Babies: 3 - 6 Months

MIL Kissed DS's penis!

What an effing perv. I always knew she was weird and overly sexual. When DS was 3 days old, she insisted on changing his diaper and announced that DS's scrotum looked just like DH's. When she saw the gender u/s pic, she said DS would make some woman very happy some day. Weird and unnerving, yes, But putting your LIPS on my baby's genitals is unacceptable!! DH & BIL have some strange issues when it comes to sexuality and being touched. I'm not so sure she didn't molest her sons. She kept bugging to have DS over to her place. After the attempted oral on my baby, the answer is simple: F--- NO!!!
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Re: MIL Kissed DS's penis!

  • OMG that is horrible!!! YUCK! What did your DH say?
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  • Krisx2Krisx2 member
    Oh. My. Weird. That gave me the shivers.

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  • imagedunvilles:
    OMG that is horrible!!! YUCK! What did your DH say?
    He just said, "Ma! Don't do that!" and she acted like nothing was absolutely sick about it and said, "oh but it's so little and cute!" ... Ummm because he's an infant!
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  • Wow just wow.
  • OMG I would go crazy on her!  Why on earth would she thing that was ok?
  • Wow I think I would have killed her! I definitely wouldn't leave him alone with her
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  • OMG. Indifferent  I'm sorry but this makes my stomach turn.
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  • I'm sorry but that's just beyond creepy.
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  • Wow.  Please stick to your guns on this.  I wouldn't even leave her in a ROOM alone with your son, let alone a house.
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  • Ick! How did you not punch her?
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  • normally I roll my eyes when people on here complain about things thier inlaws do.

     

    Yeah, not at this one. WTF?!?!

  • ew. gross...no alone time with grandma.
  • This made my skin crawl. I second that she shouldn't even be left alone in a room with him!!!
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  • WTF?! Yeah...that would not fly with me. No more time with her naked. Ever.
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  • Holy shiit.

    I would be on the phone with the cops  so fast, the fvcking pervert wouldn't even have time to blink. That's molestation, plain and simple.

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  • imageusornothing:
    I'm sorry but that's just beyond creepy.

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  • wtf?  i'm so sorry! that woman has serious issues.  i remember when you said she said that about the u/s.
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  • OMFG! That is so wrong in so many ways!
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  • imageParadisePrincess:
    Ick! How did you not punch her?
    My hands were shaking too badly to get a good swing! But seriously, I was stunned and in shock. I grabbed DS from her and finished diapering him. DH and I talked about it after she left and he backs me 110% on no more diaper changes and MIL never babysits alone. We both trust FIL but I told him he has to sit down and talk to FIL today. He needs to know. He must have already called because I got a text from MIL a few minutes ago. She didn't apologize per se but she said, "I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable when I show my boys affection. You know that I don't mean anything by it." Do I now? That's exactly what I'm suspecting, sicko, that you DO mean something by it. I'm still formulating in my head how to respond. Would "curl up and die you perverted old bag. You'd better pray the cops get to you first if you ever touch anything above DS's baby toe ever again!!" be too much?!?!
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  • imagesoko987:

    Holy shiit.

    I would be on the phone with the cops  so fast, the fvcking pervert wouldn't even have time to blink. That's molestation, plain and simple.

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  • Um WHAAAAAAT?!?! I would have seriously freaked out on her.
  • I just threw up a little. I would never leave her alone with him, even if I had to go the bathroom. She has issues, big ones.
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  • Okay, her "apology" was a complete non-apology. She molested your son. It sounds like she molested her sons. I think her text does not warrant a response at all.

    Is she around other children at all? If she is, I would STRONGLY urge you to contact the police.

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  • I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 

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    imageParadisePrincess:
    Ick! How did you not punch her?
    My hands were shaking too badly to get a good swing! But seriously, I was stunned and in shock. I grabbed DS from her and finished diapering him. DH and I talked about it after she left and he backs me 110% on no more diaper changes and MIL never babysits alone. We both trust FIL but I told him he has to sit down and talk to FIL today. He needs to know. He must have already called because I got a text from MIL a few minutes ago. She didn't apologize per se but she said, "I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable when I show my boys affection. You know that I don't mean anything by it." Do I now? That's exactly what I'm suspecting, sicko, that you DO mean something by it. I'm still formulating in my head how to respond. Would "curl up and die you perverted old bag. You'd better pray the cops get to you first if you ever touch anything above DS's baby toe ever again!!" be too much?!?!


    Not only is that a passive-aggressive non-apology, but it's obvious that she sees nothing wrong with what she's doing.  Keep her far, far away.
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  • OMG!  Your FIL better understand that MIL can never be alone with DS, ever.  That is beyond sick.
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  • her text makes it worse. Its not an apology at all. Its passive aggressive and its VERY disturbing that kissing a baby's penis = showing affection in her mind.
  • imagemrsh0606:

    I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 



    That does not indicate whether or not a person was molested.  Often it is buried deep in their memories, and all you see of it are things that the OP mentioned - sexual issues, etc.  I'm not saying she should approach her MIL about it, but keeping that in mind, do not allow her ANY unsupervised time with her son at all, ever.  I don't care if he was a teenager.
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  • As a cops wife I would strongly urge you to at least file a report on this with your local police department. That way if it ever comes up down the road they will be able to prosecute her, because you would have that report from basically day one. Please at least do this.

    Now what I would have done was drop kicked that b*tch and told her if she ever touched my son again I would bash her head into the wall. Oh and her apology, not one at all. Text her back and tell her to contact you when she has a real apology, because from now on she's not allowed to even look at your child let alone babysit ever.

    This just makes me sick.

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  • imagemrsh0606:

    I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 

    If the police got involved, she could easily be arrested on molestation charges. My husband is a police officer, and he agrees.

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  • My MIL would never be allowed near my kids after that.  That's scary.  Grandma or not, you pull that, you lose all privileges and don't get to be around kids.
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  • imageJamieS2006:
    imagemrsh0606:

    I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 



    That does not indicate whether or not a person was molested.  Often it is buried deep in their memories, and all you see of it are things that the OP mentioned - sexual issues, etc.  I'm not saying she should approach her MIL about it, but keeping that in mind, do not allow her ANY unsupervised time with her son at all, ever.  I don't care if he was a teenager.

    If her H says that he was molsted, that would indicate that he was.  I know people don't always remember.  I'm just saying I wouldn't go around accusing someone of something withoput proof. 

    Soko - I have no doubt that some cops would agree. 

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  • imageStrawberryAlarmClock:
    imageParadisePrincess:
    Ick! How did you not punch her?
    My hands were shaking too badly to get a good swing! But seriously, I was stunned and in shock. I grabbed DS from her and finished diapering him. DH and I talked about it after she left and he backs me 110% on no more diaper changes and MIL never babysits alone. We both trust FIL but I told him he has to sit down and talk to FIL today. He needs to know. He must have already called because I got a text from MIL a few minutes ago. She didn't apologize per se but she said, "I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable when I show my boys affection. You know that I don't mean anything by it." Do I now? That's exactly what I'm suspecting, sicko, that you DO mean something by it. I'm still formulating in my head how to respond. Would "curl up and die you perverted old bag. You'd better pray the cops get to you first if you ever touch anything above DS's baby toe ever again!!" be too much?!?!

    I would seriously text her backl and say "That's not affection. It's molestation." and leave it at that.

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  • imagemrsh0606:

    I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 

    Not in so many words, no. He did say once that he thinks he was abused and when he gets drunk he says all sorts of wild stuff like "you should be able to trust your mom" and "what do penises have to do with Christmas. There should be no penises at Christmas" WTF?!? But, when I press for more info he clams up. Yeah the more I ruminate on this the madder I get. The shock is wearing off and the Mama Bear in me is coming out. F family harmony, this is my baby. I just still trying to figure out what my move should be (other than, obviously, no gramma time!)
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  • imagemrsh0606:

    I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko.  Not in this instance though.  That is not molestation. 

    OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them?  If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her. 

    Keep her away from your kid. 

    Im curious as to how you figure that a GROWN A$$ WOMAN putting her lips on a baby's PRIVATES and not thinking anything of it is NOT molestation? What planet are you from? Here on earth,in America, thats wrong,molsetation, and fricking perverted. Also, speakng as a victim of sexual abuse, just because it happened doesnt mean you go and tell everyone you know. . . . . . quite the opposite. . . .

  • imageIrishBrideND:
    her text makes it worse. Its not an apology at all. Its passive aggressive and its VERY disturbing that kissing a baby's penis = showing affection in her mind.
    That's exactly what got my attention. Not only does she think it's OK, she thinks it's RIGHT.
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