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BM stopping over without calling

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So in the last month, BM#1 has stopped by for SS to pick something up, while my dh is at work.  Am I wrong to ask her to please send me a quick text if she is stopping by, especially if dh is at work? 

There are times when no one is home, and I like to walk around in my panties... i surely don't need my 12 year old ss to see that!  :)

I sent her a short email today, as my dh didn't do it.  And she said "I am so sorry". But seriously, I would NEVER just stop over at my ex's house without calling for my dd to pick something up,

 

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  • normajeane6126normajeane6126
    I'm sure this is awful, but I wouldn't answer the door. Either she'll see that you're home and call you from the front porch, or she'll leave. A couple times of this *should* be enough for her to get the picture.
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    imagenormajeane6126:
    I'm sure this is awful, but I wouldn't answer the door. Either she'll see that you're home and call you from the front porch, or she'll leave. A couple times of this *should* be enough for her to get the picture.

    Well the problem with doing that is that SS has a key and he just comes in, doesn't knock.

     

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    imagebebe11:

    imagenormajeane6126:
    I'm sure this is awful, but I wouldn't answer the door. Either she'll see that you're home and call you from the front porch, or she'll leave. A couple times of this *should* be enough for her to get the picture.

    Well the problem with doing that is that SS has a key and he just comes in, doesn't knock.

    Hmm... I guess all you can do is cross your fingers that she got the hint when you emailed her.

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  • socopennysocopenny
    Oh my! I see your frustration! Hopefully she got the message loud and clear from your email!
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