To avoid trying to explain all that is going on with my family right now, the short version of the story is my husband is NG, he extended his contract last year to go on a deployment due to lack of good paying work here in Michigan. Then he finally got hired into a job in April, which requires us to move out of state. He is out of state training for this job until the fall. His unit did the paperwork for him to be inactive so he wouldn't have to drill during this time, and told him that he would not have to go on the deployment, just finish out the contract extension.
I just checked his e-mail (he knows I do this, he doesn't care) and the readiness NCO sent him an e-mail ELEVEN DAYS AGO saying that he was going to be called back by the commander from inactive status to go on the deployment. He still hasn't even mentioned this to me. And, essentially this means we will be apart for over a year and a half. Begin nervous breakdown.... now.