2u2 or 2=2 or 2+2 or, oh boy......!

jeffrae · June 2010

Just starting the "when do we start trying again" conversation with DH now that AF has arrived again (#3). I am on 45ish day cycles - so that means we have a chance about every other month. It seems way too soon still!!!

But I want Addy to have a playmate and friend, not a brother/sister she will babysit. Plus, I don't want to wait too long in case we experience another m/c. I will be 33 turning 34 - so getting up there in the medical years anyways. I don't want to wait that long anyways - if we have another girl - we may try one more time for a boy. That being said, I love just having Addy. It is fun just focusing on her and I am scared of losing that.

Now we are trying to decide if next month is right for an April baby, or wait for a June baby, or for an August baby....etc. This family planning is hard!

I think I will be drinking the PAL water soon......ready or not. :-)

mh2t · June 2010

You totally faked me out - I thought this was a BFP post!

::bottles some PAL water and hands to jeffrae::

mikkimikey · June 2010

I know what you mean about not wanting to take time or attention away from your LO. It's actually not that much harder going from one to two, luckily!! I might have had it easier because Ri was 3 when we had Logan, but she was SO excited, and not jealous at all like I thought she might be.

It's all about finding a good balance between the two