Infertility

Honesty

Ill be honest and say that when someone here posts a BFP post, I look at how many posts they have and if I " know" them or not.
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Re: Honesty

  • I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.
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  • I think that's completely reasonable.  This is not a pregnancy announcement board.  There are several of those, 1st tri or SAIF.
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • I do, too.

    After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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  • O dont get me wrong Im happy when someone on IF gets a BFP but if i dont "know" you and your story or how long you have been TTC, I could care less.
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  • I do as well.  I also look at their siggy for their IF history.
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  • imagenjohnson1972:
    I do as well.  I also look at their siggy for their IF history.

    this too!

    I will be sure to post my entire history when I post a BFP, just so everyone knows! he he 

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  • IMO--you get what you give.

    If you've been a member of this board, have been around to give support, hugs and love and have celebrated with us when we've had good news, you will get the same.

    If you haven't been there for others, why should we be there for you?

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Or why does their siggy counter show days to Ovulation when they did a FET?  Makes no sense.
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  • imagemadelyn07:

    IMO--you get what you give.

    If you've been a member of this board, have been around to give support, hugs and love and have celebrated with us when we've had good news, you will get the same.

    If you haven't been there for others, why should we be there for you?

     

     

    Agree! 

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  • imagemadelyn07:

    IMO--you get what you give.

    If you've been a member of this board, have been around to give support, hugs and love and have celebrated with us when we've had good news, you will get the same.

    If you haven't been there for others, why should we be there for you?

     

    This. I'm happy for the "short-timers" but I'm much more likely to post and share with those who've "been along for the ride." 

    Married 08.06
    Started TTC 05.08
    Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
    DH: perfect
    1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
    2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!

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    1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP! 

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  • imageML4106:
    I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.

    Don't take this the wrong way, as it appears that you are a lurker who thinks that we know you well.  But why do you feel the need to post your BFP on this board when you have 76 posts in the last year (which may or may not have been on this board)?

    Let me guess, to give us hope?

    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • imagemsjcordova:
    O dont get me wrong Im happy when someone on IF gets a BFP but if i dont "know" you and your story or how long you have been TTC, I could care less.

    I completely agree! 

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  • imagekthappy76:

    imageML4106:
    I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.

    Don't take this the wrong way, as it appears that you are a lurker who thinks that we know you well.  But why do you feel the need to post your BFP on this board when you have 76 posts in the last year (which may or may not have been on this board)?

    Let me guess, to give us hope?

    bwhahaha!

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • imagemsjcordova:
    imagemadelyn07:

    IMO--you get what you give.

    If you've been a member of this board, have been around to give support, hugs and love and have celebrated with us when we've had good news, you will get the same.

    If you haven't been there for others, why should we be there for you?

     

    Me too. To me, it is no different than walking up to a stranger and telling them you are pregnant and then expecting them to be happy and supportive of you.

     

    Agree! 

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  • imagemadelyn07:
    imagekthappy76:

    imageML4106:
    I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.

    Don't take this the wrong way, as it appears that you are a lurker who thinks that we know you well.  But why do you feel the need to post your BFP on this board when you have 76 posts in the last year (which may or may not have been on this board)?

    Let me guess, to give us hope?

    bwhahaha!

    oh that was already done with her crinone post.......

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  • imagekthappy76:

    imageML4106:
    I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.

    Don't take this the wrong way, as it appears that you are a lurker who thinks that we know you well.  But why do you feel the need to post your BFP on this board when you have 76 posts in the last year (which may or may not have been on this board)?

    Let me guess, to give us hope?

    Yes


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  • imagenjohnson1972:
    I do as well.  I also look at their siggy for their IF history.

    Ditto this.  Anyone else find it just a little ironic that the only congrats in that post is by someone with even fewer posts?  And now another post with advice too!  Hmm

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  • I love you ladies!

     

     

    Just sayin... 

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  • imageMrs.P7/15/06:
    imagemadelyn07:
    imagekthappy76:

    imageML4106:
    I am happy every time somebody posts that they got a positive, especially when they have had infertility problems.

    Don't take this the wrong way, as it appears that you are a lurker who thinks that we know you well.  But why do you feel the need to post your BFP on this board when you have 76 posts in the last year (which may or may not have been on this board)?

    Let me guess, to give us hope?

    bwhahaha!

    oh that was already done with her crinone post.......

    insert MAJOR eye roll here please...

    Confused

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • imageSunshine05:

    imagenjohnson1972:
    I do as well.  I also look at their siggy for their IF history.

    Ditto this.  Anyone else find it just a little ironic that the only congrats in that post is by someone with even fewer posts?  And now another post with advice too!  Hmm

    Because they are clueless! Wink   Oy. People make my head hurt.

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  • Kimarino FTW! 
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  • Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.
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    After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.

    so you don't have to time to post and support other women dealing with IF, but you do have time to let a bunch of random women know that you are pregnant......

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  • imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.

    I think you've got that backwards, we are supportive and you are "typically caddy".  GL to you (you might want to get your P4 up a bit btw).

    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.

    So apparently you aren't even a lurker...or else you would know how INCREDIBLY supportive this board is. Like I said...you get what you give...

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.

     

    Anyone else think of this?

     

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  • imagekimarino13:
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    hilarious!!!! 

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  • imagekimarino13:
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    THIS is spectacular!

    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

    Thankful for every day

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.

    Caddy????  Oh geez, you are terribly predictable. It's not just about your number of posts. It's about your LACK OF SUPPORT and the fact that you have never bothered to share your journey to even give us a chance to give a crap about your BFP.

    Since you are evidently SO busy, run along now......

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  • imagekimarino13:
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     HAHA! Kim, seriously, I love you.

    I wonder if *someone* will understand this...

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

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    imagemadelyn07:

    imagekimarino13:
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     HAHA! Kim, seriously, I love you.

    I wonder if *someone* will understand this...

    No she won't - it will go right over her head! 

  • albjagalbjag member
    Me too.
    Surprise BFP after 5 yrs of TTC
  • imagekimarino13:
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    omg.... now I have to explain to IT how I got coffee splattered all over my keyboard.

    Seriously, greatest response EVAH!!!! 

     

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  • imagekthappy76:

    imageML4106:
    Good lord, you guys are typical caddy women.  It's nice to see how supportive women can be.  I can't sit here for hours posting all day so I can get points next to my name.  Best of luck everybody.

    I think you've got that backwards, we are supportive and you are "typically caddy".  GL to you (you might want to get your P4 up a bit btw).

    Ditto this. I know you are busy and all ML4, but you may want to find some time to do a little basic reproductive research. I'm not so sure your Doc has.

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  • imageMrs.P7/15/06:

    imagekimarino13:
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    hilarious!!!! 

     BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

    IVF #1 BFN... IVF #2 BFP! TWINS!
    Twins born too early at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix
    FET #1, IUI #1, 2, 3, 4 - all BFN
    IVF #3 BFP!!! IT'S A BOY! Born July 16th, 2011
    FET #2 BFP! Due February 15, 2013
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  • imagekaterena:

    imagekimarino13:
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    omg.... now I have to explain to IT how I got coffee splattered all over my keyboard.

    Seriously, greatest response EVAH!!!! 

     

    Now *those* are some caddy women!

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  • I think I just peed myself from laughing at this thread. Love you ladies!

    DX PCOS w/IR 01/08.
    Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
     
    My IF/Everything Blog
    There's No Crying in Baseball
    ***My posts are always SAIFW**
  • imageRachael07.07.07:

    I think I just peed myself from laughing at this thread. Love you ladies!

    Your peopleofwalmart picture makes me want to pee my self everytime! I love it 

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