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Its times like this that I really hate the Universe

crystalknppcrystalknpp member
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Everyone at work knows about my losses because my second one happened while on a work trip.  Well my FH co-worker who said all the mean things to me on that trip who just recently got KU was apparently talking to another co-worker about me today.  She said to the co-worker "How come I'm pregnant and not her?....She wants a baby and is actually trying....I don't even want this kid"  Seriously FML and a big old FU universe.  I'm so tired of all of this sh*t.  I didn't realize that having to suffer through 2 losses also comes with the life long never ending hurtful comments and crappy situations as well. 

 I'm so beyond bitter at this point.......

"Sometimes the smallest things take up the most room in your heart"

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BFP#1 on 09/29/09 and EP discovered/Left Tube lost on 10/19/09 EDD 06/12/10
BFP# 2 on 03/21/2010 EDD 11/30/10 Natural M/C on 3/27/10
BFP# 3 on 02/14/2011 EDD 10/28/11 Missed M/C discovered 4/19/11 and D&C 4/21/11 On 5/6/11 we found out our Oct Angel was a beautiful little girl <3
IVF#1=BFP#4 on 8/31/11 EDD 5/12/12 EP discovered and MTX shot given 9/14/ & 9/21 M/C on 10/9/11
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Re: Its times like this that I really hate the Universe

  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    The universe seriously sucks and your coworker is beyond horrible. 
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
    I understand the bitterness and anger.  I hope things get better and hopefully the FH will realize how hurtful her comments have been.
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member
    What an @sshole.  I'm so sorry you have to be around this woman.  Throat punch definately warranted at this point.
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  • GuppyAmyGuppyAmy member
    I've said it before and I'll say it again. Some people should not be allowed to speak.
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) so sorry you have to be around her. People like her shouldn't be allowed to speak.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

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  • kew243kew243 member
    that is awful.  completely awful.
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