TTC After a Loss

I am also getting to be very judgemental

I was out tonight watching DH playing ball. The whole time his team was waiting to play (as the other teams finished their game), I was watching two young kids running around and throwing rocks at each other (approx. 4-5 years old). The mother said nothing.

THEN, as the men go on with their ball game, the little girl ran out onto the field!! Super Angry The mother hadn't even noticed.

THEN (again), once the game was over, the mother got up and saw that her son had crawled up and was sitting at the top of a fence, not knowing how to get down. Not a regular 8' fence... it was about 20' high.

I told the girls I was standing with that the lady should get the mother of the year award.

Lilypie First Birthday tickers

Lilypie Third Birthday tickers

Re: I am also getting to be very judgemental

  • Ugh, poor kids, I hope they don't get hurt because their mom is an idiot.

    Does the teacher in you totally want to correct them?  I always find myself biting my tongue, I'm so used to correcting my students.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Loading the player...
  • imagebbhalphen:

    Ugh, poor kids, I hope they don't get hurt because their mom is an idiot.

    Does the teacher in you totally want to correct them?  I always find myself biting my tongue, I'm so used to correcting my students.

     The ball field has to be the worst for parental suckage.  Moms bringing TINY babies out in heat advisories.  Kids running all over without looking for traffic.  People smoking and holding their babies/kids.  Its just pathetic.  

    I'm horrible and DO correct kids doing dangerous things.  I've never been a teacher, but I have what I call my teacher voice.  I feel zero shame in telling kids to knock it off or get out of the road or quit throwing rocks.  If the parents don't like it they can bite me.  

    Gena dx PCOS 1997 BFP 2/12/10, mmc discovered at 10w6d/d&c 11w3d
    imageImage and video hosting by TinyPicimage
    My Never Updated Chart
    Bonus buddies with Cashewsmommy!
    Join Swagbucks! Earn free Amazon cards!
  • I work in a portrait studio in a super store, and parents let there kids run rampant. I have to ask them not to let their kids touch my equipment. It seriously bothers me.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Moi aussi!  :-) I'm always getting annoyed, bitter and jealous when either A) I see a pregnant women who is super young or doing something really fing stupid ie: SMOKING!  B) Hear kids at my school who already have the crappiest home life and douchebag parents tell me, "my mommy is going to have a baby!" C) See families with more than two kids (especially when they have no control over them or the kids all look like they haven't bathed in 10 days!) D) A new baby E) I'll admit it- ANYONE who is pregnant and smiling.

     Is it horrible? Yes!  Should I always feel this way? No! However, as you all know after experiencing multiple losses and trying for YEARS to be blessed with a sweet baby, it starts turning you a little grumpy towards others who are so blessed! (No worries, I'm totally amazing at faking like I'm not bitter and grouchy! :-) )

    PhotobucketPhotobucket Baby Names - BabyNamey.com Name Badge Ticker
  • Oh man! I would have screamed at her.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • I always have to hold my teacher side in... although sometimes it is definitely stronger than me!
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers

  • My DH has a look he gives me when he knows the teacher side is coming out! I can't stand going to stores and seeing my students behaving rotten when they would never do that in the classroom!
  • I cannot take when people can't handle thier children.  I def correct their behavior.
    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"