T&P's needed

TeacherVicky · August 2010

I'm sorry ladies, I feel like I've only been a Debbie Downer on this board lately.

I have started to spot again. This morning it was pinkish - it's only been brown.

I don't know what to do because I am supposed to be headed to Ottawa with my sister and my niece today (she was kind of counting on me to help her with her little one since it's a longer drive). I don't feel comfortable going if this progresses.

I am devastated to think of where this might lead. Crying

MrsManning10 · August 2010

I am so sorry. I have been thinking about you, and I truly hope that everything is okay. I understand not wanting to go, and I don't think I would if I were in your shoes. Sending T&P's your way.

(((((((hugs)))))))

Staribeth · August 2010

Sending you T&P. Do you have any cramping?

I cramped through the first tri and had pink spotting up until about 11 weeks. I know it is terrifying but try to stay positive. Would it be ok if you didn't go on the trip today? I am thinking of you. (((hugs)))

TeacherVicky · August 2010

Staribeth:

Sending you T&P. Do you have any cramping?

I cramped through the first tri and had pink spotting up until about 11 weeks. I know it is terrifying but try to stay positive. Would it be ok if you didn't go on the trip today? I am thinking of you. (((hugs)))

I think my sister would be very disappointed if I backed out because I know she didn't want to do a 5 hour car trip with her LO alone. I feel stuck and that either decision is a bad one.

Sonadora · August 2010

::hugs::

Staribeth · August 2010

If you don't feel good about it, I would talk to her. You need to take care of yourself. It's so hard to do that sometimes, but you should look out for you.

HeatherPB1020 · August 2010

I am sending you all the prayers I have.

lovethebosox · August 2010

I am so sorry this is all so stressful. Sending all my good wishes that things are okay in spite of all the spotting and worry.

OrangeCrush9 · August 2010

I'm so sorry, Vicky. I hope everything is all right. And I think you need to take care of yourself and your Baby right now, so if you don't feel comfortable going that's fine. If you feel like you should go, then maybe it will be a goodsistraction. You have a dr.'s appointment next week, right? Can you get in today for some reassurance? I'll be thinking about you. ((hugs))

vflipo · August 2010

((hugs)) I'm thinking of you!!

TeacherVicky · August 2010

Thanks ladies -

It has turned almost into active bleeding in the 30 minutes that I've been up. I think I am going to get ready and head to the ER.

My dr's office doesn't answer the phones on Friday.

Staribeth · August 2010

TeacherVicky:
Thanks ladies -
It has turned almost into active bleeding in the 30 minutes that I've been up. I think I am going to get ready and head to the ER.
My dr's office doesn't answer the phones on Friday.

I hope this is nothing serious. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. (((more hugs)))

sciteach104 · August 2010

i am sorry you are going throught this. sending you thoughts and prayers.

pepomntpat · August 2010

I think she should understand if you decide to stay home. I'd give your doctor a call. {hugs}

Scout05 · August 2010

I hope this stops soon, hon. I am so sorry.

MissK8 · August 2010

I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you're going through this today! All of my T&Ps are with you this morning - go to the ER for some reassurance. I hope they tell you it's nothing to worry about!

(((HUGS)))

shouldbworkin · August 2010

(((hugs))) I hope everything is ok. I wouldn't want to go either. I hope your sister understands.

PeetiePie · August 2010

I'm so sorry about the spotting. Is it possible to reschedule the trip? Sorry, I'm not sure what the occasion was.

starrynyt · August 2010

T&P's are with you today...lots of them. I hope all is okay.

hking76 · August 2010

[[hugs]] and lots of T&Ps. I understand that you're sister may be disappointed, but your LO is more important. Do you what you think is best in the long run for you and LO, your sister will forgive you.

jeannaqueena · August 2010

I will be saying lots of prayer, I think you are smart to head to the ER. I am so sorry that you are going through this on top of the added stress of this trip. Your sister will understand and she will manage, but you have got to take care of you! (((HUGS)))

mandy6418 · August 2010

Lots of T&P your way!

DoingItRight · August 2010

{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}

Sending good thoughts your way.

Valco · August 2010

I'm so sorry - you must be very scared. I would head to the Dr or ER - you have to take care of you and the baby first.

Good luck and sending positive thoughts your way...

ErininNYC · August 2010

TeacherVicky:
Thanks ladies -

It has turned almost into active bleeding in the 30 minutes that I've been up. I think I am going to get ready and head to the ER.

My dr's office doesn't answer the phones on Friday.

Thoughts and prayers are with you today. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this.

gwennythepooh · August 2010

((hugs)) I hope that everything is okay!!

Brady1* · August 2010

((HUGS)) I am so sorry you're going through this, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Don't worry about being a Debbie Downer, you're not and this is what we're here for sweetie.

grr_aargh · August 2010

Staribeth:
If you don't feel good about it, I would talk to her. You need to take care of yourself. It's so hard to do that sometimes, but you should look out for you.

This.

A 5 hour car trip alone is hard but not impossible. She'll survive - and she'll understand if you let her know what's up. Take care of yourself today. I'll be thinking of you.

kazpin · August 2010

Take care and I will be thinking of you!

Erin RN · August 2010

I'm so sorry you are in this situation:( Sending you T&P!

mdm2137 · August 2010

Sending you T&Ps. I hope everything is okay.

samm1983 · August 2010

Thoughts and prayers your way!

mkoelker · August 2010

I'm sorry. Big hugs to you!

sweetgirl425 · August 2010

I'm so sorry!! I'll keep you in my T&P's!! I can understand your hesitations about traveling right now and I think you are right to not want to go, even though it's a crappy choice to make, you probably just need to rest right now!

leneae10 · August 2010

(((HUGS)))) I hope everything turns out just fine. T&P's for you!

AppleRidge · August 2010

Fingers crossed for you. Spotting does not have to be bad.

ihearteddieboo · August 2010

Oh no! I'm so sorry you are going through this. ((Hugs)) You are in my T&Ps.

VeilSdeGTO · August 2010

I'm sorry this is happening to you. I hope you return from the ER with some positive news. ((hugs))

sinisterkat01 · August 2010

Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers. I think that you should go with your gut, and stay home from the trip, for what it's worth.

Wildlandwife · August 2010

I'm so sorry to hear this sweetie. I've been thinking and praying for you all night for this to stop. I wish there was something I could do.

Can you just tell your sister honestly what's going on and you don't feel comfortable leaving home? I would think she would be understanding. But you need to think of you and take care of yourself.

I've got my car ready, btw. ((big hugs))