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We are officially done.  Brian's surgery is tomorrow and that puts us out for many months before we can try again.  I am going to accept that we are not meant to have a family.  It is time to move on in life and start something new to look forward to.  I guess I can start planning my 40th birthday Europe trip.

I wish each and everyone one of you the best.  I hope all of your dreams come true.  I love you lades and thank you for every thing you have done for me.  I cherish the friendships that I have found, you each have a very special place in my heart.

Peace and happiness ~ Jenn 

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  • jen629jen629 member
    oh no Jen I am so sorry:( I am here if you need me
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  • pepomntpatpepomntpat member
    {{hugs}}  I am so sorry.
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  • gwennythepoohgwennythepooh member
    Oh sweetie, I can't even begin to tell you how sorry I am.
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  • ColindaPColindaP member
    I'm so sorry hon. I love you Jenn, and you know where to find me. You and your husband will be in my thoughts.
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  • jay-teajay-tea
    I am so sorry.
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  • suntotosuntoto member

    Crying

    I am crying for you.  I am so, very sorry, hon!

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • jdeats71jdeats71

    Oh Jenn - I am so sorry.  I wish you all the best for you and Brian's future.  Good luck with his surgery tomorrow.  I hope you have peace and happiness and enjoy everything ahead of you.  And I think planning a 40th birthday European trip is a brilliant idea!

    PM me if you need anything...........

    We love you so hopefully you will stop by every now and then to check in.

    Lots of love~

    Jen

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  • momagain2009momagain2009 member
    I'm so sorry.  {{{hugs}}}
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  • triple_sevenstriple_sevens member

    Jenn, we love you. I wish this wasn't the end for you--I have hope that it doesn't have to be. But I also understand that you have your limits and you need to honor them.

    I'm here for you--we're all here for you--whenever you need us.

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • AppleRidgeAppleRidge member
    This absolutely breaks my heart.  I'm so sorry, love.
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  • babes12babes12 member
    kona - i'm so sorry.  i wish the best for you in your life adventures.  and i think planning a 40th bday party is a great idea!  i honestly hope that one day you'll pop back on here and say you got your BFP!  i will keep you in my T&P's. 
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  • KiKiMeKiKiMe member

    Jenn-

    I am so, so, so sorry about your BFN and that you are "officially done." It really breaks my heart that you have worked so hard for this. We will miss your sweetness around here.

    Take care of you - and Brian.

    I'll be thinking of you two...

    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
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  • cintimcintim
    I'm so sorry.
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  • celestej619celestej619
    (((hugs))) I am so sorry.
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  • dondraandluisdondraandluis member
    I'm so sorry Jenn (((HUGS)))
    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • mdm2137mdm2137
    I am so, so sorry. ((big hugs))

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    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
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  • KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
    I'm so very sorry.  I hope the surgery goes well and that you have a wonderful birthday trip.
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  • rjl07rjl07
    I'm so sorry Jenn.  I hope the surgery goes well tomorrow.  I'm thinking of you and DH.  Please let us know if you need anything.  ((lots of hugs))
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  • grr_aarghgrr_aargh member
    That blows.  I'm sorry, I'm so so sorry.  There's nothing I can say that doesn't come off sounding trite, so I'll just send you hugs.  :(
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  • Amanda78Amanda78 member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • KelinandKevinKelinandKevin member

    Oh Jenn, I am so sorry.  My heart is breaking for you!  If there is anything you ever need please let me know.

    ((((((Hugs))))))

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  • johannaknipjohannaknip
    Oh Jenn, I'm so, so sorry. (((hugs)))
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  • mgh2008mgh2008 member
    I am so so sorry:(  Thinking of you.
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  • redstars93redstars93 member
    I am so so sorry :(
    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
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  • writergirl5786writergirl5786 member
    oh Jenn, i am so very sorry. i am sending you ((HUGE HUGS)) love you!
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  • JuJuBe3JuJuBe3
    I'm so very sorry.  We're here if you need us.  I hope Brian's surgery goes well and you two can enjoy some time together.  Big hugs!
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  • ERICA21779ERICA21779
    i am so very sorry, I was really rooting for you!   I wish you the best in whatever you end up doing.  
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  • mkoelkermkoelker member
    Im so so so sorry, Jenn.  Big Hugs
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  • SweetieD21SweetieD21 member
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry.  I don't know what else to say, but just to send you tons of big hugs!
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  • michroccmichrocc member

    Kona, I'm so so so very sorry.  You are such a wonderful person and you deserve every happiness.  EVERY HAPPINESS. 

    We are here for you.  Huge, huge hugs. 

     

    BFP#1 10/19/09, m/c 12/5/09, BFP#2 2/03/12, m/c 2/12/12, BFP#3 3/18/13, LO born 11/22/13

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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    Jenn, I'm so very sorry.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • PeetiePiePeetiePie

    Sad

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  • OCIrishBruinOCIrishBruin

    Oh Jenn, I am so, so sorry honey.  This truly breaks my heart.  I was so hopeful that you would finally get some good news today. 

    I will keep you and Brian in my thoughts as you move forward and as Brian has his surgery tomorrow.  I know this is a difficult time. 

    As you know, I am always always always here for you.  I understand why you are done trying - I really do.  I hope you get a wonderful surprise soon though. 

    Text or call anytime, love.  We seriously need to get lunch soon too - just let me know when.

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  • Olive44Olive44 member
    I am so very sorry.  (((big hugs)))
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  • ShemicoShemico member
    I'm sorry hun.
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  • EntropicEponaEntropicEpona member
    Peace and happiness to you, too, Jenn. I hope you can pick up the pieces and find yourself some solace.

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


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  • hking76hking76 member
    I am so so sorry, Jenn.  Sending you all my love, hugs, and anything else you need.  You have a special place in my heart, and I am always on email if you ever want to chat.  Please stay in touch.  [[hugs]]
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  • kew243kew243 member
    I am so sorry.  I wish you peace and happiness too.
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  • Court1Court1
    No, no, no!  This is so not fair.  I'm crying for you. 
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  • kndeckarkndeckar member

    Oh Kona, I am soooo sorry. I was so rooting for you.

    Big (((hugs)))

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