FFFC

greenclown · July 2010

I don't give a fvck anymore if my MIL finds out I'm KU on here. If she does, it's because she's snooping, and I don't think she'd ever say anything about it. The main reason we don't want anyone to know yet is because it's stressful enough without 15 billion questions a day about whether or not I'm still pregnant, so whatever. And yes, it would suck if she found out this news on here, but she did tell DH that she would stay off here.

w2smd · July 2010

Hey great minds Stick out tongue

I guess my second FFFC would be this.. I just received a gift (the soothe & glow seahorse!!) from a girl I went to college with and recently reconnected with over FB of all places.. A girl I was friends with almost 6 years ago and just recently reconnected with sent a lovely and thoughtful gift recognizing this baby... but my own family cant. Yeah, I'll probably never get over that..

ohashlet · July 2010

I'm pretty sure one of my friends lurks here, and I complain about her constantly. If she does, too bad for her.

SweetPeanis · July 2010

ohashlet:
I'm pretty sure one of my friends lurks here, and I complain about her constantly. If she does, too bad for her.

Oh I'm fairly certain my friend (who caused all of the drama on TTGP and made people assume she was my AE) is still lurking on here too. And I am so pissed right now at her for dragging me into her mess that I don't care if she's lurking and reading this right now. This is the exact reason I didn't want her posting on TB. Because she is a drama queen and I knew somehow I would get dragged through the mud becuase of something she did. I was right. Big shock.

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

There are a few people I can't stand. But they don't know it. They're such attention whores and are hurting my friends. Get off your fvcking high horse already. The world does not revolve around you.

Wow. That felt good.

stephsteph77 · July 2010

Here's one that will probably make you all think I'm weird. DH and I sleep in different rooms. It started after I had Callie and she was sleeping in the pnp next to me. He didn't want to disturb us when he got up for work, so he started sleeping in the guest room. Before Callie I slept with ear plugs since he snores so loud, but now I can't because I want to hear her if she wakes up. His snoring can wake me up from the guest room! So we are a happily married couple that sleeps in different rooms. Sexy time always seems to happen in my room though.

mrsadamc 05 · July 2010

I don't remember when DH and I last had sex. And I don't really care because he won't do what I really want him to do.

So since I go to bed before him if I'm feeling in the mood I just take care of things on my own.

mmkaye · July 2010

I keep talking to my ex on facebook. I know I probably shouldn't. But we were friends and kinda dated and then more than anything he was my BFF all through high school and a good part of college. We are solely friends though obviously. I would never ruin the good thing I have with dh.

I am a bad person.

armandos_girl · July 2010

SP - if it makes you feel any better, none of that has caused me to think any less of you. Your friend is a bit AWish, but I do think she suffered a loss and don't think she deserved to be raked over the coals the way she was. She more just struck me as someone who was trying too hard to fit in.

I have a good friend who could easily be seen the same way if she posted regularly. Luckily, she sticks to her local board and hasn't posted in forever.

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

mrsadamc 05:
I don't remember when DH and I last had sex. And I don't really care because he won't do what I really want him to do.

So since I go to bed before him if I'm feeling in the mood I just take care of things on my own.

Yes

Jenandtonica · July 2010

I have not had a voluntary* orgasm since Go Week back in May (when we conceived the triplets). First, we were both too tired from trying, then I got my BFP & the supersized progesterone suppositories (makes for gross territory), then I was put on pelvic rest in my 7th week - still on pelvic rest.

I didn't really care about the lack of O's till this week, when my parts either decided they're deprived or they're rocking that more-sensitive-because-of-blood-flow thing. Wiping after using the bathroom is ridiculous torture half the time.

The logical side of my brain says this is a short, short time to sacrifice my jollies, but my ladybits don't subscribe to logic. Grrr. Multiple personalities FTW.

*voluntary because I've had two sleep/dream O's. I wake up midway through and, um, IT'S NOT MY FAULT!

mrsmacias2008 · July 2010

I really reallly want to hump DH. like I can't stand it anymore. We are ok to have sex right now but I am just scared. Poor thing...I think he is ready to pull out his hair. I am so freakin horny for him that I am going to burst. I am hoping tonight is a good night...AND he got a haircut which makes him look even hotter!! aghhhh!!!

SweetPeanis · July 2010

armandos_girl:

SP - if it makes you feel any better, none of that has caused me to think any less of you. Your friend is a bit AWish, but I do think she suffered a loss and don't think she deserved to be raked over the coals the way she was. She more just struck me as someone who was trying too hard to fit in.

I have a good friend who could easily be seen the same way if she posted regularly. Luckily, she sticks to her local board and hasn't posted in forever.

This is her exactly. She wants to be part of the cool crowd right away and doesn't realize that on an internet message board, you have to start slow. I tried to give her tips on how to make it on TB but she didn't listen. Instead she did her own thing and was a HUGE AW and PW (bigger than me if you believe) and she really rubbed a lot of people the wrong way.

greenclown · July 2010

J&T, I'm the same way. I got a UTI while we were trying, so none for a while. Then I started bleeding right away, so I was on pelvic rest. I haven't been told I'm off pelvic rest, but bleeding and spotting has stopped, so I'm guessing it would be okay, but I'm scared. Then I'm out after the cerclage, and then I'll have to wait six weeks after a c-section.

So basically, I'll have sex again in March or April (assuming all goes as planned). But I keep having Os in my sleep. They scare the crap out of me because I don't have the best cervix, but I can't make them stop.

jlee1106 · July 2010

I've always wanted at least two kids. And I've always wanted them relatively close together (within a couple of years apart). I grew up in a big, close, family and I want the same for Jude.

But Mr. J and I have so much that we (he) need to work though, that I don't know if that will happen.

And I resent him for that.

That feels good to say.

fabbate13 · July 2010

I've not had any of the pregnancy sex dreams. Sad

And DH is afraid of me at this point..... very frustrating.

BostonGayGal · July 2010

My own fffc: Evidence of my degradation.

Often when I get new cases, the children are taken away from the mother to be put in foster care at the conclusion of the emergency hearing. Maybe by the time it actually happens, it is anticlimactic, they know it is coming or are in shock or feel defeated, or they hold it together because the courthouse is busy, or because it would traumatize the child to see their mom cry, but usually the separation is quiet and unremarkable.

I was finished one day but still at the courthouse. When the social worker and the court officers went to take the infant from the mother, she had an all-out break down-wailing, crying, pleading, begging for just a few minutes to hold her infant.

I watched people's reactions and most were mortified just watching; one woman actually cried.

The confession part - To me it was simply refreshing. In a sick way it was nice to see that a mother cared and responded as I imagine I would in a similar circumstance. Commit me now.

Jenandtonica · July 2010

GC, each doctor we see reminds us about the pelvic rest (or thinks they're the first to put me on it). I've had red bleeding 3 times already (that was diagnosed the last time as a SCH). I'll most likely be put on bedrest around 20-22 weeks and will likely remain that way till I deliver. Then there's recovery, and, God-willing THREE newborns to care for.

Perhaps we should start a BOTB convent. Crying (also? Those sleep/dream O's are the WORST. They make me feel so bad, especially because I've started spotting after both.)

FrauKlein · July 2010

I don't post on here much anymore because I feel like I have almost nothing in common anymore with you girls, and it is a little heart-breaking to think that I'll probably never have a pregnancy to discuss with any of you.

I also feel like as a woman who "simply" cannot get pregnant, people "get tired" of hearing about how I feel sad. And that kinda sucks. So I don't hang here for long anymore.

And there are many of you that I miss.

robinsokj · July 2010

Tim'sWifey:
There are a few people I can't stand. But they don't know it. They're such attention whores and are hurting my friends. Get off your fvcking high horse already. The world does not revolve around you.
Wow. That felt good.

Here or in general?

buckin · July 2010

FrauKlein:

I don't post on here much anymore because I feel like I have almost nothing in common anymore with you girls, and it is a little heart-breaking to think that I'll probably never have a pregnancy to discuss with any of you.

I also feel like as a woman who "simply" cannot get pregnant, people "get tired" of hearing about how I feel sad. And that kinda sucks. So I don't hang here for long anymore.

And there are many of you that I miss.

This makes me sad.

JenniferJaneC · July 2010

FrauKlein:
I don't post on here much anymore because I feel like I have almost nothing in common anymore with you girls, and it is a little heart-breaking to think that I'll probably never have a pregnancy to discuss with any of you.

I also feel like as a woman who "simply" cannot get pregnant, people "get tired" of hearing about how I feel sad. And that kinda sucks. So I don't hang here for long anymore.

And there are many of you that I miss.

I miss seeing you here. Like I said to BGG earlier, you are a big part of this family here, whether or not TTC is in the cards right now - or ever.

I can't fix your sadness about never being pregnant - if I could fix that for you or any of the ladies here damn straight I would in a second. But I hope you never, ever feel out of place here because of it.

You are loved and missed.

S&D_2005 · July 2010

Yesterday was my birthday, and it sucked. The plan was that DH would take me out to dinner on Saturday, but we were supposed to go on a picnic yesterday, just the three of us. So I get home from work, and just wait around figuring we would be leaving soon, but no. We just ate dinner, I did some laundry, and that was it. Then at night, I asked why we didn't go out on the picnic, and he said that he had to run to Home Depot and get some stuff for his parent's house because they are going through renovations, and he didn't have time to plan it out. I was so pissed and hurt. I've been giving him the silent treatment since last night, and I dread going home to see him tonight. I have an appointment after work, and I'm going to treat myself to sushi and a drink right after.

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

robinsokj:
Tim'sWifey:
There are a few people I can't stand. But they don't know it. They're such attention whores and are hurting my friends. Get off your fvcking high horse already. The world does not revolve around you.
Wow. That felt good.
Here or in general?

Yes.

krate24 · July 2010

FrauKlein:
I don't post on here much anymore because I feel like I have almost nothing in common anymore with you girls, and it is a little heart-breaking to think that I'll probably never have a pregnancy to discuss with any of you.

I also feel like as a woman who "simply" cannot get pregnant, people "get tired" of hearing about how I feel sad. And that kinda sucks. So I don't hang here for long anymore.

And there are many of you that I miss.

FWIW, I don't think it's that you "simply" can't get pregnant. There is nothing simple about that. And I don't think I would be able to handle it as well or as gracefully as you are. I think that you contributed a lot to this board and you belong here just as much as everyone else. But obviously you need to do what is comfortable for you.

robinsokj · July 2010

Tim'sWifey:
robinsokj:
Tim'sWifey:
There are a few people I can't stand. But they don't know it. They're such attention whores and are hurting my friends. Get off your fvcking high horse already. The world does not revolve around you.
Wow. That felt good.
Here or in general?
Yes.

I have a feeling theres lots of paranoia going on now

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

robinsokj:
Tim'sWifey:
robinsokj:
Tim'sWifey:
There are a few people I can't stand. But they don't know it. They're such attention whores and are hurting my friends. Get off your fvcking high horse already. The world does not revolve around you.
Wow. That felt good.
Here or in general?
Yes.
I have a feeling theres lots of paranoia going on now

I've received a few texts already.

I think at some point most people learn that the world does not revolve around them. It just doesn't. You can't be mean to one person who thought was your friend then cry when someone else (who you thought was your friend) is mean to you.

Oh well. I guess that is the glory of the internet. You can be whomever you want to be and act however you want to act.

leslie13510 · July 2010

Tim'sWifey:

I've received a few texts already.

I think at some point most people learn that the world does not revolve around them. It just doesn't. You can't be mean to one person who thought was your friend then cry when someone else (who you thought was your friend) is mean to you.

Oh well. I guess that is the glory of the internet. You can be whomever you want to be.

I have no clue what this is about (the joys of being blissfully unaware and unobservant) but can I be a ninja on the internet? I'd really like to be a ninja. Or maybe a ballerina.

robinsokj · July 2010

leslie13510:
Tim'sWifey:

I've received a few texts already.

I think at some point most people learn that the world does not revolve around them. It just doesn't. You can't be mean to one person who thought was your friend then cry when someone else (who you thought was your friend) is mean to you.

Oh well. I guess that is the glory of the internet. You can be whomever you want to be.

I have no clue what this is about (the joys of being blissfully unaware and unobservant) but can I be a ninja on the internet? I'd really like to be a ninja. Or maybe a ballerina.

ill be jack hanna

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

leslie13510:
I have no clue what this is about (the joys of being blissfully unaware and unobservant) but can I be a ninja on the internet? I'd really like to be a ninja. Or maybe a ballerina.

How about a ninja ballerina? That'd be awesome!

krate24 · July 2010

leslie13510:
Tim'sWifey:

I've received a few texts already.

I think at some point most people learn that the world does not revolve around them. It just doesn't. You can't be mean to one person who thought was your friend then cry when someone else (who you thought was your friend) is mean to you.

Oh well. I guess that is the glory of the internet. You can be whomever you want to be.

I have no clue what this is about (the joys of being blissfully unaware and unobservant) but can I be a ninja on the internet? I'd really like to be a ninja. Or maybe a ballerina.

Wait, are you trying to tell me you are not a ninja ballerina in real life?

leslie13510 · July 2010

Tim'sWifey:
leslie13510:
I have no clue what this is about (the joys of being blissfully unaware and unobservant) but can I be a ninja on the internet? I'd really like to be a ninja. Or maybe a ballerina.

How about a ninja ballerina? That'd be awesome!

Genius!

::runs off to practice ninja ballerina moves::

FrauKlein · July 2010

Can I be a super-fertile freakishly gorgeous genuis level vetrinarian?

leslie13510 · July 2010

FrauKlein:

Can I be a super-fertile freakishly gorgeous genuis level vetrinarian?

::dances ninja ballerina moves around FK::

Of course!

crownedbee · July 2010

FrauKlein:
Can I be a super-fertile freakishly gorgeous genuis level vetrinarian?

This but I'd like to be a billionaire instead of a vet.

FrauKlein · July 2010

Ok, a super-fertile, freakishly gorgeous, genius-level billionaire who also happens to be a veterinarian.

And I won't even bother correcting the misspellings in the last post. LOL.

ohashlet · July 2010

I have another.

I have a close girlfriend who is pregnant, due just three weeks before I was.

She had her anatomy scan today, and she's having another boy. She's elated. I'm relieved. Like, so relieved I cried when I read it. It's so wrong but if she was having a girl I would have lost it.

Tim'sWifey · July 2010

ohashlet:
I have another.
I have a close girlfriend who is pregnant, due just three weeks before I was.
She had her anatomy scan today, and she's having another boy. She's elated. I'm relieved. Like, so relieved I cried when I read it. It's so wrong but if she was having a girl I would have lost it.

I understand.

::hugs asshat::

hippotree · July 2010

FrauKlein:

I don't post on here much anymore because I feel like I have almost nothing in common anymore with you girls, and it is a little heart-breaking to think that I'll probably never have a pregnancy to discuss with any of you.

I also feel like as a woman who "simply" cannot get pregnant, people "get tired" of hearing about how I feel sad. And that kinda sucks. So I don't hang here for long anymore.

And there are many of you that I miss.

I really wish you didn't feel this way. Friendships on here go deeper than just having pregnancy/kids in common. And I've never minded your vents. You're missed.

FiremansWife2009baby · July 2010

My FFFC is that I keep telling myself to back away from the boards and stop wasting time here because I feel like no one notices or cares when I post something - so why waste my time?

Like how I posted that Logan was having surgery last week, and all of 3 people responded, and yet a post right above it about God-knows-what-nothing had like 15 responses. It hurt to think that no one cared about my son having surgery. And yet it makes me realize that although there are a few girls here who I've made deeper friendships with, and would probably continue to without TB, it's sad to me that after 3 years of posting no one cared about something serious to me.

And yet, I still come and lurk, and post occasionally. But don't feel the need to post anything personal to me, because I'm obviously the only one that cares. Which is the reason I never did a follow up on his surgery, because it's not like anyone would have cared!

Okay, that felt good to get out. Time to move on now!

ohashlet · July 2010

FiremansWife2009baby:
My FFFC is that I keep telling myself to back away from the boards and stop wasting time here because I feel like no one notices or cares when I post something - so why waste my time?

Like how I posted that Logan was having surgery last week, and all of 3 people responded, and yet a post right above it about God-knows-what-nothing had like 15 responses. It hurt to think that no one cared about my son having surgery. And yet it makes me realize that although there are a few girls here who I've made deeper friendships with, and would probably continue to without TB, it's sad to me that after 3 years of posting no one cared about something serious to me.

And yet, I still come and lurk, and post occasionally. But don't feel the need to post anything personal to me, because I'm obviously the only one that cares. Which is the reason I never did a follow up on his surgery, because it's not like anyone would have cared!

Okay, that felt good to get out. Time to move on now!

I feel like I'm here so often, and I'm ashamed because I know I didn't post. I am glad he's okay though.

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