pregnancy boards. I'm outta here, you b1tches are crazy
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  • imageKingsley420:
    wow you guys need to get out more if you are looking for entertainment on pregnancy boards. I'm outta here, you b1tches are crazy
    Confused

     

    You have such a great personality,  I can see why people want to be nice to you

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  • If bad things happen because of Karma then WTF did I do in a past life?
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    If bad things happen because of Karma then WTF did I do in a past life?

    Ah, Nikki, that makes me want to cry.  No one deserves what you've been through.  :-(

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  • Sorry I didn't mean to make anyone sad. :( This moron just needs to learn that Karma has nothing to do with anything!
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  • I hate it when I miss the twatwaffles.
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