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i really hate people sometimes

Between the lady that was parked next to me yesterday that couldn't wait 30 seconds for me to put the baby in the car before she pushed past me to get in her car to the person that cut in front of me in target. Oh, and it really goes for the people (2of them) that asked me when I'm due. I was buying a father's day card (baby was in the stroller ) and the other was out to lunch today.wanted to throat punch them both! Like I'm not already dealing with enough of my own issues about my body and how I look right now. I need to not go out in public for awhile, I might hurt someone at this point.
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  • P.s. Thanks for letting me vent! 1 month pp and the hormones are raging!
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  • Aw I'm sorry!  Sometimes people just don't get it!  Hugs to you!
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    Sorry!

    The next time some douchetard asks when you're due, I would point at crash and say "he's a month old. That would be a neat trick, wouldn't it?"


    and don't beat yourself up over your weight. You grew a person and 4 weeks ago you gave birth. Now is the time to rest, pamper, and revel in the miracle it performed.

    hugs!

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  • I've come to accept that some people are just selfish morons.  Once you accept that, then you can just shake your head in pity at them when they pull that crap.  I'm sorry you ran into so many of them in a short period of time :(  

    I do understand that painful adjustment of the "new" body after having a baby.  It takes some getting used to seeing the mama body in the mirror rather than the pre-pg body.  Do be gentle with yourself - you grew a new life!! 

  • So sorry, big hugs!! Kudos to you for being out and about at four weeks!!! I don't remember going to target that soon, so I'm proud of you. And shame on those stupid people. they should only have eyes for your darling LO. 
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  • Hugs!  I still get the "when are you due" comments every now and then (and my youngest will be 2 next month!). People suck.  It's been a few months since someone asked me, but my canned response is, "Oh, I'm not pregnant - just fat."  Hopefully, it makes them feel bad.  When will people learn to never ask that?!
  • Thanks ladies! Nice to know there are others who understand. Its definitely not easy and SO isn't helping much by being a typical guy and telling me I look OK, but if I'm not happy with how I look, I know how to fix it (diet and working our) oh how I wish it were that simple and quick. But having a c-section is putting my exercise on hold for the most part. Oh well at least I'm only 7lbs away from my pre-pregnancy weight which I am proud of!
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