Pregnant after a Loss

Update from Hospital - Good & Bad

Well ladies it's going to be a long 7-9 weeks, I have severe preeclampsia and will not be leaving the hospital until the baby is born, which we hope to happen after 32 weeks, so we're now looking at a mid to late September baby.

First, she is doing great, her heart rate is normal and she is moving all around, doesn't even know anything is wrong.

I was on magnesium for 48 hours which is horrible but I'm off it now, the catheter is out and I can actually keep water down so things are getting better.  Yesterday had an MRI (where I actually completely freaked out and had to be sedated for it) and u/s done and all of that came back normal.  BP is back down and I'm being carefully monitored.  Already had 2 steroid shots to build up her lungs and this evening I'm being swicthed from lovenox to  heparin in case something happens and I do have to deliver.

Thank you so much for all of your support, it's going to be a long 9 weeks but I need her to stay put for that time so she can come out healthy and strong.  Please continue to keep all of us in your prayers and thoughts.  Thanks again everyone!

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  • saying t&ps for you and LO now.  you're in a good place, just take it easy and let everyone take care of you.  ((HUGS))
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  • I will keep you and your LO in my thoughts and prayers, hon. ((big hugs))

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  • I'm glad LO is handling all this so well, but man that stinks for you. I'm so sorry. :-( T&P's that these next weeks fly by (I know, fat chance of that happening with you in the hospital).
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  • Sending you and LO my T&P.  Hang in there.  ((hugs))
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  • Oh Wow!  My T&P's are with you and for your bedrest journey.  I am glad to hear that the LO is doing great in the meantime.  I will be watching for your updates.
  • Oh goodness, you've been through so much!  T&P that you will stay healthy and that Katen will continue to grow strong and hold out.  

    PS - I love her name - that's my sister's name (different spelling, same pronunciation). 

  • {hugs} It is going to be a long 9 weeks.  I'll be praying for you and your LO.  Take it easy on yourself.
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  • You poor thing!! I am so very glad to hear that LT is doing great despite all this.  You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry that you are going through all of this.  It is good to know that your LO is doing well, though.  My T&P are with you and your family.  Just be sure to take it easy and let everyone take care of you!
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  • Thinking of you and the LO.  I know it's going to suck being in the hospital all that time, but I hope you will be rewarded with a healthy daughter at 32 weeks.  Hugs!!
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  • You are both in my thoughts. I know it's a long haul, but you can do this.

    Stay in there, sweet girl. You've got some growing to do.

  • Praying for you and your baby girl. 
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  • Im so sorry. If you want to chat or anything girl PLEASE let me know. 99% chance I will be in the hospital starting on Monday!
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  • thinking of you and lo......that mag is terrible stufff..i had it at about 25.5 weeks as well...hope your health stays well!
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  • T&P sweetie! I hope that this little one gets maturing like she needs to and that she stays put until it's safe for her to come into the world. I also hope that you are able to keep strong!
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  • Oh sweetie . . . I am so sorry that you have to go through all of this right now.  I will be keeping you and your LO in my thoughts and prayers these next several weeks. 
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  • Keeping you and your LO in my thoughts and prayers!
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  • Lots of continued PT's. Try your best to relax ::hugs::
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  • I love you, and am praying for you and your LO. I hope she stays in there for a good 8+ weeks. I'm glad you are doing well for now. You are a fighter, she will be too.
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  • Sending lots of t&p's that you can hang in there another 9 weeks!

     

  • T&P to you hon. Of course it's not the news you wanted to give or we wanted to hear, but they will take care of you and baby girl. ((HUGS))
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  • You and LO will be in my T&P. Glad to hear that she is doing good!
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  • Geez! I'm really sorry you are having to deal with this. Please keep us up to date as I will be thinking of you!
  • Thinking of you.  Hope you get a laptop and some good books!!  I know bedrest is NO FUN, but get some rest while you can.  You'll be so sick of resting by the time she comes that you'll enjoy those midnight feedings, right?

     

    ;)

     

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    You and your LO will be in my thoughts!
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  • many T&P for your health and your LO!!!!
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  • (((HUGE HUGS)))

    I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this honey.  Sending lots of T&Ps to you and your little girl. 

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  • Sending you so many T&Ps! I am glad you will be well taken care of- even if it does mean staying in the hospital. We are all thinking of you and baby girl!
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  • oh wow, huge hugs!  I'm glad LO is doing so well in there and has no idea about what's going on!

    Are you a reader at all?  I was just thinking we should start a book recommendation thread for all the bed rest ladies to give you guys some great suggestions to pass the time.  Or maybe even a book club thread?

    Either way, I hope the time doesn't drag too much until your little girl is 32 weeks!

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  • I'm glad they are taking such good care of you, but I wish you didn't have to be there.  I'm so sorry, but she's so worth it.  Stay put LO, and grow fast and strong so your Mommy can take you home as soon as its safe!!!

     

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  • lots of thoughts and prayers going out to you.
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  • i'm hoping she stays put for a long, long time!!! 
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  • You are in my T&Ps I hope the time passes quickly fir you & I hope someone brings you regular food :0)
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  • T&P still comming your way. Hang in there. *hugs*
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  • Wow. I am glad your baby girl is doing ok...but you definitely have a lot to deal with on your plate. I am sending lots of prayers your way for a nice long stay in the hospital (ie baby not coming too early). Hang in there, mama.((((hugs))))
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  • It sounds like you are in good hands at the hospital.  You guys will be in my T&Ps, keep cooking little girl!
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  • Hang in there sweetie. I know this is scary but you are in great hands and LO will be ok. ::hugs::
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  • Oh, hun I'll be praying for you!!!
  • Many thoughts and prayers to you.  Hope BP stays down so LO can keep cooking.
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