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NEFR: Did you keep or sell your wedding dress?

I keep seeing my wedding dress just sitting in the closet and it's driving me nuts. I think to myself "I could sell that and probably make a good bit of money" but then I think "ugh it's my wedding dress and what if Addison wants it?" then I think "I would NEVER wear my mother's dress why would she want to?"

I keep going back and forth... just wondering what other ladies did. I just HATE useless clutter and that's what I feel it is, but then I am sentimental so I keep holding onto it for that reason. Plus it's SO beautiful.... LOL
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Re: NEFR: Did you keep or sell your wedding dress?

  • I kept mine.  It's totally useless, but I'm not a dress kinda girl, and I love this dress SO much.  Thinking about getting rid of it makes me a little ill.
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  • I hear you.  We didn't use my dress for the actual wedding, but for our vow renewal on our 1 year anniversary so there's that too. 

    I may end up selling it.  It's nothing special, and it doesn't hold much sentimental value for me.  The dress I wore to the courthouse does though.  At least it takes up less space!

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    My dress was beautiful, but cost less than $100. (Store was going out of business and I didn't even know until I checked out and the price didn't match what was on the tag- SCORE!)

    Anyhow, I keep it in my back closet on a hanger. I never even got it cleaned, as the cleaning would cost more than the dress. 

    I LOVED playing dress up in my mom's dress, so I figured I'd hang onto it for my little girl to dress up in!

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  • It is still hanging in the closet of my old room back home.  We didn't have room to take it back with us.  I was going to get someone to make it into a baptism dress for DD, however my neighbor fell in love with it and hopes when her DD get married she will wear it I'm not 100% sure how her DD feels about it.  I'm sure she will not be getting married for few years but I left it as she may want to wear it.

    If she doesn't use it I will make it into a dress down the road for DD.

  • My dress is hanging up in the closet at my parent's house where I took it off the night of our wedding!!  I've actually worn it again since then.  My wedding photographer is doing a series of his past brides and what their dress means to them now :)  I don't know what will happen to my dress.  I'm not having a daughter so that's out, I doubt my younger sister will want to wear it, but I still can't bring myself to get rid of it.  I love it so much!

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  • I kept it, largely because it was relatively risque, tailored to fit me (and so it would be unlikely to fit anyone else), and I didn't want to go through the trouble of selling it. It was unique, and I am under no delusions that a future child might want to wear it, and that's totally fine with me. I never played dress up in my mom's, because it was damaged in a flood, so I don't even have a pull to use it that way.

    Because I don't want it to just sit there, and it does have some pretty embellishment, I'll be making Bugbear a christening blanket from mine, since we already have a family heirloom christening gown. I know that SIL is having her DD's First Communion dress made from her wedding dress, which could be another way to reuse it.

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  • i had mine cleaned and 'preserved' so it's in a box in my closet.  we live in an old cape cod with no attic....b/c there's no attic, every room has walk in closets.  my room has a closet with-in a closet.  the 'with-in' a closet part is smaller, so that's where we store special occassion clothes.
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    My dress is hanging up in the closet at my parent's house where I took it off the night of our wedding!!  I've actually worn it again since then.  My wedding photographer is doing a series of his past brides and what their dress means to them now :)  I don't know what will happen to my dress.  I'm not having a daughter so that's out, I doubt my younger sister will want to wear it, but I still can't bring myself to get rid of it.  I love it so much!

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    LOVE those pics!!!

     

    Ya I dunno... I know it'd be hard to get rid of it, but I just don't see the point of keeping it. We don't attend church so Baptism stuff is out.... ugh.

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  • I sold mine shortly after my wedding to a knottie who really wanted the same dress but it wasn't in her budget.  Unfortunately her wedding was 3 weeks after mine so as soon as I returned from my wedding weekend we shipped it off to her and I was hysterical over it.  I regretted it for a very long time.  The money I made from it went into savings but meant nothing to me compared to the dress.  I was trying to help another bride and I'm glad she got to enjoy the dress too, but it hurt me to let it go and took a while to move past it.  5 years later I'd love to see the dress but wouldn't care for it taking up storage space.
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  • Mine was a simple dress (we eloped) that I ended up dyeing and have actually gotten to wear it several more times...

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  • I loved my dress so much but I'm not the kind of person to save things for the sake of saving things. I would NEVER have worn my mother's wedding dress so why would I expect Claire would want to? I gave mine away to a girl who couldn't afford a wedding dress but was getting married.
  • Had mine boxed professionally with my veil.  I am very sentimental and could never part with it lol
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  • I have mine.  I figure I'll keep it.  It will be neat to one day show my daughter what I wore when I married her daddy.  My mom actually wore her dress for a special message that was preached on marriage at our old church 7 or 8 years ago.  My grandpa even came and pretended to give her away again.  It was pretty cool.
  • I was all for selling it but my dh is the one who begged me not to.  He is super sentimental about stuff like that and he actually choked up when I told him I was thinking of selling it.  So...it sits in the attic.  I don't expect Kate to wear it ever as a wedding gown but who knows what the kids might want to do with it.

     

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  • I totally would have sold mine but it's been at my mom's house since the wedding and since I don't live nearby (out of state) she's the one that would have had to show it to people etc so I never did.
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  • It's preserved on a box at my parents. I wanted to keep it, but not enough to fly it over the ocean (already did that once for the wedding!)

    I couldn't bear to part with it. Plus I'm so short no one else could have worn it really. I have a tiny hope that my daughter would want to wear it (severely altered, fine with me). Otherwise it could be sewn into something else. Who knows.

  • i donated mine to brides against breast cancer.
  • I kept it.  I had no desire to wear my mother's dress (nor would it have fit me), but I loved being able to see it.  Right before I got married, she took it out of her box.  My little sister (who is tiny) tried it on.  It was a really cool moment.  Then and there I decided I would keep mine for my daughter, just so she could see it. 

    I did, by the way, wear my mother's veil, so I'm glad she kept it.

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  • I have mine still hanging in the closet.  It would be kind of hard to sell because it was custom made for my body -it was either buy the $600 dress at Davids and have them take it down a size or get the knockoff from ebay for $200 that was custom made. I went with the ebay dress. I love it- can't part with it.

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  • I tried to sell it, no one bought - I have no idea why, its not trendy and classic and of course gorgeous!
  • I think I will have my dress made into a first communion dress, and if we don't have a daughter then I might have it made into a baptism gown for our last child.  I put my veil into a acid free box.  My mother wore that veil and then me, who knows maybe if I have a daughter she will wear it too.  
  • 5.5 years later it's still hanging in a closet.  I didn't even clean it, just zipped it back up into it's bag.
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