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TTC After a Loss
TeacherVicky
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I'm officially coming back :(
TeacherVicky
member
... as a TTCAL'er (well, TTA for now obviously).
Sorry I have been MIA. I didn't want to post my situation on TTCAL until things were confirmed, either through my betas or if I started to miscarry.
My doctor called me on Friday afternoon to tell me that my original betas had doubled (Aug 3 & 5) and I told her that my spotting had resumed, only heavier. She had already sent me for more betas so she said she would call back with Wednesday's and Friday morning's results. Wednesday's were at 2400 and Friday's betas were still pending. She called me Saturday afternoon with Friday's betas: 2770.
I had one last draw on Monday and I have an appt with her on Wed. I haven't gotten my betas from Monday but I am starting to miscarry tonight. The bleeding has gotten heavier and red and I've been cramping.
I am devastated. I was just finally letting myself get excited about this pg because the spotting had subsided and I was feeling good about it all.
I don't know why my body is doing this to me. 
I am so mad. SO mad. 
I really suspect that this is a hormonal issue and I am so mad that the first doctor I saw (not mine) totally dismissed my concerns.
I really hope my doctor agrees to do some testing when I see her on Wednesday, even though I haven't had the standard 3 losses.
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Re: I'm officially coming back :(
Oh, honey....I am so sorry. We are here for you....
I hope the doctor will agree to do some tests for you, too. Thinking of you...
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No no no no no no no noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
I am so sorry ((HUGS))
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O, I am so incredibly sorry
I was so upset that my doctor told me she would do it if I mc'ed a 2nd time so hopefully yours will too. ((Hugs))
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Oh honey, I am so so sorry, I felt that way too, I am so sorry, PM me if you want to talk!!
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Sweetie, I'm so sorry. ***HUGS***
I am sorry :-(
lots and lots of big hugs for you.
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this is horrible! i am so sorry for you and the fact that you have to go through this again!
my thoughts are with you
I'm so sorry. ::HUGS:: This is so unfair.
I hope your doctor can give you some anwsers so this never happens again.