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Still pissed, but feeling a little better

Soon_2B_MrsMSoon_2B_MrsM
in 3rd Trimester

Hi ladies...I did not have a good night sleep last night...I kept thinking about my husband sleeping with that woman. He keeps saying how selfish he was and how he is so dumb, and how he is so sorry. He says he loves me and LO so much, and he wants to earn back my trust. 

I asked him, "how come you did not love me enough to not go and do what you did?" He answered me "I stopped in the middle of it, and told her I could not do it..." I said how do I know that is what happened?, You should not have been there in the first place" He said "she was shocked and pissed but I felt like crap, and I kept seeing you in my head....I only want you"

SMH, why did this have to happen to us? 

 

Btw my car broke down yesterday....while my husband was driving back to work from lunch ...thank God I had the better car yesterday! 

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Re: Still pissed, but feeling a little better

  • mrsmiller080407mrsmiller080407
    I am so sorry you are going through this.  I really hope you two are in counseling.  If you aren't, I would suggest getting there now.  Getting some professional help for your relationship before your LO gets here is going to be essential.
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  • Soon_2B_MrsMSoon_2B_MrsM
    We start counseling Saturday
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  • mrsmiller080407mrsmiller080407

    imageSoon_2B_MrsM:
    We start counseling Saturday

    Great!  I really admire your strength, especially for dealing with this while pg.  Your LO is lucky to have you as a mom. 

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  • Soon_2B_MrsMSoon_2B_MrsM
    Thank you so much, I guess everything happens for a reason, to different people....
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  • kayteatrudeaukayteatrudeau

    Oh my, don't beat yourself up. There is nothing you could have done to change the scenario. Seriously. It was between him and this woman.

    Honestly, I'm really happy he's talking but hearing what you just posted would have made me even more upset. Yeesh...sending you lots of love from North Dakota!

    Don't let him play you with his words of appology! It's all too familiar to me from a situation that happened in my past and I feel scared for you. Like, really scared. You sound very trusting and loving to me and I just hope he's really being genuine and won't let it happen again.

     

     

     

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