I posted this this morning...thoughts???
HUGZ FOR DAVEZ
Has anyone posted about doing something to show Davez some love and support? She's always been quick to show her love for others and get us all involved...I think she could really use a little bit of that right about now. If someone's already working on something I'll jump on that band wagon, but if not, I can either head it up or work with someone. Even if we do some sort of video- maybe with pictures or encouraging words or love?? I can work on it this weekend and have it done early next week. OR something totally different....
thoughts??
Re: RP for the night time gals: Doing something for Davez
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07
3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07
3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP
I love the idea, but I'm not sure about doing wings or something like that. Inspiring words (funny phrases, stuff like that) would probably be good, I'm just not sure she would want to be reminded of her losses themselves, but I could be very wrong here.
Nicole-thank you for thinking of this, it's very nice of you!!!
That's kinda what I was thinking...inspiring words, funny phrases, good thoughts, etc. is what I was thinking...
even if we all write something on paper and take pictures of it. We could set it to music and have it be a slide show. If anyone wants to do this that would be awesome. If no one wants to, I certainly can do it, but I'd just be importing it into iPhoto- I'm so not tech savvy! It would still come out nice I'm sure. I also know some girls thought of a gift (Babbs and others). Maybe we could do some sort of virtual gift and also a tangible gift.
Maybe a video with funny pics of our DCs with a funny quote. I'm thinking something light hearted/funny. I suck at thinking but I'll give it a try:)
Thanks for starting this!
I like that!!!
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07
3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP
Ela pretty much hit the nail on the head - this sounds great!
i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart) Our first love and loss 7/2/07
3 cycles clomid TI = BFNs
3 cycles clomid Ovidrel IUI = BFNs
6/27/08 Surprise BFP = chemical pg
IVF#1 July 08 BFP @7dp3dt
TTC #3 since February 2010
FET Sept. and Oct. 2010=BFN's
IVF#2 June 2011=BFP
I'm in
not sure this is do-able but it would be funny to get our dc's giving us "the best of davez" we could go through some old posts and get some good quotes from her. I can't do the putting together but I could do some quote searching if you like the idea.
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I'm in for sure.
I hope this is okay to ask...but is she 110% positive it is over? She was just really vague in her post so I have been holding out a little hope. Anyone know for sure?
I'll so the slide show. I owe Tracie one! she did one for me when my grandmother died. I would be happy to do it, if someone hasnt already offered.
I posted some ideas in the original thread... I will get them and copy and paste to this thread
this is my 2 posts from this morning:
on the slideshow idea, why not literally hugs for davez?
pictures of our little ones giving her a virtual hug? pictures of us hugging our little ones with a phrase, a word, a thought?
or we can all send a joke, a funny comic, or a joke written out and sent in jpeg format? Or she wanted us to do something nice for someone, maybe same thing, share a good thing to do, or something... ala hearts for dylan!
I am gonna be honest. I dont have the money for anything extra... but I want her to know we care, so if everyone is going to want to get something for her, I will gladly collect submissions from those of who are broke and can't really afford much else! I can always offer my time!Skoorb- I think Phillysue mentioned that she'd be up for doing the slideshow. Maybe you want to page her?
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I think Davez is the kind of person that would rather have something funny...or hot barbacks...or do something with some of her phrases? I dunno. I just think she would rather have something she could laugh at than be sentimental about. KWIM?
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Sean - Our IUI/Injectable miracle born Oct. 5, 2008.
Liam - Our second miracle born July 16, 2010
I love this. I think she would appreciate the funny pictures plus the funny captions. :-) I'm happy to help, but I'll be out of reach for the weekend. I don't know what our timeframe needs to be. I can do a slideshow Monday night if that's not too late...
I'm in...whatever, whenever, whereever...
I love the idea of funny pics of our little ones, or the hugs for Davez...
My heart is simply broken for her...
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LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
Life is beautiful!