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BFN BFN BFN BFN BFN BFN

joy143dhjoy143dh
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Hating my insides right now.  I guess during the 2 years that it took to make a decision, my overies decided to take a permanent vacation.  And now I get the monthly reminder that I eff'ed up.  I love my little boy and I adore my husband.  My family is a blessing.   I just fear that I will always regret not giving DS a sibling.   And, yes, I realize my genes are not that special and that I could adopt, but I don't think I could emotionally handle the process.  OK, I feel better that I vented.  Well, not really, but I have noone else to tell this too.   Perhaps I'll feel better after this bottle of wine.

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David "BD" 2/8/07 Spencer 9/12/11
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Re: BFN BFN BFN BFN BFN BFN

  • Jamaica_BrideJamaica_Bride

    Slamming on the breaks...

    I am SO outtah the loop here.

     

    What's going on? Fill me in!


    ~Lisa
    Mum to Owen and Lucas Daisypath Wedding tickers>
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  • summerbrideDCsummerbrideDC
    (((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))) been there, felt that (still do).  We waited 1.5 years to start TTC after E was born & spent 2.5 years TTC, to no avail. It sucks.  I'm sorry.  
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  • joy143dhjoy143dh

    Jamaica, we secretly decided to TTC in January while at Disney.  Shhhh... I don't want anyone IRL to know.   We stupidly thought that it would be as easy as the first time. 

    SBDC, I'm sorry to hear you've been at it so long.  I really don't think I can do 2 more years of this.   (((hugs))) back at'cha.

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    David "BD" 2/8/07 Spencer 9/12/11
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  • jettagurljettagurl member

    Hugs.  I'm glad you got a laugh out of my post below.  I can't imagine the pain.Adoption was always on our radar, but, like you said, that's a major emotional journey as well.  My cousin has adopted 3 children, but it was never the one they were 'supposed' to get - always the 'backup.'  So due dates came & went and something happened....they they were just on hold til another baby was available. T&P for you....hopefully you get some good news soon. 

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  • Mrs.TonyMrs.Tony

    I'm sorry J. TTC sucks!!! 

    Would you guys ever consider contacting a specialist?

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  • femmegemfemmegem member
    (((hugs))) I'm so sorry. That freaking sucks.
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    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
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  • YodajoYodajo member

    I'm sorry!  I hope it happens soon for you!

    ((hugs))

    DS1 10-06 and DS2 9-08 and baby #3 EDD 9-05-12
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  • firefightersgalfirefightersgal member
    ((hugs)).  It's super tough.  We've been TTC since December 2008.  We were only half-successful almost a year ago when we got pregnant, but then lost the baby.  

    I was really nervous about having kids 'too close' in age.  We waited until my DD was a little over 2 years old to start TTC again.  Now, I wish we wouldn't have waited so long.
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  • peekaboo716peekaboo716 member
    (((hugs))) I know how hard it is.
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