Re: TBPS and a depressed poster.

sleepingbeauty825 · July 2010

I was lurking on 0-3 the other night and saw this post:

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/39209167.aspx

and then on TBPS there is a secret that reminds me eerily of above post(er).

If it is the same, what can we do? How can we help? How terrible would it be if something happened and she was calling out to us for help?

Melly Mel · July 2010

oh man....I think I know the ps you are talking about. I really don't know if there is anything we can do but maybe reach out to her. What about sending an email to the ps site and seeing if they can track it? That kind of takes away the privacy of tbps though and I don't know if they would do that. This is a tough one

CTri17 · July 2010

goes to look

Lucky Polka Dot · July 2010

her H is a piece of crap. i feel so bad for her. she's the one working yet he makes her sleep in the hallway? what kind of man is that?! she's in my thoughts and prayers. i hope she doesn't do anything crazy, her DD does know her and needs her.

Lucky Polka Dot · July 2010

what's the link to TBPS?

Shortycube · July 2010

Don't they put email responses under the secrets? Post that us on the 3-6 board would love to help an lend some ears, and we sure have a lot of ears!

ZTAsunshine · July 2010

Not sure what we can do. But that situation is very very sad.

Melly Mel · July 2010

futuremrssoto:
what's the link to TBPS?

https://thebumppostsecret.tumblr.com/

gogoamy · July 2010

that post on the bump post secret gave me chills. i don't know what can be done, but i hope she finds help and someone to talk to.

Melly Mel · July 2010

How do you post a response on the post secret???

smittysoup · July 2010

OMG the one from Jul 6th? That is messed up. I hope that she is either not serious, or that she gets help.

pammi2003 · July 2010

I just felt like crying after reading her post. It's so heartbreaking!

I want to help too. But what can we do?

berrysweet · July 2010

I sent her a PM about that very thing. I hope she sees it.

Emailing TBPS is a great idea too.

CheriLooWho · July 2010

I totally feel for her. I think the TBPS email response is a great idea.

americanada · July 2010

oh no, that's awful. has to be the same girl. tb has to be able to do something...there is a suicide threat...maybe someone can call a suicide hotline for advice about an anonymous 'threat'? anyone friends w/her on fb?

Shortycube · July 2010

i'm emailing TBPS

JOHNNIFER · July 2010

I'm a bit slow, but what does TBPS stand for The Bump.....???

fromymom · July 2010

I feel sick to my stomach about this. I hope that someone can reach her some way...

Shortycube · July 2010

i emailed in response to her secret.

"Your daughter DOES know you, and she loves you more then anything in the world. Mother is god in the eyes of a child. She's the only one that knows what your heart sounds like from the inside, trust me, she loves you so much. You need to spend as much time with her as possible - when you have extra time, when you're not working and everything you take that beautiful girl and you spend some quality time with her - if you need to, leave the house with her. I urge you to get as much help as possible, your beautiful little girl depends on it. On behalf of the ladies on the bump, we're here for you."

Shortycube · July 2010

JOHNNIFER:
I'm a bit slow, but what does TBPS stand for The Bump.....???

The Bump Post Secret

lovemymaddy · July 2010

Shortycube:

i emailed in response to her secret.

"Your daughter DOES know you, and she loves you more then anything in the world. Mother is god in the eyes of a child. She's the only one that knows what your heart sounds like from the inside, trust me, she loves you so much. You need to spend as much time with her as possible - when you have extra time, when you're not working and everything you take that beautiful girl and you spend some quality time with her - if you need to, leave the house with her. I urge you to get as much help as possible, your beautiful little girl depends on it. On behalf of the ladies on the bump, we're here for you."

this was well written. thank you for doing that. i hope she sees it...

Shortycube · July 2010

lovemymaddy:
Shortycube:

i emailed in response to her secret.

"Your daughter DOES know you, and she loves you more then anything in the world. Mother is god in the eyes of a child. She's the only one that knows what your heart sounds like from the inside, trust me, she loves you so much. You need to spend as much time with her as possible - when you have extra time, when you're not working and everything you take that beautiful girl and you spend some quality time with her - if you need to, leave the house with her. I urge you to get as much help as possible, your beautiful little girl depends on it. On behalf of the ladies on the bump, we're here for you."

this was well written. thank you for doing that. i hope she sees it...

thanks and it was my pleasure - i just hope she sees it. i would pm it to her but it wont let me pm her. =/

Hot Sauce on a Stick · July 2010

Here, I did this, too

LINK

berrysweet · July 2010

Shortycube:
lovemymaddy:
Shortycube:

i emailed in response to her secret.

"Your daughter DOES know you, and she loves you more then anything in the world. Mother is god in the eyes of a child. She's the only one that knows what your heart sounds like from the inside, trust me, she loves you so much. You need to spend as much time with her as possible - when you have extra time, when you're not working and everything you take that beautiful girl and you spend some quality time with her - if you need to, leave the house with her. I urge you to get as much help as possible, your beautiful little girl depends on it. On behalf of the ladies on the bump, we're here for you."

this was well written. thank you for doing that. i hope she sees it...

thanks and it was my pleasure - i just hope she sees it. i would pm it to her but it wont let me pm her. =/

I had to log in again to PM her since I opened the link in a new tab. Worth a shot maybe...

Shortycube · July 2010

berrysweet:
Shortycube:
lovemymaddy:
Shortycube:

i emailed in response to her secret.

"Your daughter DOES know you, and she loves you more then anything in the world. Mother is god in the eyes of a child. She's the only one that knows what your heart sounds like from the inside, trust me, she loves you so much. You need to spend as much time with her as possible - when you have extra time, when you're not working and everything you take that beautiful girl and you spend some quality time with her - if you need to, leave the house with her. I urge you to get as much help as possible, your beautiful little girl depends on it. On behalf of the ladies on the bump, we're here for you."

this was well written. thank you for doing that. i hope she sees it...

thanks and it was my pleasure - i just hope she sees it. i would pm it to her but it wont let me pm her. =/

I had to log in again to PM her since I opened the link in a new tab. Worth a shot maybe...

pm'd. Smile thanks!

fromymom · July 2010

HotSauceonaStick:

Here, I did this, too

LINK

That is great. I know I was not prepared for PPD, no one ever talked to me about it the way I had it. All people said was "if you ever think you are going to hurt your child" well I never wanted to hurt my child or myself, I just couldn't handle life. I had to be on meds and see a therapist for a bit and then I snapped back. I am not ashamed of it and think that it happens to so many women.

CTri17 · July 2010

wow , maybe we should do a post to her and tell her that everything will be ok

anyone know of a way to get her meds w/o insurance?

StarryNight39 · July 2010

CTri17:
wow , maybe we should do a post to her and tell her that everything will be ok
anyone know of a way to get her meds w/o insurance?

At this point I am ready to share mine with her. I have so much extra zoloft because they keep uping my disengage and starting me on a new bottle.

Hot Sauce on a Stick · July 2010

StarryNight39:
CTri17:

wow , maybe we should do a post to her and tell her that everything will be ok

anyone know of a way to get her meds w/o insurance?

At this point I am ready to share mine with her. I have so much extra zoloft because they keep uping my disengage and starting me on a new bottle.

If she's the only one working, can she qualify for welfare? Or did I miss that in the OP?

StarryNight39 · July 2010

HotSauceonaStick:
StarryNight39:
CTri17:

wow , maybe we should do a post to her and tell her that everything will be ok
anyone know of a way to get her meds w/o insurance?
At this point I am ready to share mine with her. I have so much extra zoloft because they keep uping my disengage and starting me on a new bottle.
If she's the only one working, can she qualify for welfare? Or did I miss that in the OP?

I thought I had read that she tried but did not qualify.

PPD effing sucks. It has completely taken away the last 5 months of my life - I HATE feeling the way I do every.single.day. I keep waiting to wake up and it be gone. To have an unsupportive H on top of that, I don't now what I would do. My heart hurts for this girl.

Hot Sauce on a Stick · July 2010

StarryNight39:
HotSauceonaStick:
StarryNight39:
CTri17:

wow , maybe we should do a post to her and tell her that everything will be ok

anyone know of a way to get her meds w/o insurance?

At this point I am ready to share mine with her. I have so much extra zoloft because they keep uping my disengage and starting me on a new bottle.

If she's the only one working, can she qualify for welfare? Or did I miss that in the OP?

I thought I had read that she tried but did not qualify.

PPD effing sucks. It has completely taken away the last 5 months of my life - I HATE feeling the way I do every.single.day. I keep waiting to wake up and it be gone. To have an unsupportive H on top of that, I don't now what I would do. My heart hurts for this girl.

Mine, too. And she's so young. I doubt that her pool of other mothers to talk to is not very big. Sad

liza0828 · July 2010

Any Georgia bumpies out there? It seems like someone should be able to help her find local resources-- a domestic violence shelter, mental health services? I'm scared for her.

StarryNight39 · July 2010

I PM'd her my email. I hope she finds someone to talk to.

berrysweet · July 2010

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StarryNight39 · July 2010

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Hot Sauce on a Stick · July 2010

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She mentions FB on her Twitter...I'm looking...

starryeyeddreamer · July 2010

So sad. He LO is so cute too!

kls621 · July 2010

This breaks my heart! I hope she will take the invite to post on 3-6. I hope she can find some IRL help too.

Hot Sauce on a Stick · July 2010

I just saw TBPS...my stomach is turning.

I just want to cry and hold her and tell her there are people that care.

kls621 · July 2010

HotSauceonaStick:

I just saw TBPS...my stomach is turning.

I just want to cry and hold her and tell her there are people that care.

This. I wish we could all be in a room together instead of across the country on the internet.

FemmeNat01 · July 2010

Oh wow. That's so terribly sad. Her H is douchebag. Seriously. I feel so sad for her.

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