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The next person....

KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
in TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

who tells me God has a plan in regards to a job and ttc

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Is going to get thwacked with my wooden spoon

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I've had it today.  3 people have already told me this.  I will not be nice to the next one.

 

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Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • EntropicEponaEntropicEpona member

    Sad So sorry, Kristy.

    Nice spoon, though. Looks strong and good for smacking.

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

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  • Court1Court1

    Super Angry - yeah & I'm sure God's plan also gives babies to completely undeserving & unloving people right?  And allows other horrific things to happen?  Right.

    I hate people.

    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
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  • Scout05Scout05 member

    I'll hold your purse while you beat the crap out of them.

    Idiots.

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  • jms2005jms2005
    Let 'em have it. They deserve a good thwacking...
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    imageCourt1:

    Super Angry - yeah & I'm sure God's plan also gives babies to completely undeserving & unloving people right?  And allows other horrific things to happen?  Right.

    I hate people.

    Exactly!  The sermon this past Sunday was on God's providence.  I walked out of church rather angry Embarrassed

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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • schen0510schen0510
    So annoying!  I'm sorry.
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  • dandyelledandyelle

    Lately, I have been giving it back to them. I'll say, "Did He tell you that himself?" or "I'll remind of you of the same when a loved one of yours passes."  I know it's probably rude, but I am tired of it. And honestly, people need to know that what they say, even if they mean well, is hurtful.

    If Allison will hold your purse, I'd be happy to rough up the spoon so it has splinters.

    It takes a village.

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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I'm sorry Kristy. I wish people would keep that stupid comment to themselves.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • nemattoxnemattox
    There is so much ignorance in the world, and most of it is hurtful, it seems.  I'm sorry you have had to deal with that.  (3 times in one day?!)
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  • maceymay1816maceymay1816 member
    I just wanna know if I can borrow the spoon!!!  I am feeling the same way, except I'm thinking a canoe paddle might be what i need to get the frustration out.
    Married 8/23/09 Dx: Endometriosis mc 2003, mc 2005, mc Oct. 2009 and ectopic pg Feb. 2010 Baby Girl Gracie Mae born 5 weeks early on 7/6/11. Baby boy JT born full term on 7/5/12. We are blessed!
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    I'm with you, I will hold them down when you hit them with that spoon.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn

    imagemaceymay1816:
    I just wanna know if I can borrow the spoon!!!  I am feeling the same way, except I'm thinking a canoe paddle might be what i need to get the frustration out.

    I will be happy to lend you the spoon.

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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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  • JayandTay09JayandTay09
    I am all for people believing what they want and all that....But don't shove that sh!t in my face...God has a plan eh?! So God thought it was a good idea to give me a baby and then take it away not once but twice?! That is God's plan? Well tell God I think his plan is sh!t and I am tired of it...I've got plans of my own...K?! K....
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    imageKristysRedBarn:
    imageCourt1:

    Super Angry - yeah & I'm sure God's plan also gives babies to completely undeserving & unloving people right?  And allows other horrific things to happen?  Right.

    I hate people.

    Exactly!  The sermon this past Sunday was on God's providence.  I walked out of church rather angry Embarrassed

    My stepfather was a pastor who died of evil, horrible cancer. Then we had our miscarriages. Last Thanksgiving, I went to church at my stepdad's church and listened to the new minister, standing at MY DAD'S PULPIT tell me to seek gratitude where I had none. And to do my best to see the good things that came out of hard times. I STILL resent him.
    Welcome to the world, Baby Grr!

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