I know everyone cares, and it trying to check on me. But I'm tired of the same e-mails, and the same text messages.
How are you? - Not good.
Are you okay? - Nope.
How do you feel? - Like shnit.
Even DH says yesterday: "You've been in a crappy mood." Then I respond with, "Well I lost my baby, and I've been sick and in pain for two months now... Hmmmm"
Does anyone say "Hey, wanta go see a movie?" "Wanta go to lunch?" - Nope. Even if I didnt want to, or didnt feel like going, just them asking would be nice!
Re: I'm a jerk.
I think people just don't know what to say so they would rather just avoid an "awkward" conversation. Lately, I've had to spend some time by myself, other I get really snippy and go off on people. Unless they've been through a loss themselves, most don't understand and the questions don't seem very sincere.