Okay, my drama before I leave...~ Hereisyour*truth~

r9stedt · June 2010

Alright, HIYT, I am moderately curious as to who you are. You first smash me stating that I am "bordering on pleasant", after calling me a raging "B".

Then you go on to state that we are 'friends'.

Just curious as to why you are 'friends' with me, if this is how you feel about me. I would think that, as a 'friend', you would just call me on my raging "B"ness under your own screen name that I am 'friends' with. For the most part, if I am friends with a person, I value their opinion and would probably take a step back to look at my actions.

My other thought on us being 'friends' is that if you were truly one of the nesties that I am close with/friends with, you would realize the plethora of wrong in my marriage (therefore not proclaiming that isn't a surprise even my exH couldn't stand me). You might probably even realize all the nonsense that is going on now with my exH because I keep 99% of it off the nest.

In conclusion, why not just tell me who you are? Or tell me your concerns under your real name? I can respect someone being straight forward to me. But you, my friend, are not being straight forward. You feel the need to hide behind an AE.

And for those of you who want to see the posts I am talking about:

2nd post--

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/37673864.aspx

1st post--

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/36538630.aspx

Yodajo · June 2010

I think you are giving this person way too much thought. I can understand being curious because the person claimed you are friends, but I think that was said just to get at you.

I can also understand that this person has hit a sensitive topic with you and that is why it is bothering you so, but you know who YOU are and what the truth is, so just focus on that. Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them know you're bothered.