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I have never hated someone so much.

ErourkeErourke
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My MIL has a pic of Lo on her facebook page & underneath her best friend wrote "Lola is your clone Yolanda. My God you would think you gave birth to her. She has your eyes and lashes and your smile. WOW"

 I am 100% sure she had her write this just to piss me off! She does this psychotic crap all the time! UGH vent over. 

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  • jessface926jessface926

    Is that a bad thing that they look alike? Because I think she's freaking adorable.

    Although if she had someone else write it to piss you off thats extremely odd and it would piss me off too.

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  • Hulahoop1234Hulahoop1234
    I would comment and say "that is soooo funny you say that, because she looks EXACTLY like my baby pictures.  DH is so excited that Lola got her mama's good looks!"
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  • ABColeslawABColeslaw member
    Yeah it sounds a little passive........
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  • ErourkeErourke
    imagejessface926:

    Is that a bad thing that they look alike? Because I think she's freaking adorable.

    Although if she had someone else write it to piss you off thats extremely odd and it would piss me off too.

    My MIL looks like someone lit her on fire & put her out with an ugly stick. 

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  • Melly MelMelly Mel member
    I am guessing there are deeper issues here lol
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  • ErourkeErourke
    imageMelly Mel:
    I am guessing there are deeper issues here lol
    Yea she gave my baby RSV when she was first born & damn near killed her. Shes beyond ignorant.
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  • Melly MelMelly Mel member

    imageErourke:
    imageMelly Mel:
    I am guessing there are deeper issues here lol
    Yea she gave my baby RSV when she was first born & damn near killed her. Shes beyond ignorant.

    Indifferent That's a shame. My MIL isn't a peach but definitely not that bad.

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  • MCMoo23MCMoo23
    imageErourke:
    imagejessface926:

    Is that a bad thing that they look alike? Because I think she's freaking adorable.

    Although if she had someone else write it to piss you off thats extremely odd and it would piss me off too.

    My MIL looks like someone lit her on fire & put her out with an ugly stick. 

    *snort* I'm sorry...that was just too funny. 

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  • smittysoupsmittysoup

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

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  • MrsRebeccaMrsRebecca member
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    I agree. I can't imagine she intentionally gave a newborn RSV.

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  • ErourkeErourke
    imageMrsRebecca:
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    I agree. I can't imagine she intentionally gave a newborn RSV.

    She brought cold medicine to the hospital with her the day i gave birth. Then proceeded to kiss LO all over her face at say.. 40 minutes old.

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  • FemmeNat01FemmeNat01 member
    imageMrsRebecca:
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    I agree. I can't imagine she intentionally gave a newborn RSV.

    Yeah but when she saw her knowing she was sick.... Plus, when your baby is in the hospital struggling to breath, it's not easy to watch.

    I can totally understand where you're coming from.

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  • simplyatomicsimplyatomic member
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    This. I don't get acting all dramarific over someones opinion. Who cares what she says?

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  • smittysoupsmittysoup
    I would be PO'd too about the RSV. That's crazy. 
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  • IrishBrideNDIrishBrideND member
    imagesimplyatomic:
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    This. I don't get acting all dramarific over someones opinion. Who cares what she says?

    yeah. All of this.

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  • MrsRebeccaMrsRebecca member
    imageFemmeFataleNat01:
    imageMrsRebecca:
    imagesmittysoup:

    I understand there may be some past issues that make you dislike your MIL...

    But your anger over this one item is a bit irrational my friend.  It's just not that flameworthy

    I agree. I can't imagine she intentionally gave a newborn RSV.

    Yeah but when she saw her knowing she was sick.... Plus, when your baby is in the hospital struggling to breath, it's not easy to watch.

    I can totally understand where you're coming from.

    I didn't know the back story so I didn't know how she gave her RSV. That sucks. I wouldn't have let her near my baby.

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  • StephE623StephE623 member
    That's annoying! You should say something like "well if they say the baby looks like you, it just means the baby really looks like her daddy and they say you because you have his features in feminine form" or something to that effect. That way, you take away from her feeling all smug about this.
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  • IrishBrideNDIrishBrideND member

    imageStephE623:
    That's annoying! You should say something like "well if they say the baby looks like you, it just means the baby really looks like her daddy and they say you because you have his features in feminine form" or something to that effect. That way, you take away from her feeling all smug about this.

    no, then you just look like you are immature and petty. There really isn't anything to do except ignore it.

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  • starryeyeddreamerstarryeyeddreamer member

    imageroxstarrgirl:
    well, I'm with you OP-- I think it's kind of creepy and annoying.

    This. I would be annoyed too - 1) because LO looks nothing like MIL, 2) my ILs drive me crazy right now.  

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  • Meli0604Meli0604
    I just want to say that picture of your DD is STUNNING.
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  • KSSmithKSSmith member
    first of all your DD is beautiful! also i agree with it being a little creepy, my SIL took a picture off my album and put it as her profile pick and comment "my adorable maddie"
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  • cataruper08cataruper08
    Your baby is beautiful. Those eyes. Where did you get your headband?
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