TTC After a Loss

In it for the long haul...

Well, I had an u/s and b/w this morning.  Everything still looks fine on the u/s, heart rate is 105.  My hcg 2142, it was 1100 something last week, and my hcg has only dropped to 13 from 14 last week.  WTF is going on???  I'm ready to move on to a healthy pregnancy, but this little bean just wants to keep hanging out in my ute...  I go back in two weeks, if I haven't started to m/c by then.

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  • ((HUGS))  I'm sorry you're going through the roller coaster :(
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  • I'm sorry hon, that's so sad. I hope it ends soon for you. ((hugs))


    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • I just don't understand these things.  I'm sorry this process is dragging out any longer than necessary.  Sad
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  • (((HUGS)))

    TTC Since Oct 08 BFP #1- 1/23/09, missed m/c 2/26/09 BFP #2- 9/8/09, natural m/c 9/16/09 BFP #3- 4/13/10, missed m/c 5/26/10 BFP #4- 4/6/11 beta#1 at 12dpo-133 prog-55.7, beta#2 at 16dpo- 861 DD born 12/8/2011 BFP#5- 11/23/12 EDD 7/25/13 Dx- Uterine septum (removed Aug 2010), endo, MTHFR C677t hetero, Factor II hetero, Low Protein S Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm sorry, sweetie.  ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry.
  • Oh hun.  I'd say to hope for a miracle, but a HR that close to 100 is probably not great.  I'm so sorry this is dragging on for you.
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  • I'm so sorry hun. (((hugs)))


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • I am so sorry ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry to hear you are still going through this.
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    I'm so very sorry that you are in this limbo mess. :::hugs:::
    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
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    Is there ANY chance of a good outcome? Can you get on progesterone to help? (I assume you meant the progesterone dropped from 14 to 13?)

    Man, just having to ride this line of not knowing...it sucks.  My fingers are crossed SO HARD for you!

    I don't think so, because my hcg isn't doubling, and my progesterone has dropped so much (it was 30 when I first got my BFP).  Some drs don't like to prescribe progesterone when a pregnancy is leaning towards ending in miscarriage, because it can just prolong it. 

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  • I am so, so sorry Sweetie.
  • I am so sorry that you have to go through this.  I also wonder if they've given you any hope for a good outcome??  I pray that there may be a chance...and if not, I pray that this is all over for you soon.  ((hugs))
    DS1 born 3/30/09
    natural mc @ 10w4d 3/7/10
    DS2 born 9/13/12

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    Oh hun.  I'd say to hope for a miracle, but a HR that close to 100 is probably not great.  I'm so sorry this is dragging on for you.

    Actually, at 7 weeks, a normal heartrate is 90-110, so mine is totally fine, which makes it even more frustrating. 

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  • I'm sorry.  I am sure your head and your heart are pulling you in two different directions.  I hope you get answers soon so you can move on.
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  • I am so sorry. I am still hoping for a miracle. Big huge hugs to you.
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    DS #1: 2/7/11
    Ectopic 2/2012
    BFP: 12/24/2013
  • oh sweetie - big hugs to you.  I'm so sorry.....
  • I'm so sorry you are in limbo, I know how frustrating that is.
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  • So sorry you are going though this!
  • omgosh that's got to be so hard hun, I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry!  That is so sad.  I'm thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers!
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this Sweetie.  I hope you get some answers soon.  ((hugs))
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  • The waiting is so awful. I'm so very sorry. Sad

    12 long, hard years of TTC-
    Miscarriages, losses, lots of treatments & drugs & IVF


    Natural BFP (WTF?!) - 06/04/11 ~ lots of complication and drama, but sweet baby Adele born 02/07/12!

    BFP #million -another girl for us! EDD - 05-08-15 (but will come early)

  • I'm so sorry you're having to continue to wait.  Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry Sweetie!
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  • sending you lots of hugs and love!
  • I am so sorry you are going through this.  I'm still praying for a miracle for you.
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  • I'm so sorry this is dragging along, I can't even imagine how heartbreaking this is. ((Huge Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. (((hugs)))
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  • I'm sorry for this roller coaster you are on, I'll be thinking about you!
  • I am so sorry. I had to wait two long days after my first appointment to get my definite answer. I can't imagine having to wait two weeks in limbo.
    Married 9/19/09
    BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
    BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
    BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
    BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
    Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
    BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
  • I am so sorry hunny {{hugs}} thoughts and prayers for you
    BFP 11/09...M/C 1/27/10...TTCAL 3/2010...IUI #1 9/2010 = BFN IUI #2 10/29/2010 = TWINS! EDD 7/25/2010 C-SECTION 7/7/11 at 37.5wks due to severe pre-eclampsia. Liliana born 6lb7oz and Anthony born 5lb4oz Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • i'm so sorry your going thru this.  i wish the docs had more info to give you as to what is going on.  ((HUGS))
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  • ((hugs)) so sorry

    Jenn

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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • god hun, i am so sorry. this must be incredibly rough for you. i'm thinking of and praying for you. *hugs*
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