I'm out guys...

JazzyMom2B · August 2010

I am heartbroken for you. I cannot imagine what you're going through and I am so very sorry. You'll be in all our thoughts.

TiffanyTheMom · August 2010

With both of my miscarriages I went through it naturally. A D&C can scar your ute and make it harder for a future embryo to implant, and that was my main decider. Also, for me, I just felt like I need time to absorb it was really happening, and I felt I needed to respect the baby and let it leave on it's own time. It took 2-3 weeks before it finally left, But I was ready for it then. I didn't feel like someone was taking my baby from me.

But everyone is different, I know a lot of women like to just have it over and done with so they can move on and heal- and there's NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. I hope you can decide what will be best for you emotionally. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, when you get pg again please come back and let us know. Broken Heart

greenclown · August 2010

I'm so sorry.

mariannerules · August 2010

So sorry

Mrs.Jocelyn2007 · August 2010

I'm so sorry. ((hugs))

It's such a tough choice re: the D&C. I think if I were in your situation, I would go through with it. I think it would be psychologically harder for me to "know" that my baby was still in there. I'd prefer to do the D&C as a way of moving forward so I could start the grieving and accepting process with my husband. But ultimately go with what you think is best for you and your husband.