MH was no help... talk didn't go how I wanted...

Temp356619000002780 · July 2010

I told him we needed to talk so get home ASAP after work. He normally would be home by 8:30pm, but it was close to 10 and he was still not home. My phone was not working kept telling me no service. So I was fuming. He comes home with an apple bag and got me the new iPhone. That's why he was late and I couldn't call him. This sounds sweet to most, but not to me. MH does this when he wants to avoid an issue. He buys me something. So I was even more pissed off. I walked out of the room with nothing to say. He then chases me to the bedroom and starts explaining that their isn't anything to talk about. He said in his mind he figured we would TTC until we run out of IF coverage. He said he understands I am upset, and that's why he got me the gift. I didn't say a word and just sat quietly. Then I told him since he likes to buy me things he needs to figure out a way to buy me a baby (meaning adoption). He told me if all else fails we can look into it. He said he just doesn't want to give up on having our own until we have no choice.

This wasn't the outcome I was looking for, but I'll take it for now. So I started my injects last night. MH said if the cyst grows from here to Thursday they will cancel the cycle anyway.

Ladybug71109 · July 2010

I'm sorry, Mari. My DH will avoid "deep" conversations at all costs too. Hopefully it was a step in the right direction? Good luck!

Blasianlove · July 2010

::hugs:: I hope things get better. I am praying for you mi amor. Plus praying that your cyst go away.

Just wondering.... do you need my address so you can send me the iPhone instead?

Temp356619000002780 · July 2010

xxbblueangelxx:

::hugs:: I hope things get better. I am praying for you mi amor. Plus praying that your cyst go away.

Just wondering.... do you need my address so you can send me the iPhone instead?

LMAO!! Nah I took that after the crying and huging was done and over with.

Thanks hon!

roadstar · July 2010

Mari i'm so sorry the talk didn't go well last night. It sucks that the two of you are not on the same page right now.

I would have been bullsh*t about the phone, too.

orange1414 · July 2010

((hugs)) I hope you guys can find common ground (and a baby!)

rach2100 · July 2010

Oh, Mari...so sorry that the talk didn't go as you thought it would/should. Hopefully you'll both be on the same page...quickly! Have fun playing with the phone!

Blasianlove · July 2010

mari2003:
xxbblueangelxx:

::hugs:: I hope things get better. I am praying for you mi amor. Plus praying that your cyst go away.

Just wondering.... do you need my address so you can send me the iPhone instead?

LMAO!! Nah I took that after the crying and huging was done and over with.

Thanks hon!

Awe, boo. I hope you are feeling better now. I hope he tossed in some good apps.

I looked at my iPhone upgrade date the other day, those bastards changed it from May 2011 to Aug 2011, I have to wait even longer.

I may just shake M down for a iPhone for Christmas.

JKGymnast · July 2010

I'm sorry about all this Mari.... Hope your cyst doesnt grow either!

mikeandangie · July 2010

Classic guy avoidant behavior huh? Though truth be told, he may have distracted me with the iPhone lol.

Maybe it will just take a bit of time with you to get on the same page, but I think that the good news is that he is open to all possibilities.

Temp356619000002780 · July 2010

xxbblueangelxx:
mari2003:
xxbblueangelxx:

::hugs:: I hope things get better. I am praying for you mi amor. Plus praying that your cyst go away.

Just wondering.... do you need my address so you can send me the iPhone instead?

LMAO!! Nah I took that after the crying and huging was done and over with.

Thanks hon!

Awe, boo. I hope you are feeling better now. I hope he tossed in some good apps.

I looked at my iPhone upgrade date the other day, those bastards changed it from May 2011 to Aug 2011, I have to wait even longer.

I may just shake M down for a iPhone for Christmas.

Damn that sucks... That sounds like a good idea for Christmas. He gave me $60 for a new case and tunes. It was a sweet gesture I just wish we could talk about it!

soon2Bmrs.AGEE · July 2010

I'm sorry Mari!! ((HUGS)) My husband does his best at avoiding this type of stuff. Glad you were able to enjoy the iPhone once things calmed down. I will gladly take it off you hands if you change your mind! Wink

jenna916 · July 2010

Sorry it didn't go the way you wanted it to. I hope in time you'll be able to move closer to the same page.

Jill070707 · July 2010

I hope the cyst stays small and you can get this cycle in. I really, really hope it works for you. *hugs*

Temp356619000002780 · July 2010

Jill070707:
I hope the cyst stays small and you can get this cycle in. I really, really hope it works for you. *hugs*

Thanks Jill and thanks ladies I do appreciate all your support. Oh and yes I am enjoying the new phone... lol

Jezebell26 · July 2010

Im so sorry the talk did not go as you had hoped. I hope things turn out better for you and that the injectibles work for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

BBColt78 · July 2010

Let's shrink that SOB!

I'm glad to hear YH is on board with treatments and adoption.

Are you happy about the phone yet? LOL

Temp356619000002780 · July 2010

BBColt78:

Let's shrink that SOB!

I'm glad to hear YH is on board with treatments and adoption.

Are you happy about the phone yet? LOL

You know it gets awful reception at work! LOL!!

cutebride73 · July 2010

Well, even though it was not the conversation you had hoped for, at least he seems more open to the idea of adoption - IF you need it. Hopefully, you won't and this cycle will work out.

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