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I'm officially coming back :(

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Crying... as a TTCAL'er (well, TTA for now obviously).

Sorry I have been MIA. I didn't want to post my situation on TTCAL until things were confirmed, either through my betas or if I started to miscarry.

My doctor called me on Friday afternoon to tell me that my original betas had doubled (Aug 3 & 5) and I told her that my spotting had resumed, only heavier. She had already sent me for more betas so she said she would call back with Wednesday's and Friday morning's results. Wednesday's were at 2400 and Friday's betas were still pending. She called me Saturday afternoon with Friday's betas: 2770.

I had one last draw on Monday and I have an appt with her on Wed. I haven't gotten my betas from Monday but I am starting to miscarry tonight. The bleeding has gotten heavier and red and I've been cramping.

I am devastated. Crying I was just finally letting myself get excited about this pg because the spotting had subsided and I was feeling good about it all.

I don't know why my body is doing this to me. Angry I am so mad. SO mad. Super AngryI really suspect that this is a hormonal issue and I am so mad that the first doctor I saw (not mine) totally dismissed my concerns.

I really hope my doctor agrees to do some testing when I see her on Wednesday, even though I haven't had the standard 3 losses.

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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry! Hugs!
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  • Aubs13Aubs13 member

    Oh, honey....I am so sorry.  We are here for you....Broken Heart

    I hope the doctor will agree to do some tests for you, too.  Thinking of you...

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  • RunSchwartzRunRunSchwartzRun
    I'm so sorry.  That sucks beyond words.  ((GIANT hugs))
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  • ikissedthecookikissedthecook
    I am so, so sorry. My OB decided to do testing after my second loss. I really hope yours had enough compassion to do the same. My heart is breaking for you right now. (((Big hugs)))
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  • elisbuelisbu member
    I hate to see this post. It makes me so sad. Honey, I am so, so sorry. Broken Heart
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  • PrincessDi80PrincessDi80

    No no no no no no no noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo  Crying 

    I am so sorry ((HUGS))

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  • shanna82shanna82 member
    So so sorry hon!  Crying  I can't believe this is happening either!  My dr did testing after 2 losses, so I really hope your doctor does this for you.  **big hugs**
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  • TheGregory's07TheGregory's07
    Oh my, hugs. I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • tigers413tigers413
    I am soooo sorry Crying big (((hugs)))
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member
    Oh Vicky, I am so, so sorry.  This is heartbreaking to hear.  I can't believe that dr. either - I am furious for you.  I hope your regular dr will agree to running some tests and figure out what is going on.  I am just so sorry ((((hugs)))). 
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  • owenstowenst
    I'm so, so sorry.  Many, many {{hugs}}.
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  • cherylanddougcherylanddoug member

    O, I am so incredibly sorry :(  I was so upset that my doctor told me she would do it if I mc'ed a 2nd time so hopefully yours will too.  ((Hugs))

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  • GummybearGummybear
    I am angry and heartbroken for you. I am so, so sorry that this is happening again.
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  • frogyiefrogyie
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    Oh, honey....I am so sorry.  We are here for you....Broken Heart

    I hope the doctor will agree to do some tests for you, too.  Thinking of you...

    This!! I feel so bad.. This is unfair!

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  • VeilSdeGTOVeilSdeGTO member
    It has not been a good day for teachers. I can't believe I am typing this to two people in a row. I'm so sorry it is not turning out well. I am keeping you in my T&P's. ((hugs))
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  • ej708ej708 member
    I'm so so sorry you're going through this again.  Huge ((hugs)) to you.  I hope your doctor can help find some answers for you. . .
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  • sunshinenvasunshinenva
    I am sorry.  We are here for you.  I hope your doctor gives you some answers and more importantly a new game plan.  HUGS
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  • b2b999b2b999
    You are in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • DawneecakesDawneecakes
    I am so sorry!
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  • rock-ellerock-elle member

    Oh honey, I am so so sorry, I felt that way too, I am so sorry, PM me if you want to talk!!

    (((BIG @ss hugs)))

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  • mandy6418mandy6418
    Im so sorry!! :::HUGS::: T&P for you!
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    Not you too!!! This is NOT a revolving door. We are not allowing you guys to come back! It's just not fair!


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  • BELOVEDCARMELBELOVEDCARMEL

    Sweetie, I'm so sorry. ***HUGS***

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  • AGFasoAGFaso
    Honey I've been thinking about you! I'm so so so so sorry.  I wish I could be there to give you HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS!  This is SO not fair.  I really hope that you get some testing.  I would ask if you can see a fertility specialist.  I'm here if you want to talk.  I am so sorry.
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  • StretchadStretchad member

    I am sorry :-(

    lots and lots of big hugs for you.

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  • 1stcomeslove21stcomeslove2
    i am so so sorry! My T&P are with you!
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so very sorry.
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  • BabyTrippinBabyTrippin member
    I'm so very sorry.  {{{hugs}}}
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    Oh my, I'm so so sorry.  I hope you do get some answers and are able to have a take home baby soon.
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  • jillcanadajillcanada
    {{{Hugs}}} I'm so so sorry you have to go through this again.
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  • MrsManning10MrsManning10
    I am so, so sorry.  (((hugs)))
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    I'm so sorry. Sending big hugs your way!
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  • jolieandscottjolieandscott
    I am so sorry. So unfair. I'm sending lots of T&Ps and big (((hugs))). I hope you get some answers. Crying 
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    HUGE ((hugs)).  I'm so sorry.
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  • Lkat17Lkat17 member
    Oh, that royally sucks. I'm so sorry. :( (((big hugs)))

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  • jen629jen629 member
    I am so sorry:( {{{HUGS}}}
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  • kbel424kbel424
    I'm so sorry! I wish that once we all left this board, there was no coming back. Its so unfair!
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  • Scout05Scout05 member
    I am so, so sorry honey.
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  • mc2010ttcmc2010ttc member

    this is horrible! i am so sorry for you and the fact that you have to go through this again!

    my thoughts are with you

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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member

    I'm so sorry. ::HUGS:: This is so unfair.

    I hope your doctor can give you some anwsers so this never happens again.

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