TTC After a Loss

Ok REALLY Bad idea!

Dh and I wanted to get out of the house and went to dinner at cheese cake factory.  Since I am basically not pregnant anymore (well technically I am but its dead... sorry if that was blunt) I decided not to have one but TWO mojitos since my D&C isn't until tuesday... After not drinking for 3 months I am now well on my way to being drunk.  I have to work tomorrow and now really dizzy.  Also since it was at the mall i decided I must buy a new bra and drag my DH with me.  She wanted to measure me becuase she didn't believe me when I told her my size.  I was right and and I actually HIGH FIVED my DH!!! Who does that?!?!  My boobs have grown since the first PG and since they have deflated I figured I would prove him right since he didn't believe me.  OK i am rambling but someone remind me that I should do this when I technically am still PG (its not good practice for when I can actually keep a baby).  I hope I am not too hungover to go to work tomorrow.
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  • Ah, it happens to the best of us.  Drink lots of water!!!  ((HUGS))
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    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
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  • I know I feel like such a bad potential mom. 
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    ((hugs))
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    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
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  • Aw sweetie it's fine - give yourself a break - you deserve it.  You are not a bad potential mom one bit!!!  I hope you aren't hungover tomorrow just because you will feel yucky.  But, at least it's Friday and then you will have the weekend to recover. 
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  • don't worry. there's no way you'll make this habit when you have your sticky baby.  drink some water and cuddle up to your dh.  (hugs)

  • imagefrogyie:
    I know I feel like such a bad potential mom. 

    NO, hun, you are NOT!  You are doing what you have to do to get through a really shitty situation.  You are going to be an amazing mom.  ((HUGS))

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    Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
    Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
    Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
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  • ...and FYI, the bra thing is effing hilarious!!!
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    Twin boys born too early at 17w4d and 18w2d in February 2010
    Transabdominal cerclage placed September 2010
    DS born at 35w1d in February 2011
    Twin girls born at exactly 36w in February 2013
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imageleneae10:

    imagefrogyie:
    I know I feel like such a bad potential mom. 

    NO, hun, you are NOT!  You are doing what you have to do to get through a really shitty situation.  You are going to be an amazing mom.  ((HUGS))

    This exactly!!! You're not a bad potential mom at all!


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • ((hugs)) hope you don't have a headache in the morning.

    Jenn

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  • This also happened to me durin my 3rd loss. They day after the RE told me that my beta was dropping I went with my friend to her SILs house and I had 2 screw drivers and I was gone. It also has a lot to do with the hCG still in your system. It lowers your alcohol tolerance.

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  • Those mojitos were much deserved.  No one looks at you any differenlty.  As a matter of fact, I'm sure most of us would have done the same (if not more Confused) I'm so sorry you are going thru this again.  (( hugs ))

    PS- No one ever believes my bra size, so I LOVE THIS!

    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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