Did anyone give birth at EJ? If so how did you like it? Also, did any of you have a natural birth at EJ? If so I'd love to hear about that too!
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Re: Birth at EJ
Like pp, I haven't delivered at EJ but at Touro. I also didn't care for my doctor's attitude at EJ so I switched mid-pregnancy with DD2. I'm having a scheduled c-section, but I have also heard that Touro is very open-minded about alternative ways to birthing. I find their staff is outstanding and very attentive. It might be an older hospital, but I wouldn't deliver anywhere else.
I have had 2 friends deliver at EJ. One had both her kids there and had no complaints. The other ended up delivering during the middle of a blackout on the maternity floor b/c they were trying to fix the generators. The lights and tv didn't work so she just layed there bored. Then it took her 6 hours to get into a private room, and they wouldn't let her see her newborn until then. I would say the generator situation is just a fluke thing though.
I had a natural birth at EJ.
I had Dr Goodridge (if you have her SWITCH NOW!). She evaded many of my questions and never would give me a straight answer to anything I asked. So 41 weeks rolls around. "your placentas breakin down your babys gonna DIE!" "Well cant we do a NST?" "We dont do those here" So there I was, pregnant with my first chlid, patiently awaiting labor and shes telling me my babys going to DIE. So i agreed to an induction.
I went in at 9 to start. My night nurse blew a vein in my right hand and had to do my left. I was being rather pissy about it, (it was SWOLLEN and sore!) and she made this comment "If you complain about a blown vein how are you ever going to go natural???" What a ***! So anyway, my morning nurse was MUCH better. She was a Lamaze instructor and was very supportive. She brought me a heated rice sock to help me out and all. (Shes actually my doula this time around...) Well at 1 I was told I was 3 cm dilated and would dialte a cm a hour. SO 15 minutes later I have to go to the bathroom. SO I unplug my monitors and walk my happy butt to the bathroom. Im on the toilet for about 20 minutes getting sufficiently pissed off because I thought I was constipated. ("Just my luck!") My nurse comes in to check me, Im still on the toilet, Runs to the bed and starts clicking the button like CRAZY. Comes back over. I start FREAKING OUT. "Whats wrong??????" She gives me this wierd look adn tells me "YOur babys heads right there, youre about to deliver." WTF?!?!??!?! She kicked EVERYONE except me and my hubby out the room. Comes over to me and says "The heads right there if you want to feel." ... OKAY! 8D It was incredible. She even got my hubby a glove so he could reach in and feel. HIGHLIGHT OF MY LIFE!
Well my dr comes in. They move me back to the bed. SO Im pushing. I come up to push and see my dr holding SCISSORS?!?!?! "DONT *** CUT ME!!!!!" Did she listen??? NO!!!! I shouldve sued. I told her before "I dont want an episiotomy, I would rather TEAR." I only pushed for about 15 minutes on the bed, hearttones stayed great the whole time. Nothing was wrong. She was just in a rush. I only got 2 stitches I think but STILL. Thats my vagina youre cutting. ***.
Anywayssssss, this time around I have a midwife and Im homebirthing. My daughters birth was wonderful in so many ways but there was much about it I didint like. LIke constant monitoring. The water temp in the tubs would never even get warm to where I could relax. The scared induction. The refused NST.
Point blank. I would get to know your OB VERRRRRY well before you make any commitments. GL!
I delivered at EJ. My OB was Dr. Bone and I only have great things to say about her, I just loved her. EJ was great and I plan on delivering there in the future when I get pregnant.
This may be petty but my sister always delivered at Touro and I just didn't like the parking situation and I never felt safe when I went to visit her (she had 3 children there). I liked the close proximity to EJ from my home.
I had April!!! She was amazing! Shes actually my doula this time around.