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Today was my EDD...

CamiejaeCamiejae
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I can't believe how fast it came up. I know many of us have had mixed feelings on our EDD's when we are pg again. I am sad to think of that little one but I also know that when I hold this baby in my arms I will never be able imagine my life with out it... and that would not have been possible if I had not lost my first baby. I feel like I "should" do something but at the same time I'm not sure what. Maybe lighting my candle tomorrow will suffice.
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  • gatorsinlovegatorsinlove member
    I'm sorry.  I think lighting a candle is a great idea.
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  • newtletnewtlet
    I'm sorry.  I couldn't think of something appropriate to do on my last EDD, either.  Maybe buy something special for the new baby?
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  • rachelxx05rachelxx05 member
    Sending you lots of (((hugs)))
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  • jkelly41jkelly41 member
    I know how confusing it can be-mourning the loss of that baby while carrying another one.  Lighting the candle seems like a perfect to remember your first little one.  Take care!!
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  • mmcrockermmcrocker

    Big hugs to you today!

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  • joanne511joanne511

    My grief counselor told me the same thing - when she had her daughter she realized it wouldn't have been possible if she hadn't had her m/c, so it was always a bittersweet thought for her.

    On my EDD I thought of our Little Bean but didn't really mark it officially.  Do what feels right to you.

    (hugs)

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