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Send good vibes tomorrow...

DH had his heart surgery @ 8am tomorrow morning. I'm trying hard to hold it together.  I am not sure when I will be able to update- I might stay the night with him if need be.  I don't want him to wak up in the middle of the night and be scared if he is still out of it from the meds. 

I just need this to be past us- all I need to hear from the surgeon in "it all went great- he is in recovery" and  I will feel whole again.  

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    ::hugs:: Thoughts and prayers to you and H!
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    You and DH are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.  I hope you have family waiting with you at the hospital so you aren't alone.  Big hugs.
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    My thoughts and prayers are with you both. *big hugs*
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    Good luck honey!! tons of good vibes. Do you have a buddy? If you need someone to text, I'm here for you, just lemme know and i'll give you my cell. Just in case you need someone to "talk" to during this time. 

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    ((((((( BIG HUGS)))))))

    You & your H will be (and have been ) in my T&Ps. I can understand not being able to move forward until you get this surgery behind you, it must be hard to think of anything but that. Do you have anyone to be there with you?
    What time is surgery? do they have an estimate on how long it will take?
    I hope that he is recovering nicely by tomorrow evening & you can get some rest knowing that you have this past you.  
    sending much love & positive thoughts your way 

     
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    Big hugs to you and your DH.  You'll both be in my thoughts tomorrow.
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    Good luck honey!! tons of good vibes. Do you have a buddy? If you need someone to text, I'm here for you, just lemme know and i'll give you my cell. Just in case you need someone to "talk" to during this time. 

    Thanks so much Shell..I really appreciate it.  My mom and BFF  will be with me- so I am super grateful for that.  If I need you- I will let you know.  Thanks again- it means a lot. 

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    ((((((( BIG HUGS)))))))

    You & your H will be (and have been ) in my T&Ps. I can understand not being able to move forward until you get this surgery behind you, it must be hard to think of anything but that. Do you have anyone to be there with you?
    What time is surgery? do they have an estimate on how long it will take?
    I hope that he is recovering nicely by tomorrow evening & you can get some rest knowing that you have this past you.  
    sending much love & positive thoughts your way 

     

    We have to be there 5:30 am!  His surgery is scheduled for 8am.  I'm actually really glad it's first thing- who wants to wait all day?  The wait this weekend has been hard enough on us.  

    The actual surgery is anywhere from 1 1/2-3 hrs- so the whole process pre and post can probably run anywhere from 3-6 hours.  His surgeon was optimistic though with it being on the lesser side time wise.  My mom and BFF will be with me, which is a good support and his brother will probable be there too at some point.  

    Thanks so much for your good thoughts...I really appreciate it.  

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    Good luck honey!! tons of good vibes. Do you have a buddy? If you need someone to text, I'm here for you, just lemme know and i'll give you my cell. Just in case you need someone to "talk" to during this time. 

    Thanks so much Shell..I really appreciate it.  My mom and BFF  will be with me- so I am super grateful for that.  If I need you- I will let you know.  Thanks again- it means a lot. 

    I'm so glad you'll have people there for you!!!! I'm sure everything will go just fine. I'll keep you all in my thoughts. <3 

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    You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers ::hugs::
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    i am praying for you and your husband. huge huge hugs to you.
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    I will be thinking of all of you and sending thoughts for a great outcome.
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    Lots of T&Ps coming your way. I hope everything goes well tomorrow and we will be thinking of you both!
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    Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry that you are going through this right now.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and I'll send tons of good vibes your way.  (((HUGS)))
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    Praying for a wonderfully uneventful day of surgery and recovery.  (((HUGS))) 
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    I'm praying for a speedy and successful surgery for your H today!  Prayers are with you, too, as you help him through this.  Rest, drink your fluids and hugs to you!
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    Many thoughts and prayers to you and your DH!

    ((HUGS)) 

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    I'm praying that everything goes smoothly today and your DH is just recovering before you know it!

    (((hugs)))

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    sending your hubs lots of good vibes.
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