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PITA has me drinking again!!!

DH and I put together her swing like she complained that DH didn't do for her. We looked around and that was the only swing. They are coming home from the hospital tomorrow. When DH talked to MIL she said she has a swing being put together by someone else at someone else's house and they didn't want that one. I was pissed!!! After she sent that email that we don't help and bitched that he didn't put it together the last time he was there...We were trying to help, because she still has so much to do. She has driven me to drink again!!! Going to watch the Saint and Texans play and have a few beers!!!
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1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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Re: PITA has me drinking again!!!

  • Ugh that's so rude and annoying. Sorry.
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  • I waas to punch your SIL, how do you keep calm??

    Go have some beers honey!!

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    I waas to punch your SIL, how do you keep calm??

    Go have some beers honey!!

    How do you keep calm?! You deserve a few beers after putting up with that hot mess.  ((hugs))

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  • You are far nicer than I would have been...Screw that let her do it herself....
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  • Can i give this PITA SIL a big old kick!? OR maybe a slap beside the head! She sounds like she really needs it.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • What a jerk. I agree that next time she calls for help you guys should make her do it herself.
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  • The only way I can stay calm is that I keep reminding myself that she has no husband to help her. Her mother will be the only person there for her in the middle of the night. She will never have anyone to cry to, lean on, or to love (except her son). When DH holds me at night, I think about the fact that she is alone. But it still doesn't make it ok to be a twatwaffle though!!! Oh, and DH will be bringing them home from the hospital tomorrow. We now have an infant carrier base in the back of our SUV...sucks it's not for us.
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    GEAUX TIGERS!!!

    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • imageala_1220:
    The only way I can stay calm is that I keep reminding myself that she has no husband to help her. Her mother will be the only person there for her in the middle of the night. She will never have anyone to cry to, lean on, or to love (except her son). When DH holds me at night, I think about the fact that she is alone. But it still doesn't make it ok to be a twatwaffle though!!! Oh, and DH will be bringing them home from the hospital tomorrow. We now have an infant carrier base in the back of our SUV...sucks it's not for us.

    It sucks that she cannot understand how hard that is for you guys! I'm so sorry!!


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • TWATWAFFLE - hhahahhahaha! I love that, can I use that??

    Enjoy your beers hun!

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    BFP 10/25/10 Brynn Helen born 7/7/11
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  • I think that when you get your BFP and deliver you need to be THE BIGGEST PITA ever, I am taking the moral low-road here and saying Karma's a b*tch.
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  • I?m sorry you have to deal with her. Enjoy your beers and your DH, because you?re right, she?s alone and you?re not! And you will have your healthy baby one day too :-)

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

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  • She is something else!!!!!
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  • You are 100x nicer than I would have been.
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  • Sorry she is acting like this drink some beers.
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    imageala_1220:
    The only way I can stay calm is that I keep reminding myself that she has no husband to help her. Her mother will be the only person there for her in the middle of the night. She will never have anyone to cry to, lean on, or to love (except her son). When DH holds me at night, I think about the fact that she is alone. But it still doesn't make it ok to be a twatwaffle though!!! Oh, and DH will be bringing them home from the hospital tomorrow. We now have an infant carrier base in the back of our SUV...sucks it's not for us.

    It sucks that she cannot understand how hard that is for you guys! I'm so sorry!!

    Oh, man, that must be really rough! :( Stupid PITA SIL!!

    PS I am CD 10 too! We are cycle buddies. :D

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  • enjoy your beers:)  you deserve them!!!
  • Ugh....she sounds so toxic. You and DH have the patience of a saint for continuing to keep her in your life.


    BFP #1 via IUI ~ L (Fatal Birth Defect) 4/7/10
    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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