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Don't really get it...

So I know the term preggo is a term that is generally not accepted round these parts, but I am not sure I really get why. Is it just the "cuteness" of the word? Too juvenile? Is preggers OK? I have heard that used and not flamed so, is it just preggo or any cutsy term for pg. I don't really use those terms, but am not bothered by them either so I was just curious what the aversion was about. 
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Re: Don't really get it...

  • kerivpkerivp member

    Not sure how everyone else feels about it, but it just irks me.  If I'm adult enough to be trying to conceive a child, then I feel like I should be adult enough to use the real term - pregnant. 

    That's just me, though...

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  • Some will say that preggers and preggo sound juvenile and we're all adults so they sound silly. Just like using the words baby dance for sex. I mean, the sentence "We did the baby dance and got preggers" just sounds ridiculous. I personally don't prefer KU either but most don't seem to mind. I just don't use it myself.

    Others will say that preggers and preggo almost belittles what we're trying to do, especially those who have been trying a long time or have trouble TTC. I'm trying so hard to get pregNANT, not preggo.

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  • I don't know...but when I hear preggo, I think of spaghetti sauce or Juno...
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    I really don't care what people say: pg, preggers, preggo, KU, KTFU....My DH always says preggers.

    What I do hate is "BD" IMO if you can't say "sex" you shouldn't be having it.

    (Sorry to get off topic)

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  • For me...yeah, it is just too cutesie and juvenile.  Everytime I hear/see it I can only see "16 and pregnant".  I hate preggers too.


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    imageTheMrsRN:
    I don't know...but when I hear preggo, I think of spaghetti sauce or Juno...

    Ha ha, I totally think of the spahetti sauce too!

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  • Preggo and preggers both bother me. I dont understand why people cant just pregnant. Its not like they are really abbreviations preggers and pregnant have the SAME AMOUNT OF LETTERS lol. I say pregnant because I'm adult. I say box instead of vagina because I'm crude.
  • I used to not get it either, but once I got serious about TTC--from the minute I went of BC--it irked me. And the longer I TTC, the more it irks me. I agree with pp that it sort of downplays the seriousness.

    That's not to say I have not used the terms with friends who use them, but I try not to even with them.

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  • imagecantalopes24:
    Preggo and preggers both bother me. I dont understand why people cant just pregnant. Its not like they are really abbreviations preggers and pregnant have the SAME AMOUNT OF LETTERS lol. I say pregnant because I'm adult. I say box instead of vagina because I'm crude.

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  • imagecantalopes24:
    Preggo and preggers both bother me. I dont understand why people cant just pregnant. Its not like they are really abbreviations preggers and pregnant have the SAME AMOUNT OF LETTERS lol. I say pregnant because I'm adult. I say box instead of vagina because I'm crude.

    LMAO! I was going to ask about this!  

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  • imagecantalopes24:
    Preggo and preggers both bother me. I dont understand why people cant just pregnant. Its not like they are really abbreviations preggers and pregnant have the SAME AMOUNT OF LETTERS lol. I say pregnant because I'm adult. I say box instead of vagina because I'm crude.

     

    FFS, now I have a crush on you. lol

     

    I am an adult. I don't need cute terms for grown up things. I have sex, I don't do a "baby dance". I don't get preggers or preggo, I (hopefully) will get pregnant. Grown up words, let's use them.

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  • Too cutesy and juvenile. 
  • I know why they don't like it as you've seen in previous posts, although it doesn't bother me what other people use . You won't catch me saying it (I think it sounds silly), but I'm not going to have a problem if someone else does.
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  • Alright - it is getting clearer. Thanks for the education.
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    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
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  • imagecrwelschmeyer:
    I know why they don't like it as you've seen in previous posts, although it doesn't bother me what other people use . You won't catch me saying it (I think it sounds silly), but I'm not going to have a problem if someone else does.

    This is pretty much where I was coming from. I am not bothered by it, but now understanding why others are.  

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    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

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  • kje120kje120 member
    imagekerivp:

    Not sure how everyone else feels about it, but it just irks me.  If I'm adult enough to be trying to conceive a child, then I feel like I should be adult enough to use the real term - pregnant. 

    That's just me, though...

    This.  I just find the terms annoying.  Of course I also can't stand 'text speak' (OMG - u r 2 funny).

    Bottom line, just use the real word.

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  • imagecantalopes24:
    Preggo and preggers both bother me. I dont understand why people cant just pregnant. Its not like they are really abbreviations preggers and pregnant have the SAME AMOUNT OF LETTERS lol. I say pregnant because I'm adult. I say box instead of vagina because I'm crude.

    This made me LOL; DH gave me the side-eye. :) 

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    imagekerivp:

    Not sure how everyone else feels about it, but it just irks me.  If I'm adult enough to be trying to conceive a child, then I feel like I should be adult enough to use the real term - pregnant. 

    That's just me, though...

    This.  I just find the terms annoying.  Of course I also can't stand 'text speak' (OMG - u r 2 funny).

    Bottom line, just use the real word.

    Now I can not STAND that! I have a FB friend that I blocked because she uses this excessively on her posts like - 2nite or gdnite - It's almost harder to figure out how to write like that than to just spell it out!  

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    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
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  • imageLGLDVM:
    I say sex and pregnant.  It's like calling a penis or vagina "pee pee" and "tee tee" to a child, it's juvenile and it doesn't make sense.

    This.

  • I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

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    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    Pregtarded.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    (And this is no way an endorsement of the word "retarded") 

  • imageTaceyK:

    I really don't care what people say: pg, preggers, preggo, KU, KTFU....My DH always says preggers.

    What I do hate is "BD" IMO if you can't say "sex" you shouldn't be having it.

    (Sorry to get off topic)

    And by the same argument, if you can't say pregnant, you probably shouldn't be.

  • imagePattypoundcake:
    imageMilliways:

    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    Pregtarded.

    (And this is no way an endorsement of the word "retarded") 

    Preginsane.

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    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    That one's my favorite! add pregasaurus-rex 

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    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

    a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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  • imageNMscubagirl:
    imageMilliways:

    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    That one's my favorite! add pregasaurus-rex 

    Hahaha, we refer to the DUFF as the Friendasaurus

  • imagecantalopes24:
    imageNMscubagirl:
    imageMilliways:

    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    That one's my favorite! add pregasaurus-rex 

    Hahaha, we refer to the DUFF as the Friendasaurus

    DUFF? 

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    Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

    a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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  • imageNMscubagirl:
    imagecantalopes24:
    imageNMscubagirl:
    imageMilliways:

    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    That one's my favorite! add pregasaurus-rex 

    Hahaha, we refer to the DUFF as the Friendasaurus

    DUFF? 

    Dumb Ugly Fat Friend lol

  • imagecantalopes24:
    imageNMscubagirl:
    imagecantalopes24:
    imageNMscubagirl:
    imageMilliways:

    I am going to use Pregaroo!!!

    as in I can't wait until I am PREGAROO!!!

    or Pregasquee!!!

    or Pregaawesome!

    or Preganated to the max!

     

    That one's my favorite! add pregasaurus-rex 

    Hahaha, we refer to the DUFF as the Friendasaurus

    DUFF? 

    Dumb Ugly Fat Friend lol

    OMG ...  

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    Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
    DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
    Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
    IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
    FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
    IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
    SAIF/PAIF always welcome

    a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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  • imagecantalopes24:

    Dumb Ugly Fat Friend lol

    OMG, I am scared to ask what you call people who are your enemies :)

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  • imageMilliways:
    imagecantalopes24:

    Dumb Ugly Fat Friend lol

    OMG, I am scared to ask what you call people who are your enemies :)

    Lol, I would never refer to MY dumb ugly fat friends as Friendasaurus (or Land Monster) for that matter. Just other peoples :) And of course DS bio dads 300+ lb gf.

  • I'd like to add 'pregtastic' to the list of things I'd like to be.
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  • Different strokes for different folks. Board culture seems to dictate that preggo and preggers are not ok, but KU and personifying your period (AF) is. ::Shrugs:: Who knows why. Does it really matter?
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